My messages won't send (I've tried more than 1 person) I click send, but then the message comes up in a box by itself, with a send message button, I keep clicking on it, but it just comes back to the same box with the message, it doesn't send it.

When you speak of "the message coming up in a box by itself", is that a little pop-down button at the top of the screen after you've tried to send the message? When a message sends successfully, the page refreshes and it gives you the little pop-down confirmation that it was sent.

If this is not showing up, then you might need to fill out more of your profile, because the site won't let you send messages to certain people if they have "criteria" about who can contact them (Must be between the ages of 21-40, must be female, must have a profile picture etc, etc).

There is no criteria problem, I have been messaging the same person back & forth numerous times. It just doesn't send it. it stays in the window I.. typed it in. you click on send & it acts like it's sending, but then it just comes back like I haven't sent it yet..

And you have checked the profile of the person you are communicating with since then, to make sure it's still there?

Yes, they are online, and waiting for my reply on their last message....

I think I have to refer you to one of our technical specialists. Please hold.

I have to retire for the night. I'll check for messages in the morning.....

I see that you are using the full site, inneedofun4, but I have not been able to duplicate the problem. Can you see the two emails that I sent with your account to mine at the URL below?
http://mingle2.com/inbox/conversation/charles

If you can mail me, send me a couple of user names of members you're not able to mail. Finally, what browser version are you using?