Topic: Can't go through with it
cntrygrl45's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:20 PM
Been single 2 months, met some good men but when they want to go out on a date I make up excuses not to when I really want to. Does anyone else have this prob? Advice plz...

no photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:29 PM
2 months is not long & i know what you mean....it could be you're not ready to date or still not over your past r/ship or something drinks

grasshopper3758's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:30 PM
Lol same why for me . My husband of 17
Years passed away 2 years ago with cancer.
I am a newby to the world of online dating .
Just be honest and what happens will.
If I text you for 10 min it's not ok
To ask for my number. No we can not go out! To me trust is not freely given and anyone willing to give me time is worth
The weight .

mikey5360's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:34 PM
You need time to find yourself.....2 months in my opinion is certainly not long enough....took me three years....best test of patience ever....

elle_rose's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:36 PM
Time heals...
Time can tell...

Awatersign's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:36 PM

Been single 2 months, met some good men but when they want to go out on a date I make up excuses not to when I really want to. Does anyone else have this prob? Advice plz...
Double date perhaps? Or maybe something similar until you're ready for one on one?

m3k4y's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:40 PM

Been single 2 months, met some good men but when they want to go out on a date I make up excuses not to when I really want to. Does anyone else have this prob? Advice plz...
relate much..but that was before. .only reason why is, too scared that my father will find out...lol..a chaperone would help...but yes..two months is way too early. .

grasshopper3758's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:41 PM
Although I Am not in a hurry .
My life is not depended on having a man
For anything but enjoying time and
Going from there .
What I found To help me in
Questions of how this all should
Go was looking at the definition .
Love I realized after reading it
If this is the main goal I wish to receive how can I get there. It's my guide
In being ok with anyone else that's
Not .

grasshopper3758's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:42 PM
Honor your instincts they are there for
A reason .

elle_rose's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:49 PM

Although I Am not in a hurry .
My life is not depended on having a man
For anything but enjoying time and
Going from there .
What I found To help me in
Questions of how this all should
Go was looking at the definition .
Love I realized after reading it
If this is the main goal I wish to receive how can I get there. It's my guide
In being ok with anyone else that's
Not .


A woman will survive without a man in life but,
life shared with a love partner is still one or if not,
the best thing during our existence.

cntrygrl45's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:56 PM
Thank you , you are probably right

cntrygrl45's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:57 PM
Thank you sweetie

cntrygrl45's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:58 PM
That's a thought, thanks

cntrygrl45's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:59 PM
Appreciate your input

grasshopper3758's photo
Fri 02/20/15 06:59 PM
Love is patient; love is kind and envies no one. Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude; never selfish, not quick to take offence. Love keeps no score of wrongs; does not gloat over another's sins, but delights in the truth. There is nothing love cannot face; there is not limit to its faith, its hope, and its endurance. In a word, there are three things that last forever: faith, hope, and love; but the greatest of them all is love.

cntrygrl45's photo
Fri 02/20/15 07:03 PM
It's not the dependency of a man, it's just the lonely part that I am struggling with after being married 18yrs. Thank you for your input.

cntrygrl45's photo
Fri 02/20/15 07:06 PM
Thank you everyone, I am already seeing the reasoning of my actions. I am just not emotionally ready for dating.

elle_rose's photo
Fri 02/20/15 07:15 PM

Thank you everyone, I am already seeing the reasoning of my actions. I am just not emotionally ready for dating.


Good Luck girl ! You can do it !

dreamerana's photo
Fri 02/20/15 07:24 PM

Been single 2 months, met some good men but when they want to go out on a date I make up excuses not to when I really want to. Does anyone else have this prob? Advice plz...

take time to heal.
make friends and get to know people.
when I first joined this site I'd been alone for 3 years. thought it was time to stop being a hermit.
it didn't take long to realize my heart wasn't in it.
I started hanging out in the forums and making friends. through the same interaction I made friends with a special man and we are now dating.
it will happen when you're ready.
good luck

sparkyae5's photo
Sat 02/21/15 07:16 AM

Been single 2 months, met some good men but when they want to go out on a date I make up excuses not to when I really want to. Does anyone else have this prob? Advice plz...


YES I HAVE, it means to me that i need to take a break and give my mind a much needed rest....