Ok, i need some advice. I dated this girl for almost three years, and we broke up back in august.In august she told me she'll always love me, blah blah blah. First i was told by her new bf that she didnt want anything to do with me and to stay out of their lives. So, i was like 'ok, no problem'. So i get on with my life and last week she offered me a ride home one night and i accepted. she then talked to me and said the complete opposite of what the replacement bf told me. what should i do?

stay away
go on with your life

what if i run into her again. or she starts callin?

What the heck were you listening to her new b/f for????????? if you don't mind sharing her with others, work it out. Otherwise get away and stay away!!!!

well lets see if this helps, i was in a 10yr relationship with someone who moved on we will be split up for a year now this month but the good part bout it even though he has moved on were still best of friends im even friends with the new gf. maybe u could just be friends with her there is nothing wrong with that but still move on with you life. i'm doing that with mine but it still good that i'm friends with my ex

Run don't walk. Do not collect $200. Be thankful you dodged a bullet.

if u really like her and went out with her for three yrs. ur gonna talk to her. no matter what anyone says. good luck chris

Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.................

why did you break up in the first place, just remember there is more than one side to every story

but i dont want to talk to her. i'll just stay away and hope she leaves me alone. i got over her. that's why i said damnit.

Humm well must say I go with viking on what he said WTF ya listening to her new b/f for. If you see her again be pleasant with her but move on with your life. Sorry but she did and you should also.

If it comes down to it she starts calling ect....... be point blank with her. Ask what's up you want a relationship with me or not?????? If so other b/f has to go if that is what you want never start by being a third wheel or that is all you will ever be.

Good luck!!

If you don't ever plan on going back with her then move on and like Viking said stay away as well.

we broke up because she cheated on me.

she literally cheated ON me. i woke up and they were havin sex on top of me. jk lol. but she did. and i cant be unpleasant to anyone. dont have it in me. maybe i should get another gf, not to show her off, but to keep movin on. without interruption.

Humm Chris been there done that and should have the damn T-Shirt to prove it!!!!

My ex cheated, when I made the choice enough was enough I ended it turned my back and walke away without looking back.

I'm one that when I walk away I walk away no amount of begging pleading will change a thing for me they had that chance and made them aware of it before. I walked away.

Sorry after that point oh well they are on there own there problem now not mine again.

Soooooooooooooooooooo now I SAY TURN WALK AWAY WITH A SMILE THERE LOSS!!!!!

If she cheated, then she did not have the courage or integrity to break the relationship off with you before doing so. That would require some degree of conflict or discomfort for her to be upfront with you, therefore, I would be skeptical of anything she says.

well, i am over her. its just the fact that she came waltzing back in.

anyone know any hitmen? jk

Women.....we change our minds like we change our underwear.....accept the fact that you will never be able to figure us out and move on to plan B.

i know, its in the man book that i wrote

I would say move on with your life...and don't look back. The only place to go...is forward. I hope it works out for you