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Topic: how do u know if its over or not......
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Tue 02/24/15 01:33 PM
ive been left hanging if its over or not , i dont wanna move on without the closure, well maybe im still hoping something will still turn out goo, but once in a while , at the back of my mind it tells that its over and don, havent talked though yet... im in dilemma help

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Tue 02/24/15 01:39 PM
how do you know if it's over or not..
. you come home and the walk in closet is empty..
.. and all your vinyl records are smashed on the floor..
... and your wall safe is empty....
..
. oh wait a minute... the topic is how do you know when it's over..

.ohhh.. I thought it was how do you know . when you've been robbed...

.hmm.. same thing isn't it...lol

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insatiablelesbi's photo
Tue 02/24/15 02:00 PM

how do you know if it's over or not..
. you come home and the walk in closet is empty..
.. and all your vinyl records are smashed on the floor..
... and your wall safe is empty....
..
. oh wait a minute... the topic is how do you know when it's over..

.ohhh.. I thought it was how do you know . when you've been robbed...

.hmm.. same thing isn't it...lol

..


Haha true enough!

In response to original post though, it's difficult, I guess if in your heart, or their heart, or both hearts, it's over, well, then it's over. I've been "single" for last 5 months but still feels like it isn't over, there's always that hope I guess, when you love so deeply. Wishing you the best in your healing journey <3

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Tue 02/24/15 02:45 PM

ive been left hanging if its over or not , i dont wanna move on without the closure, well maybe im still hoping something will still turn out goo, but once in a while , at the back of my mind it tells that its over and don, havent talked though yet... im in dilemma help

once you are fortunate enough to experience that magic spark of being in love with someone, i don't think it's ever completely over....at least not for me, i look back with fondness at all the women i've been in love with over the years....jmo though...

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Tue 02/24/15 02:50 PM


ive been left hanging if its over or not , i dont wanna move on without the closure, well maybe im still hoping something will still turn out goo, but once in a while , at the back of my mind it tells that its over and don, havent talked though yet... im in dilemma help

once you are fortunate enough to experience that magic spark of being in love with someone, i don't think it's ever completely over....at least not for me, i look back with fondness at all the women i've been in love with over the years....jmo though...
ARGO I can see you have never came across one of my crazy azz exes LOLlaugh

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Tue 02/24/15 02:54 PM

ive been left hanging if its over or not , i dont wanna move on without the closure, well maybe im still hoping something will still turn out goo, but once in a while , at the back of my mind it tells that its over and don, havent talked though yet... im in dilemma help
Sort it out asap, but don't chase a lost cause, as you'll feel worse than you do if it's just a clean break! At the end of the day, things start and things end, that's just life my friend? Hope it works out for you, but if not, I wish you all the best, ok?

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Tue 02/24/15 03:25 PM


ive been left hanging if its over or not , i dont wanna move on without the closure, well maybe im still hoping something will still turn out goo, but once in a while , at the back of my mind it tells that its over and don, havent talked though yet... im in dilemma help
Sort it out asap, but don't chase a lost cause, as you'll feel worse than you do if it's just a clean break! At the end of the day, things start and things end, that's just life my friend? Hope it works out for you, but if not, I wish you all the best, ok?
Simply put on a pot of coffee and then smell that is it!!

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Tue 02/24/15 03:27 PM
When they do that, it means they're thinking about ditching you. When a woman likes you she will be messaging you constantly.
It's over my friend, accept it and move on. Hanging on only makes you more unattractive to her. But the moment you do move on, she'll start desiring you again. I've always said women are evil.

kc0003's photo
Tue 02/24/15 03:31 PM
it's pretty simple really.

when you get on a dating site and have to ask complete strangers.

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Tue 02/24/15 04:02 PM
its kinda hard nd still crying myself to sleep, sooo pathetic hahahahahah and he havent talked to me all of a sudden why he shouldve been honest enough to tell me right

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Tue 02/24/15 04:03 PM
so pathetic ha?at least i know what it is i relly dont hav someone to ask e hahahah

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Tue 02/24/15 04:04 PM
inused to chase call and text but then i said i dont wanna do that i just keep myself silent,

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Tue 02/24/15 04:05 PM
or maybe they like broke up with closure nd they talked that hey its not gonna work up maybe we should give each other space, i guess that would be better

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Tue 02/24/15 04:09 PM
honey im a woman, so the same goes in action of mqn that mean he is ditching me arghhhh it hurts

Goofball73's photo
Tue 02/24/15 09:00 PM
When you feel that it is over......then it normally is.

kc0003's photo
Tue 02/24/15 09:03 PM

so pathetic ha?at least i know what it is i relly dont hav someone to ask e hahahah


i was just pointing out that here you are asking, that should tell you all you need to know.

new_casanova's photo
Tue 02/24/15 09:18 PM
Edited by new_casanova on Tue 02/24/15 09:18 PM
You know it is over when she shows the true nature of her species

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/25/15 10:51 AM
When you've let yourself go physically.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/25/15 10:53 AM

When you feel that it is over......then it normally is.


Or in your case when you stopped calling me. grumble

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Wed 02/25/15 11:53 AM
Depends on how serious the relationship was in the first place, like me, just ending a marriage, so you know when you file the divorce papers. But just a few dates but never lived together, then when the calls, dates, etc. stop. Or like other's said, when the touching stops. But that applies in all cases as far as I'm concerned.

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