.. how important is it.. to you!! that your partner has a sex drive.. equal to.
are above your own sex drive...

... would you date somebody that does not have a sex drive equal to your own..?..

... yes and I understand there's more to a relationship than sex...
. but I have found if their sex drive is not equal to mine.... I become dissatisfied with the.. relationship...
... so I guess in some way... sex drive does make up a big part of a relationship... and not just the desire to have sex.... but to have passionate..
. intense.. mind blowing sex...

..ie... you can have all the qualities I desire... but if you are lacking in the sex drive department.... I have learnt this is not going to work... no matter what other good qualities you may have...... so yes is sex important to you..?


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Well, what counts as sex drive isn't always that simple. I was with a girl a lot younger than me and sure, she was horny and kinky but she had no stamina.

I agree to a certain extent with people that say that you work at it though. I've had them coming around to the all night sessions and it really is about getting them in the mood and keeping them in it.

Hmm.. good question what constitutes a sex drive.. I can only imagine it's different for everyone..
.... hence the need to match.. up your sex drive... with your partner....
as you mentioned stanima... can be a big factor.... if your lady friend takes a long time to climax.... and you do not have the stanima.. are the ability to sustain... the drive.. to help her reach her goal.. so to speak... then I would say your sex drives are not a match...yes..?


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Oh that is such a loaded question! Lol.

I will give the vague answer that there are ways to work around that issue. But unfortunately sometimes yes, that will be a deal breaker for me. To me, the drives have to match more or less.

What you lack in life, you make up in bed.;)

Aint that the same reasons why they invented sex toys.

I find that sexual interaction with a lover need not exist to be a complete relationship. I've been in 4 long distance relationships in my life, 2 of whom I have loved physically, out of the 3 I met in person. The first of 4, I cannot forget, even though we never met. The most recent of the 4, I will always be linked to through our daughter.

In other words, captivity of romance/relationships is heavily dependent on the circumstances to which they take place. A mind captured is much harder to be satisfied beyond just being nearby the person in question. You can literally live on romantic love alone, even if food is scarce (I don't recommend that, however).

Yes a libido rush equal to one's own is nice, but the question then becomes whether the rest is 'good enough' to keep the asker interested. My response is this - If a person is seeking only sex, why not ask for it on craigslist or backpage?
Something deeper will always be desired than the physical, and that's the answer.

. no !sex toys.. just help to enhance the experience.... they should not be a replacement.... ok they are replacement..lol.... And in a relationship.... between two people..
. toys help enlighten help intensify..
the pleasure..... but again.. if your partner is hitting the toy chest.. more often... then you are hitting them....
then. I guess the sex drive is not a match....yes

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Note : Always ask your date how is your sex drive to see if compatible. Heehee.

Hows your drive No1? From a Kama Sultra scale?

Tee hee...definitely equal..but a sex drive above mine...although difficult for most men could be too much..not enough time in a day..lol...but below mine is frustrating...it almost leaves ya feeling inadequate..or I think there's something wrong with me..hmmm...but when I find the right guy I know this problem won't exist cause he has to be my equal in every part of the relationship....hmmmm...me thinks I will be single for a very long time...lol..

I will say this about that.

Having a great partner, makes one want to
most of the time :-)

is that a sliding scale..lol....

.. quite honestly my desire for sex is quite high.. always has been.. there is something about the intimacy.. the playfulness.. the flirting the desire..
the building up and the act of sex..
.... that I crave... and yes it has caused problems in the past relationships..
.. I am sure there is some deep seated psychological.. issue at hand..lol..
why it is that some people crave and desire sex more than others....
enjoy sex more than others..
perhaps it is in the giving of pleasure..
I am what is known as a giver...
I get off on giving.... I really enjoy receiving... but I really really enjoy giving...lol

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I guess no bjs, handcuffs, bbq sauce, nail gun, chains, balls & whips for you then. ;)

no the wall of pleasure is never coming down...lmao... if anything with the right person i might want to add an addition....mmmm... the wall of the extreme extreme pleasure...mmm.yess... biting my bottom lip, really hard right now..mmmmm

Then you really should add on that list of playing for the other team if you wanna compare notes. Hehe....

what part of I enjoy, really enjoy sex did you not understand...lol..jk..
.. I will stay with the team I'm on...
. I have not quite figured out all there.
Hmmm... shall we say... playbook..lol

You don't have to say it twice freak... I mean 'giver'. What was the thread about... lol. My answer is it doesn't matter as long as there's sex in there... somewhere with/ without a playbook. ;)

I was going to say something about sex toys but I only just got unbanned.

So yeah, you could argue that they can be a substitute I suppose.

well I have not been suspended...
and I was going to say something like...
I'm not even going to touch that one..^^.. with rubber gloves on and a ten foot pole...lm..no.not assoff..lol