Topic: Looks or Personality
markc48's photo
Sun 01/25/15 07:41 PM


come'on lets be honest, which attracts most?


Money.....laugh
Now there's an honest answer

tamitateo's photo
Sun 01/25/15 08:07 PM
personality and chemistry, looks are subjective
no you can't borrow any money rofl

m3k4y's photo
Sun 01/25/15 08:13 PM

come'on lets be honest, which attracts most?
if you have mustache..then lookslaugh

no photo
Sun 01/25/15 08:15 PM


come'on lets be honest, which attracts most?


Money.....laugh



bigsmile

Ladywind7's photo
Sun 01/25/15 09:31 PM
Looks first, no matter how great a personality he has, if he is ugly I am not going to go there, there would be no passion.

no photo
Sun 01/25/15 09:40 PM
Both but more on personality.

fitz01's photo
Sun 01/25/15 09:49 PM
character.

JulieSua's photo
Sun 01/25/15 10:05 PM

I've noticed something offline in the real world....the nice looking women have always been cool with me & so easy to get on with & also being fancied by them....yet some of the ones that are not so nice or atrractive seem to have a probl�m & attitude...i didnt understand why coz the hot chicks always had no problem...well at least with me...another thing is if i never gave my girl's friends (female friends) attention they would start hating...for wT i duno....

WOMEN!! frustrated


maaate that hurt my mind just reading that haha damn I feel for yah...girls are indeed a "Challenge". whats that saying though "the best one picks a fight???" damn that sounds so wrong hah but yes, hands down personality is a keeper as for looks - looks are just looks!

JulieSua's photo
Sun 01/25/15 10:05 PM

I've noticed something offline in the real world....the nice looking women have always been cool with me & so easy to get on with & also being fancied by them....yet some of the ones that are not so nice or atrractive seem to have a probl�m & attitude...i didnt understand why coz the hot chicks always had no problem...well at least with me...another thing is if i never gave my girl's friends (female friends) attention they would start hating...for wT i duno....

WOMEN!! frustrated


maaate that hurt my mind just reading that haha damn I feel for yah...girls are indeed a "Challenge". whats that saying though "the best one picks a fight???" damn that sounds so wrong hah but yes, hands down personality is a keeper as for looks - looks are just looks!

JulieSua's photo
Sun 01/25/15 10:12 PM

come'on lets be honest, which attracts most?


okay I stared this convo/topic from my curiosity of the movie "Beauty and the beast" and to me honestly I have to say as great a person they are looks does matter and from what yous said you would have to agree.

no one is perfect and there is someone for everyone. honestly I ant an attractive person but I have a great personality so I can talk haha.


Awatersign's photo
Sun 01/25/15 10:16 PM

come'on lets be honest, which attracts most?
Looks,cause you don't have to know them,but me personally,at least a fair in the looks department,and the right personality,I'm all in!!:thumbsup:

Awatersign's photo
Sun 01/25/15 10:20 PM
Edited by Awatersign on Sun 01/25/15 10:20 PM
Oh and did I mention when I said"looks",that I'm mostly talking about the body??bigsmile

JulieSua's photo
Sun 01/25/15 10:20 PM


come'on lets be honest, which attracts most?
Looks,cause you don't have to know them,but me personally,at least a fair in the looks department,and the right personality,I'm all in!!:thumbsup:


wouldn't you wana know the person your seeing inside rather thn out>?

Awatersign's photo
Sun 01/25/15 10:22 PM
Edited by Awatersign on Sun 01/25/15 10:23 PM



come'on lets be honest, which attracts most?
Looks,cause you don't have to know them,but me personally,at least a fair in the looks department,and the right personality,I'm all in!!:thumbsup:


wouldn't you wana know the person your seeing inside rather thn out>?
Yes ,but wouldn't you be attracted to beautiful female right away without even knowing her?S

Awatersign's photo
Sun 01/25/15 10:27 PM
Edited by Awatersign on Sun 01/25/15 10:29 PM
Don't get me wrong,I'm big on personality,but more times it's going to be looks that attract people,and it's almost automatic,when you actually have to get to know the person,before,you're attracted to their personality!!!

no photo
Sun 01/25/15 10:50 PM
Edited by unknown_romeo on Sun 01/25/15 10:51 PM


wouldn't you wana know the person your seeing inside rather thn out>?



i would really wana see a person (woman) on the inside rather then out :angel: pitchfork





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theseacoast's photo
Mon 01/26/15 12:40 AM




come'on lets be honest, which attracts most?
Looks,cause you don't have to know them,but me personally,at least a fair in the looks department,and the right personality,I'm all in!!:thumbsup:


wouldn't you wana know the person your seeing inside rather thn out>?
Yes ,but wouldn't you be attracted to beautiful female right away without even knowing her?S



Hmmm, now jumps in to my mind - what does OP mean by looks? Because I know that for me attractive doesn�t has to be handsome. And unattractive doesn�t mean ugly. If I don�t find something on him interesting than he won�t attract me even if he would look like Apolon. But someone much less "attractive" might attract me beastly - even if i don�t know yet his personality happy

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 01/26/15 02:56 AM

Oh and did I mention when I said"looks",that I'm mostly talking about the body??bigsmile

Sorry to say I find this incredibly shallow? This means the woman could look like the back end of a bus, look like a bloke or be an old hag, as long as she has a good body, you're interested?
To me a guy with a great body but an unattractive face is not attractive.

In a way you'd have to get to know a person to find out about their personality, but in general you can tell by looking them in the eyes and their face. Me thinking maybe it's a skill women have, to read faces (eyes)?

I guess men and women are different that way but I thought men of approx 40 and up had a bit of a wider perspective, more 'depth' so to speak.
Not a personal dig, mind you. Just .. surprised

Awatersign's photo
Mon 01/26/15 03:15 AM


Oh and did I mention when I said"looks",that I'm mostly talking about the body??bigsmile

Sorry to say I find this incredibly shallow? This means the woman could look like the back end of a bus, look like a bloke or be an old hag, as long as she has a good body, you're interested?
To me a guy with a great body but an unattractive face is not attractive.

In a way you'd have to get to know a person to find out about their personality, but in general you can tell by looking them in the eyes and their face. Me thinking maybe it's a skill women have, to read faces (eyes)?

I guess men and women are different that way but I thought men of approx 40 and up had a bit of a wider perspective, more 'depth' so to speak.
Not a personal dig, mind you. Just .. surprised
I think I did said"mostly",and not totally?:angel:

Awatersign's photo
Mon 01/26/15 03:30 AM
Edited by Awatersign on Mon 01/26/15 03:33 AM
The ratio between face and body ain't 50/50 for everyone,likewise with personality /,mines just happens to be more of body than face,shallow is no where in the picture,ok crystal?I'm not shallow!!:wink: