That's really messed up,here's the conclusion I came to,internet dating is cool,but I feel people put to much of their eggs in that one basket,I honestly could could care less for hooking up here even though that was the main reason I came here,this is not saying I'm closing my own door so to speak,but I could understand some people ain't hardly have people in their area to hook up with ECT and are just hoping to meet more people here,but it just seems like some people whole love life is dependent on this site,and that's sad,suppose say for an example,mingle go offline for good,or online dating,what then?That's why I just mostly do the forums,have fun anyway lol!

Kitty say what?

To interject, I feel many people have done well on here. I'm hoping to do so as well. More emphasis on spaces and paragraphs in the future perhaps?

I love this site and have met many nice people.

hooking up with Electro Convulsive Therapy again!

99.9 on this site is fake account and photos they get off the net scammers and 98% of them are african and is sickening. Of the over 300 fake women ive talked with in the over 2 months ive been here anyway- all scammer bullchit- other than maybe 1 or 2 older unattractive women and too old to have babies or in other countries- any with good sense know they only hope to lie and use ya to become a citizen.

You need to know- real men do not ask a woman about her wealth or status in life- woman do that and in the first minutes of meeting her and men need know she is nothing but a gold digger and can not give a chit about him personally. A man will never ask a woman for anything other than her time or maybe her body. Real Men do not ask women for money or goods- not ever. Ya he might have a sad story- but no real man ever asks anyone for anything and surely not a woman- period.

Have had well over 300 try and run over 25 diff scams on me multi times- sorry I am not stupid. I will never send anyone a dime or nothing else and never met them in person before. And if you are so stupid you deserve to be done wrong. I do not think you will meet anyone real on this site- them that say they have I will guess they work here and get paid to say such...

I will not post my secretes in the open of how I know and fig out they are scammers and most all african-- then they will change up their game and make it more easy for them to scam people- the low life scumbags.

I have not run into female or males posing as females on ths site like I have others, and I know how to uncover them.

If you they are scammers call them on it. Ask them to post a picture of them with holding a newspaper from the city they live in with todays date on it. If the face in the photo doesn't match their profile photo report them as scammers. Another sign if they start telling you they love you after you only chat with them a couple times they are scammers. I always tell everybody the great thing about the internet you can be anybody you want you just have to use your best judgment on what to believe or not..

You two rock..... I'm real and I know a few more who are also......
These guys all have that same mentality........ None..... Get a job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol. serious?

Best idea I have seen in a while....
Very smart call....

Anybody that falls victim to scammers is stupid and foolish.Why fall when you can easily detect their true identity by inviting him or her on skype or tell her/him to snap a picture with your name on a paper he is holding.Anybody that requests for money from you in this site is most probably a scammer.Be warned

It's very disappointing that this happens. But there also women or they pretend to be women scammers.
I can only say that it's always a good thing or idea that is copied,faked or counterfeited.
Just continue for we say here that he/she who stops is the one who has found whatever they were after. Only be careful and look for the tell tell signs like someone calling you dear,sweet friend in the first communication, giving a story bout Africa,taking you off site very first etc.

I agree there are more decent people here than bad. Anyway who will bother to come here if it isn't working. On the positive the presence of scammers reveals that this site is helpful.

I agree there are scammers but just like you are real n decent,I am too and there are others.Remember Nokia or even Samsung are the most counterfeited products in the market because of their reputation.This site attracts scammers because of it's success. All one needs is a clear head to distinguish them for they use stupid old lines.
No real man would want to a woman's money. If he asks then you know.

I've only met one so far.They are pretty predictable if you indulge them a bit.

I think its a good idea....ask to add the date of that exact day...and time if possible,written on her/his hand!!! Te he he heee

Problem is,some ask for Skype for completely different reasons!!!

But your the one suggesting Skype to see if they are real, not them.
If they are genuine, all good.

I think a lot these sights are catfishing that's why just don't focus on here I also try in rl and see what happens

Gosh! u r talking cannibalism! I think most if not all are after some money.But they are easy to spot. No pretender lasts long for lies tend to pile up till the story is inconsistent.

Unfortunately there are lots of scammers and players around on dating sites, men and woman.
Just trust your instincts, take it slow, and try not to think everyone is a scammer.
Good luck.