Topic: Deleting a match
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Sun 02/15/15 11:07 AM
How do you delete a person mutually matched with you?

soufiehere's photo
Sun 02/15/15 11:43 AM
How do I remove someone from my Mutual Match list?
If clicking on the wee box next to their name on your
MutualMatch list does not remove them, you can use this:
http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/delete_connection/XXXXXXX
where the 'Xs' represent their user-number.

To get their user-number, it is the last digits on their
profile page in the address box, replace the 'Xs' with those.

If you do not have an address bar, right click on their
(deactivated) user-name on their profile, click on 'Properties'
on the drop-down menu, and take the user-number from the URL
(link) provided.

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Sun 02/15/15 12:58 PM

How do I remove someone from my Mutual Match list?
If clicking on the wee box next to their name on your
MutualMatch list does not remove them, you can use this:
http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/delete_connection/XXXXXXX
where the 'Xs' represent their user-number.

To get their user-number, it is the last digits on their
profile page in the address box, replace the 'Xs' with those.

If you do not have an address bar, right click on their
(deactivated) user-name on their profile, click on 'Properties'
on the drop-down menu, and take the user-number from the URL
(link) provided.

Are matches real? No offense, but I have gotten 28, with no views and no mail. I am really suspicious. Especially since when I went totally honest.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 02/15/15 02:47 PM

Are matches real? No offense, but I have gotten 28, with no views and no mail. I am really suspicious. Especially since when I went totally honest.

They are precisely what they appear to be.

If someone says 'Yes' or 'Maybe' when viewing your profile,
and you also say 'Yes' or 'Maybe' to their profile, a Match
is made.

If either of you says 'No'..no Match.

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Sun 02/15/15 02:59 PM
There is no "wee box" to check to remove like they have for email, and while I appreciate your help, it should not be so complicated to delete a match that you do not want to match with…

soufiehere's photo
Sun 02/15/15 03:56 PM

There is no "wee box" to check to remove like they have for email, and while I appreciate your help, it should not be so complicated to delete a match that you do not want to match with…

Actually, there is.
It is to the right of their name on your MM page:
This is the blue check box for removing mutual matches:


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Sun 02/15/15 04:47 PM
Yes I found it... Thought it was an email symbol... Thank you so much for helping me, and your patience...

:smile:

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Sun 02/15/15 05:21 PM
:thumbsup:

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Mon 02/16/15 08:37 AM

I don't have a problem with deleting it's after matches have been deleted the number saying
they want to match never changes. There is no one in mutual match yet the number keeps
increasing. I'll get an Email notification of MM go to it and no one there, it would be nice if
this could get fixed.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 02/16/15 10:26 AM


I don't have a problem with deleting it's after matches have been deleted the number saying
they want to match never changes. There is no one in mutual match yet the number keeps
increasing. I'll get an Email notification of MM go to it and no one there, it would be nice if
this could get fixed.

I am still watching the MM counter for clues :-)
However, my number goes up when someone has said 'Yes'
or 'Maybe' to my profile.

This means there is someone in your potential Match link
page that has said 'Yes' or 'Maybe' to your profile.

It is not a Match until you have also said 'Yes' or 'Maybe'
to their profile.


I realize YOU cannot tell that someone has said 'Yes' or
'Maybe' unless you have the Premium package, which has a link
for 'People who have clicked 'Yes' or Maybe' to your profile.'

Therefore, seeing that Match number climb, with no additional
actual Mutual Matches means someone has done the 'Yes' 'Maybe'
thing to your profile.