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Topic: casual thing
dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 12/19/14 04:41 PM
Casual things have never held an interest for me ever, since I don't think these casual things hold anything of lasting value. It's just people using each other for their own selfish purposes but if that's all the two involved want, then that's their choice! Everyone has a right to choose and the rewards, or lack of them, are theirs to bear as it was their choice!

miko1960 Joined Thu 06/11/09 Posts: 554	Fri 12/19/14 04:42 PM
Most people want long term relationships in a casual relationship who is going to be there for u say when you are sick or need emotional support

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 12/19/14 06:24 PM
I think people have always wanted casual relationships, its just more accepted now in society. So it's more out in the open. It's like getting samples at a food place, you get to try it, taste it, and enjoy it without purchasing. And if you don't like it spit it out and move on no lost. I would say only SOME people,and also, some people got the chitty end of the stick one or more times,and therefore,find it hard to trust anyone,so I don't think you can speak for EVERYONE,I can say that cause am one of those that never wanted no" casual relationship",I never wanted to share what's mind,PERIOD ,but sometimes now,I start to wonder how much people really into a regular relationships,cause am starting to think it's just one big FCK fest going on,and a small part of me is just saying,FCK-IT,JOIN DA FEST!!!!!

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 12/19/14 06:35 PM
I think people have always wanted casual relationships, its just more accepted now in society. So it's more out in the open. It's like getting samples at a food place, you get to try it, taste it, and enjoy it without purchasing. And if you don't like it spit it out and move on no lost. I would say only SOME people,and also, some people got the chitty end of the stick one or more times,and therefore,find it hard to trust anyone,so I don't think you can speak for EVERYONE,I can say that cause am one of those that never wanted no" casual relationship",I never wanted to share what's mind,PERIOD ,but sometimes now,I start to wonder how much people really into a regular relationships,cause am starting to think it's just one big FCK fest going on,and a small part of me is just saying,FCK-IT,JOIN DA FEST!!!!! So in other words, you'll take what you can get and lose yourself because you feel others are getting something? Would that bring you joy or just temporary satisfaction ? Is this what you truly want deep down within your innermost being? Or will you settle for anything?

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 12/19/14 06:48 PM
I think people have always wanted casual relationships, its just more accepted now in society. So it's more out in the open. It's like getting samples at a food place, you get to try it, taste it, and enjoy it without purchasing. And if you don't like it spit it out and move on no lost. I would say only SOME people,and also, some people got the chitty end of the stick one or more times,and therefore,find it hard to trust anyone,so I don't think you can speak for EVERYONE,I can say that cause am one of those that never wanted no" casual relationship",I never wanted to share what's mind,PERIOD ,but sometimes now,I start to wonder how much people really into a regular relationships,cause am starting to think it's just one big FCK fest going on,and a small part of me is just saying,FCK-IT,JOIN DA FEST!!!!! So in other words, you'll take what you can get and lose yourself because you feel others are getting something? Would that bring you joy or just temporary satisfaction ? Is this what you truly want deep down within your innermost being? Or will you settle for anything? Lol nooo,am saying what I'm noticing all the time,and sometimes I wonder what the hell is love,all I'm seeing is people using other people for sex and personal gains ECT,and if I wanted to settle for"anything",I cud of done that a long time ago,so pardon my French mam,but part of me is just basically saying,FCK LOVE!!!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 12/19/14 06:58 PM
I think people have always wanted casual relationships, its just more accepted now in society. So it's more out in the open. It's like getting samples at a food place, you get to try it, taste it, and enjoy it without purchasing. And if you don't like it spit it out and move on no lost. I would say only SOME people,and also, some people got the chitty end of the stick one or more times,and therefore,find it hard to trust anyone,so I don't think you can speak for EVERYONE,I can say that cause am one of those that never wanted no" casual relationship",I never wanted to share what's mind,PERIOD ,but sometimes now,I start to wonder how much people really into a regular relationships,cause am starting to think it's just one big FCK fest going on,and a small part of me is just saying,FCK-IT,JOIN DA FEST!!!!! So in other words, you'll take what you can get and lose yourself because you feel others are getting something? Would that bring you joy or just temporary satisfaction ? Is this what you truly want deep down within your innermost being? Or will you settle for anything? And don't get me wrong,I understand what you are saying,and it does makes sense,but it's the way I feel,and I did say "a small part of me,feel that way!

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 12/19/14 07:23 PM
I think people have always wanted casual relationships, its just more accepted now in society. So it's more out in the open. It's like getting samples at a food place, you get to try it, taste it, and enjoy it without purchasing. And if you don't like it spit it out and move on no lost. I would say only SOME people,and also, some people got the chitty end of the stick one or more times,and therefore,find it hard to trust anyone,so I don't think you can speak for EVERYONE,I can say that cause am one of those that never wanted no" casual relationship",I never wanted to share what's mind,PERIOD ,but sometimes now,I start to wonder how much people really into a regular relationships,cause am starting to think it's just one big FCK fest going on,and a small part of me is just saying,FCK-IT,JOIN DA FEST!!!!! So in other words, you'll take what you can get and lose yourself because you feel others are getting something? Would that bring you joy or just temporary satisfaction ? Is this what you truly want deep down within your innermost being? Or will you settle for anything? And don't get me wrong,I understand what you are saying,and it does makes sense,but it's the way I feel,and I did say "a small part of me,feel that way! So who wins out? The smaller or the larger part of you? One or the other has the winning hand! Settle or not??

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Fri 12/19/14 07:23 PM
casual dating = shorter drive to pound town committed relationship = long,scenic drive to pound town

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Fri 12/19/14 07:28 PM
casual dating = shorter drive to pound town committed relationship = long,scenic drive to pound town And you're trying to save has JT???? Lol whut?

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 12/19/14 07:29 PM Edited by dcastelmissy on Fri 12/19/14 07:34 PM
casual dating = shorter drive to pound town committed relationship = long,scenic drive to pound town And you're trying to save gas JT???? Lol

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 12/19/14 07:34 PM
casual dating = shorter drive to pound town committed relationship = long,scenic drive to pound town And you're trying to save has JT???? Lol whut? See correction! Lol

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 12/19/14 07:36 PM
casual dating = shorter drive to pound town committed relationship = long,scenic drive to pound town And you're trying to save has JT???? Lol whut? See correction! Lol. Besides everyone here knows you're only in this for the b**bs lol!

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Fri 12/19/14 07:39 PM
casual dating = shorter drive to pound town committed relationship = long,scenic drive to pound town And you're trying to save has JT???? Lol whut? See correction! Lol. Besides everyone here knows you're only in this for the b**bs lol! well of course

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Fri 12/19/14 07:41 PM
casual dating = shorter drive to pound town committed relationship = long,scenic drive to pound town And you're trying to save gas JT???? Lol oh,yeah.i can't be wasting my time driving forever.you know,with this economy and all

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 12/19/14 07:45 PM
casual dating = shorter drive to pound town committed relationship = long,scenic drive to pound town And you're trying to save has JT???? Lol whut? See correction! Lol. Besides everyone here knows you're only in this for the bbs lol! well of course Best of Bbs to you JT!!

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Fri 12/19/14 07:45 PM
casual dating = shorter drive to pound town committed relationship = long,scenic drive to pound town And you're trying to save has JT???? Lol whut? See correction! Lol. Besides everyone here knows you're only in this for the bbs lol! well of course Best of Bbs to you JT!! if you see the best boobs,point me in the direction where they're at

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 12/19/14 08:03 PM
casual dating = shorter drive to pound town committed relationship = long,scenic drive to pound town And you're trying to save has JT???? Lol whut? See correction! Lol. Besides everyone here knows you're only in this for the bbs lol! well of course Best of Bbs to you JT!! if you see the best boobs,point me in the direction where they're at Yep!! Will do! Lol

Kindlightheart Joined Fri 09/19/14 Posts: 2370	Fri 12/19/14 08:45 PM
I like to keep relationships casual cause the rest of my life is complicated...lol...and then I can be so busy with my existing life...it's hard to dedicate time...geez...I love my life the way it is and it would be imposible for anything more...hmmmmm...but casual works with the right one...

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Fri 12/19/14 09:23 PM
...but casual works with the right one... Yeah,like two people looking for the same thing!!!

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 12/19/14 09:33 PM
...but casual works with the right one... Yeah,like two people looking for the same thing!!! Yes! Temporarily ! So still a temporary solution to a permanent problem! Is this enough for anyone realistically? Do you not deserve more? Or is this your ultimate desire???