I have this friend who is a French guy and I think im going crazy over him. We had sex lot of times and just playing it cool with him. We both don't want to be committed. And I don't wanna lose him. How should I avoid falling for him? :/

Question for you: Are you sure you don't want to be committed or did he tell you that you don't want to be committed?

I don�t know what others will say, but if you�re afraid of loosing him, then you probably already fell for him.

He told me that he dont want to be committed. And also told me that I shouldn't fall for him. Yea I dont want to be committed also but its different with him.

I hate to say but it seems to me that he is using you. You are obviously already hooked on him but he just wants the physical benefits that you offer with no committment.

This is just my opinion

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I'm thinking for starters you could stop having sex with him....

I never said that. Kidding. (((Leigh)))

I do agree with your opinion, larsonc.
It's jtotally only about "Friend With Benefits ", in "his pov".

I do agree with your opinion, larsonc.
It's jtotally only about "Friend With Benefits ", in "his pov".

I think, maybe you could answer that question by yourself, because only you could take the right decision, especially about what's the best for you both, in that case. :p

I think the "friend"part went out the window lil while now,wouldn't ya say?

that tends to happen in a friend with benefits situation. I've seen it happen often. one starts to have deeper feelings. the other just wants the convenience.
it sounds like you're already in love.
hate to tell you this but people can't help loving, and can't make another love you if it just isn't there.
only you can decide what comes next

i've been in such relationships in the past..... and all i can tell you is if you both don't get serious about what you want instead of just sex with no commitment then it'l end up in either of you being really hurt and mis�rable.
Its obvious you're both using each other for pleasure for the moment and h� made it clear from the start what was going down so that you don't expect anything....but at this point you've reached, if its just going to be meaningless sex then i can advise you to pull away coz its best for you, unless you just want to continue your ways.....anyway do what makes you happy goodluck

I agree with the above - hey Romeo

sex isn't love just saying women have a tendency to equate great sex with love especially younger women, also WTF, why are you have sex with a friend to start with don't you understand boundaries .

More like they're using each other, i'd say?

When the sex is good, one will fall for anyone. It's like written in the Geneva Convention or something.

one sided love..

Its just like we are happy when we're together and both don't want to lose each other. That's why its kinda hard to decide.