Topic: Men and women cannot be friends.
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Tue 12/23/14 06:36 PM
Even when I'm with women I'm not attracted to, I still desire to have sex with them. And if they happen to be very unattractive, I still try to think of someway I could get my rocks off with them. So it baffles me how some guys can be friends with women. I suspect there's some kind of ulterior motive going on.

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Tue 12/23/14 06:39 PM
Oh look! red6mist has another comedy routine to try out on us. Get the popcorn.

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Tue 12/23/14 06:43 PM
laugh laugh laugh he's back.....

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Tue 12/23/14 06:44 PM
laugh laugh

not everyone�s the same red6mist. and I deeply suspect you of just kicking up the dust around. but to your question: some do have a minor space in their brains which is really just about friendship happy

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Tue 12/23/14 06:47 PM
I believe you.... some guys are like that anyway (not all though)! They just can't stop thinking of sex! And they are the ones you can never really be friends with for friendship sake.

And they are the ones who will be standing all alone when they get old if they don't mellow!


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Tue 12/23/14 06:50 PM

Oh look! red6mist has another comedy routine to try out on us. Get the popcorn.



here is the popcorn Dodo laugh



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Tue 12/23/14 08:27 PM
welcome back Redmist.
I am learning that maybe it's not always possible to be just friends.
everything is ok as long as you don't realize your friend might have an interest.
it's an awkward thing when your long time friend gets jealous because you're talking to someone.

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Wed 12/24/14 01:48 AM
Hi Red6mist:

Seems to me that if you have to actively "think" about the sex then you don't actually have "the desire to have sex" with them. Real sexual attraction is almost instant & never needs to be worked up to via thoughts or pictures or anything. It just happens & especially with men being visually aroused.

She's not attractive to you = not visually arousing = No sexual desire.

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Wed 12/24/14 01:39 PM

Hi Red6mist:

Seems to me that if you have to actively "think" ...


huh When did he ever say that he thinks? :tongue:

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Wed 12/24/14 03:26 PM

Even when I'm with women I'm not attracted to, I still desire to have sex with them. And if they happen to be very unattractive, I still try to think of someway I could get my rocks off with them. So it baffles me how some guys can be friends with women. I suspect there's some kind of ulterior motive going on.

You are in the hormone-engaged years.
The day will come, not so far off, when your interest
that way will wane, wanty women will be coming out of
your ears.

You will be like, ho hum...

BTW, when did you move to Shanghai??

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