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Topic: Do girls understand meaning of true love ??
yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 03/09/15 03:48 PM
I know true love. Unfortunately my ex was an abusive drunk. I still know what real love is and won't let the ex decide that. I was brought up better than that. I don't believe in generalizations and will NOT hold all men accountable for what I I have been though. Sorry but it's a touchy subject with me

Foursure Joined Fri 01/09/15 Posts: 3231	Mon 03/09/15 04:04 PM
Do girls understand meaning of true love ? I am asking this because as far as i know about love. Love means adore, desire, possess, care for and even worship. But we can't show how much we adore her... and they treat our...... desire as lust, possess as dictatorship, care as possessiveness..... Correct me if i m wrong...... OP you are in total confusion. Understand that True Love is something that comes with time. What you are describing is infatuation. That is the starting point. When you truly love someone it has to be the complete person that is loved not their outward appearance only. If you are all that you say you are and that your desire is not just lust then you would have patience and the will and conviction to allow the feeling to develop. People need to go through a lot of stuff together before you start spouting the 'Love' word.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 03/09/15 04:14 PM
Do girls understand meaning of true love ? I am asking this because as far as i know about love. Love means adore, desire, possess, care for and even worship. But we can't show how much we adore her... and they treat our...... desire as lust, possess as dictatorship, care as possessiveness..... Correct me if i m wrong...... Girls don't, but women do and your explanation for asking makes no sense and sounds like a personal problem rather than a problem with women in general..Your definition of love is a little scary too...Worship? ...Possess?...That's pretty extreme...So yeah, you're wrong...

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 03/09/15 05:24 PM
sorry..op.. I lost you right after.. Do girls...

DadCat Joined Thu 02/12/15 Posts: 501	Tue 03/10/15 01:07 AM Edited by DadCat on Tue 03/10/15 01:08 AM
Girls don't, but women do ... I was waiting to hear this. Thank you saying Leigh. I have made it a point to avoid using the word girls and boys and use women and men. I believe it allows us to denigrate the sexes.

DadCat Joined Thu 02/12/15 Posts: 501	Tue 03/10/15 01:12 AM Edited by DadCat on Tue 03/10/15 01:14 AM
... possess, ... even worship... I find these terms abhorrent when referring to a healthy relationship. I believe these ideas lead to abusive relationships. They remind me of power and control which is central to abuse.

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Tue 03/10/15 01:39 AM
Typical post and thought process that seeps out of the sub continent....

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Tue 03/10/15 01:43 AM
Do girls understand meaning of true love ? yes...true love means MiKey..

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Tue 03/10/15 01:49 AM
Do girls understand meaning of true love ? yes...true love means MiKey..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33365	Tue 03/10/15 02:53 AM
Do girls understand meaning of true love ? I am asking this because as far as i know about love. Love means adore, desire, possess, care for and even worship. But we can't show how much we adore her... and they treat our...... desire as lust, possess as dictatorship, care as possessiveness..... Correct me if i m wrong...... Did you go to an SM club? Look at what type of women you attract as they're a reflection of your own thoughts and convictions concerning love, women and relationships. Once you get that clear, you can change whatever needs to be changed in yourself so you start attracting different people in your life.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 03/10/15 09:50 PM
Do girls understand meaning of true love ? I am asking this because as far as i know about love. Love means adore, desire, possess, care for and even worship. But we can't show how much we adore her... and they treat our...... desire as lust, possess as dictatorship, care as possessiveness..... Correct me if i m wrong...... Ya gotta hit it and quit it dude.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Wed 03/11/15 02:36 AM
^^ The ladies must really respect you. Not.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 03/11/15 02:49 AM
^^ The ladies must really respect you. Not. Ahhhhh.....judgments.....love it!

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Wed 03/11/15 02:51 AM
There's a pattern with you. Bad romance? What's your story?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 03/11/15 02:59 AM
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IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Wed 03/11/15 03:05 AM
No soup for you

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 03/11/15 03:31 AM
Damn it man! Tough crowd.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Wed 03/11/15 03:55 AM
Hey, that's my line.

MelMaxx Joined Thu 10/28/10 Posts: 4724	Wed 03/11/15 09:59 AM
I was never brought up with fairy tales. I had real life. My dad died while serving his country when I was 7 and I was taught by my mother to be a strong woman with or with out a man YES ...I was going to say something along these lines, but you said it just fine! Also, I agree 100% with Leigh and DadCat about the "women and men" vs "girls and boys". ARE we adults or children?!