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Topic: age difference
dreamerana's photo
Sat 01/03/15 06:47 PM

Why is hard to date someone younger than you?


there's a difference in life experience. many just don't want to feel like a babysitter

SpicyExcel's photo
Sat 01/03/15 07:20 PM
In my early adult years seeing an older womam was not a problem. I personally enjoyed there company and maturity in conversation.

It is generally how society looks at older men I believe, and a younger woman. The possibility of them getting pregnante and being a single mother. Both genders' generally have a problem with this sequence of older man younger woman.

Personally if one does not have children then why should he not be able to have the opportunity to be a father still even if he is later in life. Is it possible that he will be more conservative in how response to stressful situations.

A man's position we need to be aware what not to say about this subject and feminism. This is deffinitly not an easy subject to discuss without being ridiculed.

Best of luck in trying to get a fair discussion on this subject.

navygirl's photo
Sun 01/04/15 10:00 AM


Why is hard to date someone younger than you?


there's a difference in life experience. many just don't want to feel like a babysitter


Couldn't have said it better myself. :thumbsup:

Jeannlu's photo
Sun 01/04/15 11:29 AM
Edited by Jeannlu on Sun 01/04/15 11:30 AM

I will give you the absolute, most positive, most definitely correct answer you can get:

It's a matter of personal preference. When two people's preferences match, no matter what age, and they're mutually attracted to one another in whatever way they consider relevant, then everything else makes no difference. And it really shouldn't, no matter what others say.

Asking people on here about it will only give answers (and judgments) pertaining to their own view. You should take all that with a grain of salt... mine included lol.

Welcome to the forum btw.

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This is so true... if you are confortable with each other age should not be a big deal... if your only option is to date younger ppl then that's kind of limited

In my case better not think to much about it just go with the flow :tongue:

davidben1's photo
Sun 01/04/15 06:59 PM
it's not hard to date someone younger than one self, it is only hard to "relate" to someone who knows less than one self, without exposing one self as a taker from the weaker, naive, and less knowing than one self.

no photo
Tue 01/06/15 05:01 AM
it is haaardd
Why is hard to date someone younger than you?


friends4life1's photo
Tue 01/06/15 09:21 AM
Hi everyone,
Im not weighing in for judgement; I'd really like a girls opinion on my very personal postion on this topic.:-) (guys have a less important opinion - I dont want to date them (lol).:-)
Im a very active 54 year old man, I have 2 jobs, love (and work with) horses, Im a songwriter, an artist, a carpenter, electrician, musician, etc, etc, etc. Im not boring, I am passionate, gentle, (capricorn to the max :-) lol).
I have found that girls / women just dont see me. I am passionate about beauty but not looking for a runway model, just a girl who has energy, that takes my breath away.
I've realised that the women /girls (both in the same person is ideal:-) ) from eastern Europe seem to have both the modern, passionate energy to "do things" and the cultural upbringing to realize the value of a man with skills added over a lifetime.
Girls.....Is it wrong of me to look at attractive, active, women 15 years younger than me?

greyway123's photo
Tue 01/06/15 01:27 PM
hi im aged 58 only separated I want to meet someone is there anyone or lady want to date even aged 40 to 58.kevin

desh2015's photo
Sat 01/10/15 03:18 AM
Elle-rose, is true to me as well, I prefer older men. But many cases younger ones want to date me.

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