Please explain ladies why not make the effort?
O are you afraid of commitment?

Freedom of choice, not really. Millions of men competing for milliseconds of their attention. The next guy is just one click away. Click.

Not all dude.....mine didn't.....plenty here looking for nice and real guys.....good luck....

Woahhhh....wait a minute...edit.....your challenge dude is your looking for an intimate encounter.....and still trying to be a nice guy.....that has lessened your chances dramatically.....

I think, generally speaking, its not 'nice' guys being turned away, but one of the following.

1. Anonymous men.
2. Boring men.
3. Men, who in their demeanor lack confidence.

One or all of these types might also be a nice guy too.

The ladies aren't passing on the nice guys.
They are passing on jerks who pretend to be nice guys.

I didn't. .got one..

what makes every guy think he's a nice guy? nice is subjective, it means something different to everyone...

Well, I have personally found, there are many fakes on this site, and so many other sites, so many people playing games, not being real, I keep catch fakes from Ghana... I am so tired of that crap personally..

But some real women are here, just like us tired of games, and fakes.. So my advice be real always, being fake, pretending, will just get you ignored, blocked.. Women can tell, just like men can tell the fake women.. I keep blocking, and ignoring the fake women. Who do not meet my requirements.

A true Christian woman, will want to get to know you, and not play games, most importantly, it's not real till you both decide to meet.. Online is only online.. Real is Real...

i tend to keep them for sometimes hahaha! not for too long, so much niceties..so much..so much...chocking :(

I think I'm in love.

CORRECT !

A lot of woman have been abused whether physically or emotionally not by just one but many men. It is a typical cycle of abuse, like a dog chasing its tail.

After this happens for a while a woman's self esteem is eroded down to nothing so when they meet a nice guy some think he is to good, something is wrong and they just can't identify with a nice guy like they can a guy who is not. They tend to identify love with the abuse and then the abuse becomes love to them. Personally I think a good woman helps a guy be a better man as long as he sees what he has in front of him and does not think the grass is greener on the other side because its not, it's just grass. A couple makes the grass whatever color they want.

I have seen a big push back from woman though in the last 5-8 yrs to where they don't want to get serious anymore and just want sex too. They start playing the same games guys have played for years. Like a role reversal. On another date site named POF, when it was open to the USA, they closed for the USA I was getting dates left and right. I actually had 4 dates in one weeks time.

Personally since I have kids I am more reluctant not to date a woman who does not have kids, they just don't get the responsibility, love, time, dedication, money etc... or they are chasing a fantasy which is a whole other topic.

This is my theory and experience but of course it is subjective.

This site seems to be full of fake accounts. Just about all woman's profiles with only one pic and I will tell you later in profile is all fake accounts so beware. I do think these date sites create a false since of reality too. As one user on here said, another man is just a click away, whom is probably a fake account from Ghana, they talk a good game and they follow the yellow brick road, but this causes what I call Dating ADD. Take it for what it's worth.