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Topic: I need someones opinion-please!
1littleangel's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:05 AM
Okay i am just getting into this dating thing. It is nothing like when i was younger, the guys seem to just want to be my friend. None of them ask me out, like on a date! Is there something wrong with me that i am just not seeing. I think i am nice and i mind my manners. I mean i like to laugh, and i think i have a good personality. Or am i just jumping the gun here!! I need some advice!

Jess642's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:09 AM
hello littleangel..flowerforyou

Are you comfortable asking them out for a non threatening coffee, one late afternoon, or one morning?

Some men are not sure of the 'rules of engagement' either anymore...

so I make them up, according to my feelings and the person I would like to know better.

I'm not scared of the word 'no', so I just barrel in and ask...and surprisingly most men have said 'ok.noway laugh laugh

1littleangel's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:10 AM
maybe i should give it a try!! thanks-

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:11 AM
i agree with Jess.

also some relationships build from friendships.

Twitch's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:12 AM
Hello LittleAngel: I have to agree with Jess on this. Hope you don't mind me saying this but you are a very pretty girl. Just give it some time, be yourself, and ask them. Who knows what goes on in the minds of men.

DaBadGuy4U's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:13 AM
well Id ask you out on a date but Im a little far away from you....laugh

1littleangel's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:14 AM
Thanks- i just wanted to make sure i am not missing something here- you know when i was younger guys asked me out all the time and this is all new to me, so i thought i would be the same as back then, it's nothing like it was. I thought something was wrong!!

no photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:15 AM
I don't know, I've done plenty of asking if I was interested. It seems to work. Go for it, the worst thing that will happen is that they'll say no and you're no worse off than you were before. :smile:

Twitch's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:16 AM
Angel -- it's a new world -- sometimes we got to do the asking.

1littleangel's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:17 AM
Thanks-bad

I have noticed alot of things have changed!! I thank all of you for your help though!

oldsage's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:18 AM
littleangel, listen to jess & some of the other ladies of the site. They won't steer you wrong. Also listen to that little voice inside you, friends first is a good thing. Build from there & always keep yourself safe.
Want to suggest coffee to someone, do it.
"Nothing ventured...Nothing gained.

DaBadGuy4U's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:19 AM
well I'll be in San Antonio in the spring..dont know how far that is from you but if youre still confused we can go get a coffee, beer, w/e. LOL drinker

Jess642's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:20 AM
Sure, if I leave now I could probably be there by Spring...laugh laugh

1littleangel's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:21 AM
laugh laugh laugh lol!!

DaBadGuy4U's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:22 AM
I was spose to be in Texas 2 months ago but couldnt get off work so i sent my kids down for 2 weeks. Now that I got laid off I cant afford to go lol.

1littleangel's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:24 AM
that sucks- i live by houston, on the north side!

seahawks's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:25 AM
so yur kinda close to where drew carey lives.!!!!! lol

DaBadGuy4U's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:26 AM
my sister just moved from houston to San Antonio a few months ago. Shes lived there forever and Ive never been there lol. I just keep letting my boys go down

1littleangel's photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:29 AM
Alot of stars live out here- they think it's country, they can get away from the public eye. I know where a few live!!laugh

no photo
Fri 10/05/07 09:31 AM
Litle angel u arre a charming beautiful young lady, let that shine through and u will be fine, it will come to u in time!!!drinker

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