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Topic: I am wondering if guys truly read any of the profiles?
Noa41 Joined Tue 01/06/15 Posts: 943	Fri 02/20/15 04:58 AM
Then why post in here? My wife was cheating on me on Yahoo Chat. If you're married, you should not be on any type of forum like this! But he just posts on the forums for fun, and for friends. I don't see the harm in that. Sorry babes, you don't come to a dating website just to chat if you're married.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 02/20/15 05:01 AM
Then why post in here? My wife was cheating on me on Yahoo Chat. If you're married, you should not be on any type of forum like this! But he just posts on the forums for fun, and for friends. I don't see the harm in that. Sorry babes, you don't come to a dating website just to chat if you're married. I don't think its just dating, there's many people on here just to participate in the forums and to make friends. Me personally if I was with someone, I wouldn't be on here because I'd rather be doing other and better things with him. But that's just me.

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Fri 02/20/15 05:07 AM
Then why post in here? My wife was cheating on me on Yahoo Chat. If you're married, you should not be on any type of forum like this! But he just posts on the forums for fun, and for friends. I don't see the harm in that. Sorry babes, you don't come to a dating website just to chat if you're married. Oh and you'd be the World authority about how people think? I wouldn't throw away what i have with my wife kids for anything, or anybody. I come on here and get a laugh, that's all. My wife knows I come on here, as I've nothing to hide from her. Not everybody is sneaky, some of us are genuine in what we say!

Noa41 Joined Tue 01/06/15 Posts: 943	Fri 02/20/15 05:09 AM
No. If you're married, you do not visit these types of sites. That's the way I see it........ Period. It's just wrong! I have a big heart and it was crushed! I did everything around the house....... everything!! Went to update her PC one day......... Let's just say, things went downhill from there.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 02/20/15 05:13 AM
No. If you're married, you do not visit these types of sites. That's the way I see it........ Period. It's just wrong! I have a big heart and it was crushed! I did everything around the house....... everything!! Went to update her PC one day......... Let's just say, things went downhill from there. If your married and on here like messi, for fun on the forums that's fine. He's not a cheater. He's a real nice guy. Just having fun in the forums. I'm sorry what happened to you, but not everyone's like that, I'm not, I have never cheated and I never will

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 02/20/15 05:14 AM
No. If you're married, you do not visit these types of sites. That's the way I see it........ Period. It's just wrong! I have a big heart and it was crushed! I did everything around the house....... everything!! Went to update her PC one day......... Let's just say, things went downhill from there. If your married and on here like messi, for fun on the forums that's fine. He's not a cheater. He's a real nice guy. Just having fun in the forums. I'm sorry what happened to you, but not everyone's like that, I'm not, I have never cheated and I never would

Justfun_1 Joined Tue 07/23/13 Posts: 698	Fri 02/20/15 05:15 AM
No. If you're married, you do not visit these types of sites. That's the way I see it........ Period. It's just wrong! I have a big heart and it was crushed! I did everything around the house....... everything!! Went to update her PC one day......... Let's just say, things went downhill from there. From what you just said Noa,it's wrong for you,and i accept that. But many people like Messi are lucky and in a trusting relationship. Hopefully you will find someone one day to restore your faith in human nature.There are quite a few in the forums that are in relationships,and are here with their partners blessing because they have trust and know the difference between chatting and having a laugh,and playing around. But i do hope you can work out your trust issues and accept that what doesn't work for you,often can,and does work for others

Noa41 Joined Tue 01/06/15 Posts: 943	Fri 02/20/15 05:20 AM
So, you're married and in a good relationship............ You decide hey, I'm going to go to a dating chat site! Uhhhhh, NO!

Noa41 Joined Tue 01/06/15 Posts: 943	Fri 02/20/15 05:24 AM
Does anyone agree with me? This is crazy. You don't go hunting down a Dating Website when you're married.

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Fri 02/20/15 05:27 AM
So, you're married and in a good relationship............ You decide hey, I'm going to go to a dating chat site! Uhhhhh, NO! Some of us aren't paranoid, like you though? Me and my wife trust each other 100%, simple as!

Noa41 Joined Tue 01/06/15 Posts: 943	Fri 02/20/15 05:31 AM
There are many chat sites out there. To pick a dating site, something's awry.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 02/20/15 05:32 AM
Does anyone agree with me? This is crazy. You don't go hunting down a Dating Website when you're married. He's not hunting, just having a good time in the forums.

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Fri 02/20/15 05:37 AM
There are many chat sites out there. To pick a dating site, something's awry. Think you need to work your own life out, before you comment on mine? If you can't believe that people can trust each other totally and play ball with that person then you'll blow every relationship you ever have, as without trust, you can't have a relationship, well not a happy one anyway!

Noa41 Joined Tue 01/06/15 Posts: 943	Fri 02/20/15 05:38 AM
Does anyone agree with me? This is crazy. You don't go hunting down a Dating Website when you're married. He's not hunting, just having a good time in the forums. That's not the point. Why come to a dating site in the first place is my question.......... AHEM........ While Married.

Noa41 Joined Tue 01/06/15 Posts: 943	Fri 02/20/15 05:40 AM
There are many chat sites out there. To pick a dating site, something's awry. Think you need to work your own life out, before you comment on mine? If you can't believe that people can trust each other totally and play ball with that person then you'll blow every relationship you ever have, as without trust, you can't have a relationship, well not a happy one anyway! No, it's not that....... Again, a person that's married does not go on a dating site to chat.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 02/20/15 05:43 AM
Does anyone agree with me? This is crazy. You don't go hunting down a Dating Website when you're married. He's not hunting, just having a good time in the forums. That's not the point. Why come to a dating site in the first place is my question.......... AHEM........ While Married. I don't class this site as just a dating site. I would come here just for the forums even if I wasn't looking for anyone. The forums are fun

Noa41 Joined Tue 01/06/15 Posts: 943	Fri 02/20/15 05:47 AM
They are fun and I like your personality, but it is a dating site.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 02/20/15 05:53 AM Edited by debbie1980 on Fri 02/20/15 05:53 AM
They are fun and I like your personality, but it is a dating site. It's for both. And thankyou. Sorry you've been hurt.

Noa41 Joined Tue 01/06/15 Posts: 943	Fri 02/20/15 06:01 AM
They are fun and I like your personality, but it is a dating site. It's for both. And thankyou. Sorry you've been hurt. No worries Debs........ Thank you :(

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 02/20/15 06:09 AM
They are fun and I like your personality, but it is a dating site. It's for both. And thankyou. Sorry you've been hurt. No worries Debs........ Thank you :( Don't be sad,