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My ex wife was big when I met her. She was awesome. Nice smile and personality. She started beating herself up over gaining weight. I said to her...... Change! She was the WORLD to me...... No matter the weight. Weight has nothing to do with it.
I was always very supportive. She was going to Zumba classes at the time.......... I was on the couch with a hip injury for 9+ mths. Kicked me while I was down. Small part of the story. Msg me if you want more. |
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nice use of a cliffhanger.^^...
. so if your partner gains a lot of weight... that is! they change from who they used to be physically..to someone who is now overweight.. is that any worse than.. becoming an alcoholic.. a drug addict... .. |
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Were you concerned with what they looked like or for the inner qualities they possessed! Reverse the situation! What if you no longer looked the same to them? You've put on weight! Does that change who you are at the innermost level? I guess it all depends on whether you care about the quality of the person you fell in love with. If you cared about the genuine person behind the outer package, then it would make it obvious you are not only interested in having eye candy partners! You'll never establish any kind of real relationship if what you're looking for constant sex appeal! What happens when women no longer find you attractive? How would you like to be dumped because you no longer fit the sexy profile? There is always someone sexier around the corner, but can you trust them with you as you are? How shallow do you choose to be? Are you in a relationship because of their looks or for the person within? Only you can answer that for yourself! To me, character is of a much higher value than the illusion of good looks! JMHO !
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I like a woman with a butt that you can grab and take a car antenna to Hey - that's how I got vanaerial disease.... 
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oh definitely!! the street goes both ways..lol.. and as hard as it is for me! to believe.. I suppose there could be somebody sexier, just around the corner than me..lol..jk. of course.
..my.god....lol.. I'm too worried about losing my hair.. to pay attention to my weight gain..lol.. |
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Edited by
tealbreeze
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Wed 02/18/15 06:38 PM
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oh definitely!! the street goes both ways..lol.. and as hard as it is for me! to believe.. I suppose there could be somebody sexier, just around the corner than me..lol..jk. of course. ..my.god....lol.. I'm too worried about losing my hair.. to pay attention to my weight gain..lol.. There's always E.D. to be worried about, not vain issues. Physical functions. |
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. what happens when your partner.. starts to put on, a little too much weight... now you have been supportive.. offer to jog with them or go to the gym.... participate in a diet with them... but they just don't seem interested.. now it has gotten to the point.. Were you! just do not find them physically attractive anymore.. .... would it be acceptable to leave them !.. End the relationship.. ... because they like their donuts a little too much...lol.... . . Absolutely D!!....Do them a huge favor and dump their fat azz...That way they will have an opportunity to find a person who loves them.... 
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so if I'm reading the room right..lol..
.. if I may step out on a limb here.. . I'm taking it, it is not acceptable. to kick their fat azz..to the curb.. .yes..? |
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I would be more concerned about her health, as I am sure, I am far from perfect in her eyes also.Your one liners are killing me phd
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I knew my girl 4 years before we got married. She was the one trying to rush me in.
Hey, you have to get to know someone before you do the knot thing. |
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There must be a reason why some donuts have holes and some have fillings....why are they called dough-nuts, anyways?
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Edited by
m3k4y
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Wed 02/18/15 11:11 PM
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. what happens when your partner.. starts to put on, a little too much weight... now you have been supportive.. offer to jog with them or go to the gym.... participate in a diet with them... but they just don't seem interested.. now it has gotten to the point.. Were you! just do not find them physically attractive anymore.. .... would it be acceptable to leave them !.. End the relationship.. ... because they like their donuts a little too much...lol.... . . I don't understand the problem 
I try fattening them up so they can't run away. But when they see HOW I make donuts, they don't want to eat them. 
 
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Edited by
Awatersign
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Wed 02/18/15 11:26 PM
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There must be a reason why some donuts have holes and some have fillings....why are they called dough-nuts, anyways?
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Have you ever thought there could be a medical reason why they continue to gain weight? 
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There must be a reason why some donuts have holes and some have fillings....why are they called dough-nuts, anyways?
Dolly might beg to disagree...
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. what happens when your partner.. starts to put on, a little too much weight... now you have been supportive.. offer to jog with them or go to the gym.... participate in a diet with them... but they just don't seem interested.. now it has gotten to the point.. Were you! just do not find them physically attractive anymore.. .... would it be acceptable to leave them !.. End the relationship.. ... because they like their donuts a little too much...lol.... . . |
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There must be a reason why some donuts have holes and some have fillings....why are they called dough-nuts, anyways?
Dolly might beg to disagree...
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Pancho makes delicious donuts .. Just never use his toothpaste :-) What's in the toothpaste? 
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Edited by
theseacoast
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Thu 02/19/15 12:44 AM
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Women from my family have such a rule: if he is good, make him fat, so no other would want him
And the treasure is yours
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