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Topic: casual thing
Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 12/19/14 09:54 PM
...but casual works with the right one... Yeah,like two people looking for the same thing!!! Yes! Temporarily ! So still a temporary solution to a permanent problem! Is this enough for anyone realistically? Do you not deserve more? Or is this your ultimate desire??? Well I do love abuse.

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 12/19/14 10:01 PM
Well Goof, not my style at all! But to each his own! Lol

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 12/19/14 10:03 PM
...but casual works with the right one... Yeah,like two people looking for the same thing!!! Yes! Temporarily ! So still a temporary solution to a permanent problem! Is this enough for anyone realistically? Do you not deserve more? Or is this your ultimate desire??? Yeah you're right,but I pretty much stop trying to find "love",I'm just seeing so much fakeness' that I having serious issues trusting people,but I'm still happy and pretty much stress free lol!

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 12/19/14 10:12 PM
Okay I get that! I however won't settle regardless. If I can't be true to myself, how can I be true to another individual? Hope you look for and get that which you truly want and deserve!

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Sat 12/20/14 07:20 AM Edited by mysticalview21 on Sat 12/20/14 07:25 AM
I remember one who spoke about her FWB relationship and she and he loved it ... now I don't believe she thought he was with anyone else but don't know ...it was causal and seemed the way they spoke it had love & respect in it to... and has gone on for years this way both very happy together doing that kind of relationship ... but so many different opinions on this subject hard to tell what some are really looking for ... I know I have changed my view on relationships now...

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Wed 12/24/14 12:31 PM
Okay I get that! I however won't settle regardless. If I can't be true to myself, how can I be true to another individual? Hope you look for and get that which you truly want and deserve! I'll second that. :-)

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 12/24/14 12:39 PM
why most people just want casual relationship.. what do you think guys?? i just want to know it For me its because I'm not in a position to fall in love, but I still yearn for the companionship of a good woman.

mini1x Joined Sat 11/15/14 Posts: 280	Wed 12/24/14 12:49 PM
Yup, as it's been said, whatever works for both parties, right? If two people want (or don't want) the same thing, then it's perfectly ok. Sex is just one part of the whole human equation. How one views sex is just a part of what people consider a match or not. At one time, not that long ago, being a divorcee marked women as loose in morals. In some countries, it still is. Another sex related thing. In my opinion, I think the whole problem boils down to being able to separate sex from emotional attachment. Women in general consider both the same, whereas men generally don't. Not saying whether one is better than the other, just saying men and women are different in this respect.

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Wed 12/24/14 12:57 PM Edited by OnNewJourney on Wed 12/24/14 01:03 PM
Yup, as it's been said, whatever works for both parties, right? If two people want (or don't want) the same thing, then it's perfectly ok. Sex is just one part of the whole human equation. How one views sex is just a part of what people consider a match or not. At one time, not that long ago, being a divorcee marked women as loose in morals. In some countries, it still is. Another sex related thing. In my opinion, I think the whole problem boils down to being able to separate sex from emotional attachment. Women in general consider both the same, whereas men generally don't. Not saying whether one is better than the other, just saying men and women are different in this respect. mini, lies were always lies and truth was always truth. As you said, IF BOTH want just sex and they are upfront about it, that's fine. Lies are not fine. Many people lie to get what they want. Not just from relationships. :-) P.S. Just to add that this reply never meant to be an invitation for anyone to make any suggestions LOL There are great toys these days, both for girls and boys. This lady even can do renovating herself and do minor car repairs. ;-) So, nudges, "hi", "can we chat" etc. are going to be ignored.

mini1x Joined Sat 11/15/14 Posts: 280	Wed 12/24/14 01:08 PM
Yup, as it's been said, whatever works for both parties, right? If two people want (or don't want) the same thing, then it's perfectly ok. Sex is just one part of the whole human equation. How one views sex is just a part of what people consider a match or not. At one time, not that long ago, being a divorcee marked women as loose in morals. In some countries, it still is. Another sex related thing. In my opinion, I think the whole problem boils down to being able to separate sex from emotional attachment. Women in general consider both the same, whereas men generally don't. Not saying whether one is better than the other, just saying men and women are different in this respect. mini, lies were always lies and truth was always truth. As you said, IF BOTH want just sex and they are upfront about it, that's fine. Lies are not fine. Many people lie to get what they want. Not just from relationships. :-) P.S. Just to add that this reply never meant to be an invitation for anyone to make any suggestions LOL There are great toys these days, both for girls and boys. This lady even can do renovating herself and do minor car repairs. ;-) So, nudges, "hi", "can we chat" etc. are going to be ignored. Agree 100%, lying to get what you want is a despicable thing. Even worse if it takes ten years to find out lol. And I do hope you follow all safety precautions when "renovating"... those things sound dangerous! Lol.

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Wed 12/24/14 01:12 PM
Yup, as it's been said, whatever works for both parties, right? If two people want (or don't want) the same thing, then it's perfectly ok. Sex is just one part of the whole human equation. How one views sex is just a part of what people consider a match or not. At one time, not that long ago, being a divorcee marked women as loose in morals. In some countries, it still is. Another sex related thing. In my opinion, I think the whole problem boils down to being able to separate sex from emotional attachment. Women in general consider both the same, whereas men generally don't. Not saying whether one is better than the other, just saying men and women are different in this respect. mini, lies were always lies and truth was always truth. As you said, IF BOTH want just sex and they are upfront about it, that's fine. Lies are not fine. Many people lie to get what they want. Not just from relationships. :-) P.S. Just to add that this reply never meant to be an invitation for anyone to make any suggestions LOL There are great toys these days, both for girls and boys. This lady even can do renovating herself and do minor car repairs. ;-) So, nudges, "hi", "can we chat" etc. are going to be ignored. Agree 100%, lying to get what you want is a despicable thing. Even worse if it takes ten years to find out lol. And I do hope you follow all safety precautions when "renovating"... those things sound dangerous! Lol. Don't worry, dad taught me a few good tricks and I got few good tools too. ;-)