My wife and I are recently separated I let jealousy take over and it made me act not myself I cant move past her she was my everything and says she wont give me another chance I need advice.

Move on bro....i know it hurts but in the long run think of it this way you get to fall in love again..... Go for it is increadable
..good luck.

give her some space for now ...maybe she needs it....

Hi balboski76

I feel for you, if I can offer my take ... you say she was your everything.

I see that as the main problem, you didn't see her as a person but maybe you thought she 'belonged' to you.

It would seem so if, as you say jealousy got the better of you.

It is impossible for any of us to advise you to move on or not. You and your wife are the only two to make that decision.

Separation is not divorce, maybe there is time for you to work on your self and she might see that you care enough to make the supreme effort.

If things are ended - then you need to go through it - like we all have - take the pain and hope you have learned enough for next time.

it's no fun

My advice to you,remove that word"can't "out of your life,substitute it with "can",and adapt"!!!!

Its been a month and a half and I have not seen her I realize my problem and let it go she just dont want to give me a chance sucks because we have a 2 year old together.

It's easier said than done,I know,but start from there!!!

well you have to man up & show her you really love her & value what you had & prove it....she might realize you messed up but really love her & might give you a chance

that's what I'm trying to show her but its hard 70 miles apart. I know in my heart I've changed.

Take some time out for yourself. Regroup, hang out with some friends give it some time and space and maybe it will all workout, or maybe you will move on to someone else either way best of luck to you.

MOVE ON !!!! I HOPE YOU WAKE UP AND SEE YOUR PART IN THE RELATIONSHIP......THE OTHER PERSON NEEDS TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES WHEN THEY ARE WITH YOU......BECAUSE WHEN IT COMES TO FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS MEN AND WEMAN TRULY ARE FROM DIFFERENT PLANETS......SHE WAS TOUGHT TO DEAL WITH HER FEELINGS MUCH DIFFERENTLY THEN US THATS WHY RELATIONSHIPS NEED WORK THEY NEVER RUN THEMSELVES....THE ONLY CHANCE A GUY CAN HAVE IN CASE LIKE THIS IS WHEN SHE SEE'S THAT ''YOU REALY GET IT''......

Don't give up but give her some time. If she loves you she will come around. Is it possible your jealousy wasn't the reason for the split? Or did she try to make you jealous because she needed to put the blame on you for not wanting a relationship anymore? Idk just a thought. I know it hurts but it will get better. In the mean time make some new friends, that will help. Good luck to you sweetie.

Went through the same thing myself last year... Found it best to just move on... She was very shady anyways...

You can't make yourself not love her anymore, maybe you can move on in your life, but will always feel something for her.

Nonsense!! Nothing is "can't",may not be easy ,but not can't,if one plant such negativity in one's head,then so should it be,but if he blames himself,rather than just accepting the fact that it was never meant to be,THEN,it's quite possible he will never let go!!