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Okay i am just getting into this dating thing. It is nothing like when i was younger, the guys seem to just want to be my friend. None of them ask me out, like on a date! Is there something wrong with me that i am just not seeing. I think i am nice and i mind my manners. I mean i like to laugh, and i think i have a good personality. Or am i just jumping the gun here!! I need some advice!
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hello littleangel..
Are you comfortable asking them out for a non threatening coffee, one late afternoon, or one morning? Some men are not sure of the 'rules of engagement' either anymore... so I make them up, according to my feelings and the person I would like to know better. I'm not scared of the word 'no', so I just barrel in and ask...and surprisingly most men have said 'ok. |
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maybe i should give it a try!! thanks-
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i agree with Jess.
also some relationships build from friendships. |
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Hello LittleAngel: I have to agree with Jess on this. Hope you don't mind me saying this but you are a very pretty girl. Just give it some time, be yourself, and ask them. Who knows what goes on in the minds of men.
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well Id ask you out on a date but Im a little far away from you....
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Thanks- i just wanted to make sure i am not missing something here- you know when i was younger guys asked me out all the time and this is all new to me, so i thought i would be the same as back then, it's nothing like it was. I thought something was wrong!!
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I don't know, I've done plenty of asking if I was interested. It seems to work. Go for it, the worst thing that will happen is that they'll say no and you're no worse off than you were before.
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Angel -- it's a new world -- sometimes we got to do the asking.
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Thanks-bad
I have noticed alot of things have changed!! I thank all of you for your help though! |
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littleangel, listen to jess & some of the other ladies of the site. They won't steer you wrong. Also listen to that little voice inside you, friends first is a good thing. Build from there & always keep yourself safe.
Want to suggest coffee to someone, do it. "Nothing ventured...Nothing gained. |
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well I'll be in San Antonio in the spring..dont know how far that is from you but if youre still confused we can go get a coffee, beer, w/e. LOL
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Sure, if I leave now I could probably be there by Spring...
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lol!!
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I was spose to be in Texas 2 months ago but couldnt get off work so i sent my kids down for 2 weeks. Now that I got laid off I cant afford to go lol.
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that sucks- i live by houston, on the north side!
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so yur kinda close to where drew carey lives.!!!!! lol
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my sister just moved from houston to San Antonio a few months ago. Shes lived there forever and Ive never been there lol. I just keep letting my boys go down
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Alot of stars live out here- they think it's country, they can get away from the public eye. I know where a few live!!
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Litle angel u arre a charming beautiful young lady, let that shine through and u will be fine, it will come to u in time!!!
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