Does being good in a relationship lead u to be taken for granted?
A big question in ma mind!

in my opinion - if you start a relationship it is your own self that will suffer if you neglect that relationship. If you are not prepared
to be the best you can be to the other person then get out and be single. If you are taken for granted then say something about it.
Not to other people. Open your mouth and say you do not like being treated that way. It is difficult but it is the best way.
The most important thing is to understand that you are both learning - learning about each other and learning about Life. Learning how to deal with situations - this takes time.
If you feel that you are constantly being taken for granted and nothing seems to improve after time - you need a rethink about the relationship and if it should continue. Your partner should always know how you are feeling - because you are able to calmly and sensitively talk to her/him.

All the best.

Sometimes,YES!

Laziness and indifference leads to taking your partner for granted.....
Every day pay compliments.....
Every day say I love you.....
Every day think of her/him and what would they do/say.....
Every day show gratitude for what you have together......

While this is the way to go,you have SOME people take THAT, for granted,until they lose what they had,sad but true!!!

That�s true. But still, what I do, speaks about me, what the other side does, speaks about him. It�s also about maturity of person. And previous experiences. Those who know a little about life will value what they have in a good person and will never take you for granted.

that can happen without a relationship too, and I think it is less likely to happen in a strong relationship than in other situations that are more casual.

sometimes it happens because we're human and we know that person will always be there for us. It's best to talk about it and deal with it if you think it is happening to you

A girl I knew once said that nice guys are freaking girls out. Everyone wants to be selfish manipulative, rude or slutty from time to time. Hell, The DO want to have a fight sometimes. And they cant do it without guilty conscience if they think it upsets their partners cuz they are so nice and it feels bad to hurt them.
So conciously or not- they will start molding a nice guy into more of an 4ssh0le that they think they can live with.
So - no you will not be taken for granted- you will be torn down to their level :D

being good usually,. ends up leading me to the bedroom..

.. its when I stop getting laid to the bedroom.. for being good..
.. that's when the being taken for granted starts... and the being good..
Stops..

just means a soar arm from carrying her purse while she trys on clothes and shoes

I want 100% love pls help me

no one is molding you or any man. you are responsible for what kind of person you become.

you cannot blame others for your behavioral choices. if you become a not nice person that is your responsibility no matter what anyone else does, you control your responses and your choices. obviously a toxic relationship is one to leave behind.

if you stay and contribute to the toxicity and become infected by it: your choice = your fault

well rest your arm then for heaven's sake.

I really think it's wise to stay away from looking at relationships in terms of good and bad. Being taken for granted is something someone does because it is the place they are in. if they are going to take you for granted they probably will regardless of how you behave (you are not responsible for them taking you for granted)... you should not behave in response to it

just be yourself and ultimately you will benefit by staying the good person that you are.

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Same here :) im new here to

Hello!

i all depends on what is in your mine and the way the relation move. if actially she does love you,she will never take you for granted.

all depends on the person your with an what their looking for ...
I would say no ... be good and relationships tend to stay together ... because if not ...it starts to fall apart from what you may have done ... to hurt the other ... I believe every relationship starts out good ... its working at it to keep it good ... can be a challenge... if your together for yrs ...

My opinion is not to be afraid to have a new relationships. You mustn't take it for granted. You must develop your relations if you are love someone. To have family it a happiness for everyone.

it depends upon the sense of entitlement and the sense of reciprocation and appreciation the partner has

in other words,


some people will take it for granted, some people will just feel like there is no need to reciprocate or appreciate because its what you 'should' be doing



but others will be very appreciative of it, and will reciprocate in their behavior towards you, because they realize you do it even though you don't 'have' to,,,