Recently found out it's better to date your age mate cos you guys see things equally and learn new trends together... When you date someone younger she might pull you back or see you as old School, like when you're getting ready for a towns meeting she'll be getting ready for her peers birthday party which is not of importance to you.. When she's enjoying the company of her peer group you'll want her to sit with your own age mate and she won't be comfortable with that, so I sincerely think it is of great important for couples to be of thesame age and grow old together.

people should date who they like, age shouldn't matter as much... but i agree, anything within 10 years is my preference...

what we date, always, be most like our self.

but the self blind will refuse to believe such.

and why these have blocked any changes for them self, ever.

for who loves what is not like it self?

if you like it, more if ya thought you loved it, it is very very very similar to one self, to a very very very much same degree.

then humans have illumination.

to know thy self.

which be what one self is minus all outside praises to bolster it's own belief in it's own good self.

the worst of one self.

is true.

then, happiness everlasting.

Thanks for your contributions, you've all spoken well and have different perspective... The reason I decided to start dating my age mate or even older women is because they have had different experiences and have seen things the younger ones have not seen, most older women just wanna get married and settle down but the younger ones still wanna have fun and play around because they see themselves young and beautiful and fit for the games.. My ex was young and pretty but we broke up just because I was having a different perspective about like and she was dragging me back cos she was still enjoying the kind of life she was living and I was tired with that kind of life, I need to step up.

Don't limit your options based on past experiences...There are women of all ages who don't want to settle down or take life seriously, just as there are women of all ages who do...Welcome and best of luck to you!

You're right but the single advanced lady that desire to marry always have that marriage goal and work towards it

You got tired! Well that explains it. ;)

one will learn in life that comparison of the self situation will be the most inaccurate data since no people or situations are an exact same place of learning the same things...

two people steal...

two people seek to know whether to forgive...

one will never steal again, and be at the end of stealing...

one will steal for long time more...

if one want exact, certainly important for exact good results...

one must forget the notion the self physical experiences of self have any validity in correlation to others physical lives.

those who do not sea so, lead many into more ditches of despairing situations.

albeit many of these are loving people with good intentions...

but as they say, the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

to thine OWN SELF, BE TRUE.

each one, it self.

Thanks... Just what I want to hear... You're so right.. Cheers!

Nice one... I certainly understand what you mean

welcome Joseph...

accurate good results for all...

that be all i give a damn about...

...

ditto's good brother.

many winds of splendor fill the sails of happiness and wealth of those who seek to know their own inaccuracies.

the rest.

will live in more reckless abandon each day.

Welcome :-)

I do not suffer from age prejudice.
And I do not hold against anyone their
lack of experience :-)

Welcome Joseph
Now without wishing to sound rude you have gone from your original post of girls your own age to older women in this post.
So which is it. Seems to me you don't know what you want and you also seem to be a little critical of younger girls who want to live their life the way they see fit, and not the way you see fit.

You might want to look at yourself first.

Are you saying you can date someone younger than you and you're more experience than?

I think people should date anyone they want to but for myself I like to stay within 10 year difference range.

I understand your view but what I meant was that I did not enjoy my relationship with younger girls because I was not in the same page with them, younger girls are easily carried away with their pleasure but older ones can control their pleasure, older girls will not want to make the same mistake they made before but younger girls will want to give it a try. So dating a younger girl is like starting life all over again when you're suppose to be growing so don't think I don't know what I want.. I do babe