I'm only interested in people who have overcome financial hardship through hard work, dedication, and perseverance. I don't mind if they used government funding or any means that never hurt anyone to accomplish this. However, he must be handsome with a good sense of humor. Is this reasonable enough or too picky?

I get that ^^

When I read the original post, I thought this lady must be out of her mind, but I think I'm starting to understand what she's saying. She can always correct me if I'm wrong.

I think what she's looking for is a self-made gentleman. While I don't personally need a rich man, I can appreciate a man who became successful in his career/profession because he strived for his success rather than a man who had everything handed to him because he came from money.

I hope a woman who makes a bold statement like OP just did should ensure she will measure up to the standard she Expects a man to live up to.

Disclaimer: No lady, I am not defending you either.

yeah, I can see where it would kind of make sense.." looking for a self made man who strived for success".. nothing wrong with that.. but then she said she would also accept someone who hit the lottery.

So that whole " self made" statement.. went right out the window. its about $$$$$$$$$$$$$

And so these qualified men have info about your
What are you adding to the pot? You from what I have seen come for a good background... Are well educated and am interesting conversation wise.... I'm surprised because you are a gem in your own right...... Good luck and stay true to yourself....you deserve the best....