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Topic: COMPETING FOR HIM/HER!!!
davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Fri 01/09/15 07:19 PM Edited by davidben1 on Fri 01/09/15 07:20 PM
yes OP.. I believe what you are talking about ,is called.. kidnapping..lol Heeeyyyy muh man,how's it going!! kidnapping! damn! it's all a funny world in the funny world of those who live in a funny world, till it happens in reality to happen to them. smiles

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 01/09/15 07:20 PM Edited by Awatersign on Fri 01/09/15 07:22 PM
Unfortunately (because of the hoes, not Romeo) I'm with Romeo on this one. Hopeless romantic, I have tried been the KISA and have always been left 1 dagger short of a knife fight. It's the new and disgusting trend among younger 'girls' (pronounced hoes) they are more endowed at younger ages and conditioned not to depend on ONE man for their emotional fulfillment. More women have degrees careers and disposable income and those that don't have no problem getting what they want or need because the next guy is just a tap or mouse click away. Once a guy has worn a hole in his wallet it's on to the next. If the sugar daddy doesn't fit in with the 'in crowd' or isn't fun they text a younger guy to do their bidding. Of course there are statistical rarities out there who are ladies of honorable repute but they are rare indeed. Social media and the wide variety of sites of all types have not only created a means to distribute advertisement but condone and encourage girls women hoes what ever you want to call THEM to replace a broken of outdated toy with a new one faster than ever before. This doesn't include real WOMEN who are respectable LADIES. Of course guys cheat as well, I don't presume that girls do all the cyber slutting. Most 'dating' sites though are marketed towards women in broadcast advertisements. If a site isn't marketed towards women, it showcases women to draw men in. These are broadcast much less and on channels that mostly men would watch and only late at night. Softer advertisements marketed mainly towards women are much more widely distributed among all channels and come up often throughout the day. Before any girls or women slam me for being sexist, these are my observations of events and broadcasting advertisements over which i have no control. Think about it from your own point of view, and then put yourself in a man's place and ask yourself if the same ads would appeal to you. More than likely the answer would be no but as men we have always had to go where the women are. This is so true and exactly how it is. I'm glad others can see it too I for one hate that word hoes .. Its a derrogatory label ... Just because young women are confident .. Independent .. Embrace their sexuality .. Have more choices and won't settle .. Does not make them hoes. Sure society has changed and young women today are a reflection of that .. More power to them . Any man who feels threatened needs to look at his own insecurities . It is not about competition or using men .. It is about defining who you are and what you want . And so while you guys are wasting 3 dates and spending all your money looking for love. You should have just tapped her. I'm not saying that they are all like that. But you need to figure that out anyway. And leave all that complicated love thing ECT ,right, ,sometimes I do have that attitude,but then that conscience bs kicks in right!!

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Fri 01/09/15 07:22 PM
hell no... the one who competes for the emotions of humans will ultimately lose... so kick back and wait for them to come knockin on the door of who was strong enough to not need to compete. Well said ,that's the same way I feel,I just can't understand why so many people do it!! if that is how you felt about it, that is the way you would have said it. some r followers and pretend and change and try to morph according to the most popular opinion, and some, just r.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 01/09/15 07:23 PM
yes OP.. I believe what you are talking about ,is called.. kidnapping..lol Heeeyyyy muh man,how's it going!! kidnapping! damn! it's all a funny world in the funny world of those who live in a funny world, till it happens in reality to happen to them. smiles Crazy chit right

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 01/09/15 07:25 PM
yes OP.. I believe what you are talking about ,is called.. kidnapping..lol Heeeyyyy muh man,how's it going!! :.drinker: ..hi. back.. .. its going good.. it's Friday evening here and I'm just hanging around the house.. the boys are at their mothers. .. . and I am exhausted from a long work week... but outside of that .things are good... ... great topic..

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 01/09/15 07:28 PM
hell no... the one who competes for the emotions of humans will ultimately lose... so kick back and wait for them to come knockin on the door of who was strong enough to not need to compete. Well said ,that's the same way I feel,I just can't understand why so many people do it!! if that is how you felt about it, that is the way you would have said it. some r followers and pretend and change and try to morph according to the most popular opinion, and some, just r. We don't all say things the same way,It was clearly stated in my first post,"this is not my cup of tea",that's straight forward!!

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Fri 01/09/15 07:31 PM
hell no... the one who competes for the emotions of humans will ultimately lose... so kick back and wait for them to come knockin on the door of who was strong enough to not need to compete. Well said ,that's the same way I feel,I just can't understand why so many people do it!! if that is how you felt about it, that is the way you would have said it. some r followers and pretend and change and try to morph according to the most popular opinion, and some, just r. We don't all say things the same way,It was clearly stated in my first post,"this is not my cup of tea",that's straight forward!! good answer chuckie doll.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 01/09/15 07:33 PM
yes OP.. I believe what you are talking about ,is called.. kidnapping..lol Heeeyyyy muh man,how's it going!! :.drinker: ..hi. back.. .. its going good.. it's Friday evening here and I'm just hanging around the house.. the boys are at their mothers. .. . and I am exhausted from a long work week... but outside of that .things are good... ... great topic.. Thanks man,make sure you have a few cold ones too!!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 01/09/15 07:34 PM
hell no... the one who competes for the emotions of humans will ultimately lose... so kick back and wait for them to come knockin on the door of who was strong enough to not need to compete. Well said ,that's the same way I feel,I just can't understand why so many people do it!! if that is how you felt about it, that is the way you would have said it. some r followers and pretend and change and try to morph according to the most popular opinion, and some, just r. We don't all say things the same way,It was clearly stated in my first post,"this is not my cup of tea",that's straight forward!! good answer chuckie doll.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 01/10/15 12:09 PM
I love cheating ho's. You a mess goof!! I do what I can. Haha. Anyways, all I will say is that I am loving some of the na�ve comments made in this thread.

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Mon 01/12/15 05:14 PM
no ... I would not compete for a man in a relationship becouse if it is that easy for him to leave her... then it will be just as easy to leave me for another ... nope... I want it all or nothing ... That's it,"all or nothing" attitude ,same here,lol I can't share,if I don't know,it's a difference,but no sharing here!! I heard this the other day ...you should never be Jealous of the man and if anything jealous of the women he is with becouse she is what matters to him ... something like that ... then I saw you should not be jealous at all with either or ... which made since ... going to guess you are going to have to be shown you are his or her's since actions speak louder then words ... don't take that literally... no one is owned by one another ...

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Tue 01/13/15 08:30 AM Edited by mysticalview21 on Tue 01/13/15 08:40 AM
there ain't no ho's, just women who haven't found where they fit perfectly! just women and men who have not found home plate yet. I agree your absolute right ... so why would a women be called that...they should not becouse they are finding their way just as some gentlemen are ... just becouse others see it in a different way does not always make it wrong ... some can not find the right person for them on the first date or even having sexual relations... that may be where they find they are not right for each other ... has nothing to do with respect of your own body ... some may have thought it would work out to be a long relationship ... but does not always work that way ... but I am not the women with two cell phone full of men that are dating all kind of men just to date ... when I could be ...

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 01/13/15 08:53 AM
no ... I would not compete for a man in a relationship becouse if it is that easy for him to leave her... then it will be just as easy to leave me for another ... nope... I want it all or nothing ... That's it,"all or nothing" attitude ,same here,lol I can't share,if I don't know,it's a difference,but no sharing here!! I heard this the other day ...you should never be Jealous of the man and if anything jealous of the women he is with becouse she is what matters to him ... something like that ... then I saw you should not be jealous at all with either or ... which made since ... going to guess you are going to have to be shown you are his or her's since actions speak louder then words ... don't take that literally... no one is owned by one another ... Jealousy is one my demons,so when I did that topic about ,"being yourself",and I was sayin,sometimes it ain't always good,that's one of those times,it was I problem in the past,but now,much better,but I'm still never going to like sharing lol ,and then there's,respecting your partner,and besides,if someone is playing up with something I gata eat,at some point I'm not going to want it anymore,you know?!