In a world with internet and all these other dating techniques you think it would be easy to figure stuff out and get down to relationship but thats not the case.

I know i am a nice fun guy yeah i will admit i am a big guy but seriously that shouldn't turn anyone away cause really its about getting to know the person and i have said it before i am so willing to change for the person if they give a little effort to you know.

I am a bi guy and I just want someone is there anyone out there who can help or relate i am also looking for friends so come on talk to me dont be shy.

Welcome to JSH...
You are bound to find a friend or two in here...

klc is right.

I wont change my personality never its not what i meant by changing i would adjust my outer its what i have been wanting to do for years and maybe finding someone would help with that push.

i am who i am i know this and i love who i am.

Welcome Daxz. Ill agree with klc, just be you and enjoy your time on here and in time you might find what your looking for

well yes true i do see what your saying

Daxz, i'm thin and I know if I want to do something about it. it starts with me. looking for someone to change your outer is not going to work. What if it don't work out, what then? So it's you that has to start this within yourself

shadow: true that

I know maybe just cause i am young. shouldnt change for someone but for wanting to change for me.

Daxz I do know this. what ever we do in life we have to it for ourselves. Some times it's hard but by doing it and sticking with what ever choices we make. We do end up feeling better about ourselves because we did. So in time you can look back and be proud and know it was real because you did it for you and what makes you happy. but if your conten where your at. then stay with that choice but if not. Do it for you and when you feel your ready

Got to feel comfortable in your own skin and it helps to socialize with people who can see things the same way as you.

be yourself
if that accept you for you...
then screw 'em

Daxz..my momma used to say to me "baby you gotta love yourself before you can ever love anyone else"....so love you first, be comfortable with who you are, it takes time , I know..I have learned to love me this past year, and once I loved myself, it all fell into place from there

Daxz - be yourself. If you feel you need to change in some area then work on it, but do it for you. - be healthy, that's important.

It is all in the attitude …use the energy to strengthen your character so you will be a strong person. When you come across like such, you are able to tackle them and not have to beg to be accepted.

If you are a bi-guy, make yourself known so those with the same preference will notice you too.

Don’t be frustrate, try and enjoy the ride and learn things along the way……… *smiles

Just be you....welcome