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Sometimes, discretion is the better part of valor. The time constraints you mentioned in your original post. Discreet, might be what works best for you. |
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Edited by
tealbreeze
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Thu 03/19/15 10:34 AM
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There's something wrong if you are hiding 'it'.
 Discreet could put you in a dangerous situation too. |
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There's something wrong if you are hiding 'it'. Discreet could put you in a dangerous situation too. |
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The situation described sounds more like a friend with benefits, not a relationship.
Why would a relationship need to be discreet? Unless one of the people involved are already in a relationship. |
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The situation described sounds more like a friend with benefits, not a relationship. Why would a relationship need to be discreet? Unless one of the people involved are already in a relationship.  I haven't found the person I was going to ??? with I was just talking with the intention. but I feel so guilty about it I don't actually want to do it anymore.
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Well look at it this way. If it is discreet then you don't have to worry about public relationship (or relations) stuff. You know...things like questions about you and him, you making him dinner and him liking your cooking, him farting and scratching himself around you.....these are some examples but you get the picture. Plus, if you do break up (if you guys were a public item) then you don't end up eating a total of 30lbs. of combined junk food like Hagen Das, potato chips, cool whip and oatmeal cream pies. So see....there is a bright side.
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i think you should play with kids-:)
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is it wrong to have a discreet relationship with someone, so you don't have to go years without nookie. when I mean discreet I mean after the school run for a quick hour. then back on the job. so nobody knows lol please don't judge im s devoted mom. Who are we to judge. All I know is that every time you have that quick hour a puppy will die 
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Thu 03/19/15 12:17 PM
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The situation described sounds more like a friend with benefits, not a relationship. Why would a relationship need to be discreet? Unless one of the people involved are already in a relationship. I haven't found the person I was going to ??? with I was just talking with the intention. but I feel so guilty about it I don't actually want to do it anymore. Good god, why feel guilty? You only live once (okay, more than that, I believe in reincarnation, but still, lol). You can enjoy intimacy and sex, even when you don't have a partner. Nothing wrong with it. Just that you have to be careful whom you do it with, STDs and so on. You can try to find yourself someone to have an exclusive sexual relationship with. That way you get to know each other better, which often enhances sex, plus if you truly are exclusive, you can get tested and not worry about health issues anymore. When I was a single mom after my divorce, some 15 yrs ago, I had intended to find such a partner myself as well. I did have rules. Not at my place, I didn't want the neighbourhood to talk and my kids having to deal with backlash. So either his place or somewhere else (motel or whatever). Not when my kids were home. I didn't want to burden them with it. And NEVER with a married/involved man. Not because of the ethics, basically that's his problem not yours, but what if you happen to fall in love? THen you're in love with a married man meaning it can't go anywhere. So I either had and have such dates with someone A LOT younger, or when similar age, at least available (= single) just in case we'd fall in love. Don't feel guilty or bad, there's nothing wrong with wanting to enjoy your body and physical pleasure. Would be silly if we couldn't enjoy our bodies and sexuality outside of a relationship. This isn't the 1700s anymore you know! |
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Yes op.. very wise decision.. don't give in to your lustful urges..
don't let your need to feel pleasure. . to feel the warmth.. the softness.. .. the hot Tic Tac sweet breath.. . of a man or woman.. upon your own nakedness...NO.. you must be strong.. . keep holding tightly.. to that vibrator in your nightstand... oops I mean that Bible in your nightstand... .... don't give in to your desire... .... don't let your..... womanly needs.. to give pleasure and receive pleasure.. from another human being... NO.... don't let yourself enjoy. .. releasing the mother of all orgasms down upon your man friend... NO.... you must be strong.. right now you might be craving.. his long wet... Tongue and hot lips ..... as they kiss gently your passion flower... plunge deeply searching for your nectar... but NO.. you must be strong.... don't give in to your own oral fixation.... you need to fill the weight of him.. the throbbing hardness of him..... against the back of your throat...NO.. do not give in to the... lustful urges...... the small amount of guilt you might feel afterwards..... for being a very naughty naughty girl..... will outweigh the huge amount of pleasure... Mmmm.. so much pleasure..mmhmm. .... just say no...  . |
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^^^^
@ no1. 
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i think you should play with kids-:) What is that supposed to mean, does anyone know?? |
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There's nothing wrong with it at all.Why shouldn't two consenting single adults share their passion and lust ? I can understand the need for some discretion if there are kids,or the possibility of interfering family members or friends while it's just a physical relationship.But other than that,go for it and enjoy yourself safely
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i think you should play with kids-:) What is that supposed to mean, does anyone know?? . but I'm getting a creepy vibe...soo. EWwwwwww.... off with their head.. .. you can head up the lynch mob.. . I know... you're welcome.... . enjoy.... but just this one time.. . I don't want the power going to your head...lol 
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you may have noticed I said head 3 times..op..... be strong sister..lol
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If you feel guity after it is wrong for you
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I don't know I think there's always a little bit of guilt..
it's the wham bam thank you ma'am guilt... ... but it is the best kind of guilty pleasure around... ..... it's like playing with yourself.. ..... just for the sake of playing with yourself... you know you shouldn't.. but you do anyways..... and when you're done.... lying there standing there covered in your.... nectar.. . sure you feel a little guilty... but .. Yell..get over it..... ... just pick yourself up dust yourself off and get on with your day...lol.. ..
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Ohh. and Mr tin foil hat man...
so so funny.... the teacher has become the student.. Bows to grasshoppa..lmao 
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Yes op.. very wise decision.. don't give in to your lustful urges.. don't let your need to feel pleasure. . to feel the warmth.. the softness.. .. the hot Tic Tac sweet breath.. . of a man or woman.. upon your own nakedness...NO.. you must be strong.. . keep holding tightly.. to that vibrator in your nightstand... oops I mean that Bible in your nightstand... .... don't give in to your desire... .... don't let your..... womanly needs.. to give pleasure and receive pleasure.. from another human being... NO.... don't let yourself enjoy. .. releasing the mother of all orgasms down upon your man friend... NO.... you must be strong.. right now you might be craving.. his long wet... Tongue and hot lips ..... as they kiss gently your passion flower... plunge deeply searching for your nectar... but NO.. you must be strong.... don't give in to your own oral fixation.... you need to fill the weight of him.. the throbbing hardness of him..... against the back of your throat...NO.. do not give in to the... lustful urges...... the small amount of guilt you might feel afterwards..... for being a very naughty naughty girl..... will outweigh the huge amount of pleasure... Mmmm.. so much pleasure..mmhmm. .... just say no... . I was going to say "no" ... I somehow changed my mind now... |
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it's too late for you..^^..
you have given into your lustful desires... Byt the op.. there is still hope for her. . her light is still bright.. . her future untainted with lustful thoughts..... you and I are lost. to are lustful ways...but but her "she".. can still be saved..!... . we must be strong for her.. .... now come.... come to me.. ..... kneel down beside me.mmmm yes just like that..mmmm..yes..mmhhmm.. Ohh.yes let us pray for her... ..mmmm..... . |
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