or somebody is very horny and can't stick to 1 person.....or perhaps somebody is a lil f****d up

not everyone sleeps with everyone they date...

smiles...

i'm talking more casual dating...

in the deciding phase of WHO one likes well enough to sleep with and get more serious with.

but, if their already sleeping with some one else...



not gonna happen.

shouldn't be dating then actually.

Yeah exactly,there's this thing called,"conscience",some of us have it,and some of us don't,I'm no saint,nor claim to be,but i can honestly say that I do have one of those,sometimes I'm not sure if it's a strength or a weakness,but I'm glad I've got one too!!

This is true,but if I'm dating someone,I DO have intentions,of sleeping with them and.trying to take the relationship as far as possible,but it's going to be complicated if they're dating someone else already,this why it makes know sense and I don't care for it!!!

Unfortunately (because of the hoes, not Romeo) I'm with Romeo on this one. Hopeless romantic, I have tried been the KISA and have always been left 1 dagger short of a knife fight. It's the new and disgusting trend among younger 'girls' (pronounced hoes) they are more endowed at younger ages and conditioned not to depend on ONE man for their emotional fulfillment. More women have degrees careers and disposable income and those that don't have no problem getting what they want or need because the next guy is just a tap or mouse click away. Once a guy has worn a hole in his wallet it's on to the next. If the sugar daddy doesn't fit in with the 'in crowd' or isn't fun they text a younger guy to do their bidding.

Of course there are statistical rarities out there who are ladies of honorable repute but they are rare indeed. Social media and the wide variety of sites of all types have not only created a means to distribute advertisement but condone and encourage girls women hoes what ever you want to call THEM to replace a broken of outdated toy with a new one faster than ever before. This doesn't include real WOMEN who are respectable LADIES.

Of course guys cheat as well, I don't presume that girls do all the cyber slutting. Most 'dating' sites though are marketed towards women in broadcast advertisements. If a site isn't marketed towards women, it showcases women to draw men in. These are broadcast much less and on channels that mostly men would watch and only late at night. Softer advertisements marketed mainly towards women are much more widely distributed among all channels and come up often throughout the day.

Before any girls or women slam me for being sexist, these are my observations of events and broadcasting advertisements over which i have no control. Think about it from your own point of view, and then put yourself in a man's place and ask yourself if the same ads would appeal to you. More than likely the answer would be no but as men we have always had to go where the women are.

This is so true and exactly how it is. I'm glad others can see it too

Absolutely not and I also will not date somebody that is separated . Clean up YOUR mess before you make a new one .

Forgot to mention the mpd aspect. What is the point of loyalty if you have more profiles than than a Hitchcock marathon? You can have multiple profiles on the same site and many people live on what 'fame' they have disguised themselves as having. Sure, sites say that they monitor these types of things but how many of you have encountered people that don't really exist along with those with multiple profiles on the same site? Probably all of you. Didn't we just see an updated terms agreement here? That's working just fine.

Thanks everyone for the feedback on this topic,it's great to know everyone's take on it,I would like to point out that it seems some of the people that post earlier,may have misunderstood me a bit,you can't take one sentence.and justify the whole topic,I did say it could happen for 1 night stand,nobody's perfect,but some of you make it sound like I would actually just jump at that opportunity,and that it's right or anything,it doesn't make ME a cheater ,no disrespect to anyone else,but I'm not going to come out here and act like I'm some saint,and try to paint this picture like I'm so perfect,were all men and we do get tempted ,and i obviously wasn't meaning if were in a relationship,that's keeping it 100 ya dig?!

Dating does not imply an exclusive relationship so each person is free to date whomever they want! If one does not like this they are free to move on but is ludicrous to expect others to be at the same place(non dating) and proceed. As for competing thats a natural part of dating as many are indeed called but alas few are chosen...

But the fact still remains,but I should just say most of the time,at least from my observation and experience!!!

I'm not not an athlete.

No way.To me its not a contest. I would never want to jump in someones warm bed. Karma a killer!

Nope..if the guy has a gal I bow out gracefully...I love competing in a lot of things but no one wins in that game...

Competing over a man/woman shows me this: there are more than two people involved, each is selfishly trying to win the "so called" prize, someone will win but someone will lose, the trophy will go to the winner.....that is, until the next "game" is played! I'm not a game player so I won't compete for a man's attention! If he puts me in that position, I'm gone for lack of trust in the person and the evidence of a roving eye which is definitely NOT the type of man I would want! Give me a man of character and integrity to himself and to me! JMHO

A lot of bitterness and bullchit in your post...I'm with Blondey on this one...I'm not slamming you or anyone else...Derogatory labels like ho, hoes and cyber slutting ARE sexist and say more about the men using them than the women they are labeling....As far as ADULT dating sites that "market" women, that type of advertising targets men because it's been proven to work...And men are NOT required to go where the women are, it's a choice...

I do see some variables here.I have a hell of a conscience so i could never try to woo a woman away from a man.But if i met her later after they had split,and she told me that she had been thinking of me,that might just be a little different.
As far as head on flirting with someone in a relationship to steal them away,might that mean that it was possible for someone else to do that to you further down the line if it proved that the initial break up was due to a fickle nature.
Best to stay away if you can,but those damn emotions can get in the way sometimes.

I love cheating ho's.

Ho monger....