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Been single 2 months, met some good men but when they want to go out on a date I make up excuses not to when I really want to. Does anyone else have this prob? Advice plz...
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2 months is not long & i know what you mean....it could be you're not ready to date or still not over your past r/ship or something
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Lol same why for me . My husband of 17
Years passed away 2 years ago with cancer. I am a newby to the world of online dating . Just be honest and what happens will. If I text you for 10 min it's not ok To ask for my number. No we can not go out! To me trust is not freely given and anyone willing to give me time is worth The weight . |
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You need time to find yourself.....2 months in my opinion is certainly not long enough....took me three years....best test of patience ever....
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Time heals...
Time can tell... |
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Been single 2 months, met some good men but when they want to go out on a date I make up excuses not to when I really want to. Does anyone else have this prob? Advice plz... |
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Been single 2 months, met some good men but when they want to go out on a date I make up excuses not to when I really want to. Does anyone else have this prob? Advice plz... |
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Although I Am not in a hurry .
My life is not depended on having a man For anything but enjoying time and Going from there . What I found To help me in Questions of how this all should Go was looking at the definition . Love I realized after reading it If this is the main goal I wish to receive how can I get there. It's my guide In being ok with anyone else that's Not . |
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Honor your instincts they are there for
A reason . |
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Although I Am not in a hurry . My life is not depended on having a man For anything but enjoying time and Going from there . What I found To help me in Questions of how this all should Go was looking at the definition . Love I realized after reading it If this is the main goal I wish to receive how can I get there. It's my guide In being ok with anyone else that's Not . A woman will survive without a man in life but, life shared with a love partner is still one or if not, the best thing during our existence. |
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Thank you , you are probably right
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Thank you sweetie
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That's a thought, thanks
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Appreciate your input
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Love is patient; love is kind and envies no one. Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude; never selfish, not quick to take offence. Love keeps no score of wrongs; does not gloat over another's sins, but delights in the truth. There is nothing love cannot face; there is not limit to its faith, its hope, and its endurance. In a word, there are three things that last forever: faith, hope, and love; but the greatest of them all is love.
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It's not the dependency of a man, it's just the lonely part that I am struggling with after being married 18yrs. Thank you for your input.
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Thank you everyone, I am already seeing the reasoning of my actions. I am just not emotionally ready for dating.
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Thank you everyone, I am already seeing the reasoning of my actions. I am just not emotionally ready for dating. Good Luck girl ! You can do it ! |
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Been single 2 months, met some good men but when they want to go out on a date I make up excuses not to when I really want to. Does anyone else have this prob? Advice plz... take time to heal. make friends and get to know people. when I first joined this site I'd been alone for 3 years. thought it was time to stop being a hermit. it didn't take long to realize my heart wasn't in it. I started hanging out in the forums and making friends. through the same interaction I made friends with a special man and we are now dating. it will happen when you're ready. good luck |
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Been single 2 months, met some good men but when they want to go out on a date I make up excuses not to when I really want to. Does anyone else have this prob? Advice plz... YES I HAVE, it means to me that i need to take a break and give my mind a much needed rest.... |
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