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Topic: Love after sex
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Tue 12/23/14 03:10 AM
I have no experience in this regard. But people use to tell me that the love and affection between a girl and a guy reduces to some extent immediately after having sex. How much is this assertion true from the practical experience point of view?

mikeyspace4691's photo
Tue 12/23/14 04:23 AM
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davidben1's photo
Tue 12/23/14 04:51 AM
Don't distort your self with others assertions...

tainting your self with their dirty laundry...

CREATE YOUR OWN...

if you want to.

or not.

hehehe...

find a willing partner, and feel what ya feel.

then, call whatever you feel whatever you like.

as that is all anybody else in the world is doing...

smiles.

smokin drinker smokin


markc48's photo
Tue 12/23/14 05:36 AM
Not for me. I want to do it again and again.

theseacoast's photo
Tue 12/23/14 05:50 AM
Edited by theseacoast on Tue 12/23/14 05:48 AM
For me neither - it grows - both, love and psychical attraction

davidben1's photo
Tue 12/23/14 06:02 AM
Edited by davidben1 on Tue 12/23/14 06:11 AM
u guys are assuming he is gonna create "bad stuff", and not define the happening as love, sensitivity, caring, mutual respect, adoration...

my post is ambiguous as to what it or anything actually is, so he can define it for himself.

with her.

between them.

since he say's he has no experience in such regards yet.

if he doesn't know yet...

then he can create something totally new, with her.

and it doesn't have to based upon all the other failed experiences of planet earth.

anyhow...

that was why i tried to make it as ambiguous as possible.

for him to define as he actually creates it.

smokin drinker smokin




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Tue 12/23/14 07:14 AM

I have no experience in this regard. But people use to tell me that the love and affection between a girl and a guy reduces to some extent immediately after having sex. How much is this assertion true from the practical experience point of view?


The people who tell you this are sharing THEIR sexual experience(s) which may or may not be similar or the same as yours when you begin having sex...Our "reasons" for having sex determine the result or effect it will have on us...flowerforyou

davidben1's photo
Tue 12/23/14 07:46 AM
i agree.

:thumbsup:

and...

great new pic Leigh


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Tue 12/23/14 07:56 AM

i agree.

:thumbsup:

and...

great new pic Leigh




TY David!!...Merry Christmas!flowerforyou


davidben1's photo
Tue 12/23/14 07:59 AM
and a sweet Merry Christmas i hope your heart does breath.

flowerforyou

mini1x's photo
Tue 12/23/14 09:33 PM
Welcome fellow mini! :-)

In my opinion, it goes like this:

If the sexual experience was good (for both), then more likely than not it will add to your mutual attraction.

If the experience was not so good, it may detract, but maybe not. The first time two people have sex can be awkward sometimes... learning a brand new body takes time. It's much like dancing really. So a not so great experience could be a bit disappointing, but if you look at it as a learning experience about each other (and not some sort of test) then your love should not be affected.


dnewnew's photo
Wed 12/24/14 01:54 AM
That's why you're supposed to have the sex AFTER the love...way less chance of someone getting their feelings rebuffed once the hormones abate & the oxytocin levels come down.

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Thu 12/25/14 12:03 AM
Edited by Ɔʎɹɐx on Thu 12/25/14 12:04 AM
what would make the love relationship stronger better than being united in one body smitten

rence023's photo
Thu 12/25/14 12:42 AM
so many bisexuals experiences this kind of love , they love the one who had sex with them .. is it really possible ?

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Thu 12/25/14 01:06 AM
i love her "box" bigsmile

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Thu 12/25/14 01:07 AM

what would make the love relationship stronger better than being united in one body smitten
A Fox in her box? laugh laugh

ryanletsmeet's photo
Thu 12/25/14 06:36 PM
I've had both,

The after-effect of lying down next to your beautiful possibly (hopefully) wife-to-be, thinking whether the sex was the best part or now is,

and meeting a random but (but hot) girl on a night out and taking her back to mine for the night.

Both have their perks; some interesting conversation for the afterwards of the one night stand ..

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Thu 12/25/14 06:40 PM

I have no experience in this regard. But people use to tell me that the love and affection between a girl and a guy reduces to some extent immediately after having sex. How much is this assertion true from the practical experience point of view?
Aye, do the deed, leave her face like a painters radio and get outta there pronto! Is that how you'd do it? laugh laugh laugh

Goofball73's photo
Thu 12/25/14 08:21 PM
Hmmmm....but if she has that fishy smell.....noway :tongue: laugh

mini1x's photo
Thu 12/25/14 10:46 PM


i love her "box" bigsmile

http://youtu.be/_bYGepMhfZs
Jack in the box :-)



Oh the things they teach kids nowadays... shameful!!!

Just kidding, lol.

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