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Topic: how to find true love
reyna2014 Joined Thu 12/11/14 Posts: 4	Fri 12/12/14 01:38 PM
How can we do that?

rubert3247 Joined Tue 11/18/14 Posts: 1	Fri 12/12/14 01:58 PM
If you came here in the hope of finding true love, get prepared for the truth about internet love.

plastic_pancakes Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 7399	Fri 12/12/14 02:04 PM
Topicality. First you have to define what the hell "true love" is to you, and work from there.

larsonc Joined Fri 06/20/14 Posts: 2377	Fri 12/12/14 02:10 PM
How can we do that? I don't think you "find" it ... I think it just happens

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Fri 12/12/14 03:02 PM
How can we do that? I don't think you "find" it ... I think it just happens I would have to agree.... .....hiya ((((Lars))))

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Fri 12/12/14 03:05 PM
If you came here in the hope of finding true love, get prepared for the truth about internet love. What is "internet love"?

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Fri 12/12/14 03:14 PM
How can we do that? I don't think you "find" it ... I think it just happens True, but it helps to stack the deck in your favor. Be a recluse on a desert island and your odds are slim. Be active doing things you and others enjoy and the odds get better.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 12/12/14 03:18 PM
How can we do that? I don't think you "find" it ... I think it just happens True, but it helps to stack the deck in your favor. Be a recluse on a desert island and your odds are slim. Be active doing things you and others enjoy and the odds get better.

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Fri 12/12/14 03:29 PM
True love at what age? 20? 30? 40? 50? 60...70...? Do you believe you can love again at your age and with your life experience? If you do, than you might get lucky and find it. However, most people on dating sites look for other things, not for love.

AMILIA1724 Joined Thu 05/08/14 Posts: 372	Fri 12/12/14 04:04 PM
How can we do that? I don't think you "find" it ... I think it just happens True

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 12/12/14 04:11 PM
True love at what age? 20? 30? 40? 50? 60...70...? Do you believe you can love again at your age and with your life experience? If you do, than you might get lucky and find it. However, most people on dating sites look for other things, not for love. I believe you can love "again" at any age and regardless of life experience...I also believe what Lars said, "Love just happens" ...Even those who are not actively looking will find it impossible to resist when it "just happens" to them...

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Fri 12/12/14 04:21 PM
True love at what age? 20? 30? 40? 50? 60...70...? Do you believe you can love again at your age and with your life experience? If you do, than you might get lucky and find it. However, most people on dating sites look for other things, not for love. I believe you can love "again" at any age and regardless of life experience...I also believe what Lars said, "Love just happens" ...Even those who are not actively looking will find it impossible to resist when it "just happens" to them... "Just happens"? Perhaps you are right. I don't know... But, if you are not looking for love how can it just happen? I am not sure anything can just happen if the person is not ready for it and doesn't really want it. You can't make yourself love someone or make someone else love you. I guess both have to look for love and be ready to truly accept other person as is, and than it could "just happen". I could be wrong, of course. Everyone has different life experience. :-)

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 12/12/14 04:22 PM
How can we do that? You have to defeat an expert swordsman, a giant and a short Sicilian.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 12/12/14 04:42 PM
How can we do that? Well....that old fashioned phrase of "Yo babeeeee. Can I git yo digits?" has worked wonders since the day the telephone was created.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 12/12/14 05:11 PM
True love at what age? 20? 30? 40? 50? 60...70...? Do you believe you can love again at your age and with your life experience? If you do, than you might get lucky and find it. However, most people on dating sites look for other things, not for love. I believe you can love "again" at any age and regardless of life experience...I also believe what Lars said, "Love just happens" ...Even those who are not actively looking will find it impossible to resist when it "just happens" to them... "Just happens"? Perhaps you are right. I don't know... But, if you are not looking for love how can it just happen? I am not sure anything can just happen if the person is not ready for it and doesn't really want it. You can't make yourself love someone or make someone else love you. I guess both have to look for love and be ready to truly accept other person as is, and than it could "just happen". I could be wrong, of course. Everyone has different life experience. :-) You're right, you can't make someone love you...You can't make yourself love someone...Love "just happens"....

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Fri 12/12/14 05:21 PM
Let love find you..

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Fri 12/12/14 05:39 PM
True love at what age? 20? 30? 40? 50? 60...70...? Do you believe you can love again at your age and with your life experience? If you do, than you might get lucky and find it. However, most people on dating sites look for other things, not for love. I believe you can love "again" at any age and regardless of life experience...I also believe what Lars said, "Love just happens" ...Even those who are not actively looking will find it impossible to resist when it "just happens" to them... "Just happens"? Perhaps you are right. I don't know... But, if you are not looking for love how can it just happen? I am not sure anything can just happen if the person is not ready for it and doesn't really want it. You can't make yourself love someone or make someone else love you. I guess both have to look for love and be ready to truly accept other person as is, and than it could "just happen". I could be wrong, of course. Everyone has different life experience. :-) You're right, you can't make someone love you...You can't make yourself love someone...Love "just happens".... If you asked me to choose just one sentence to make a point, it would be this one: "I guess BOTH have to look for love and be ready to truly accept other person as is, and than it could "just happen"." If one is looking for love, but the other isn't, it won't just happen. That's what I meant.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 12/12/14 05:45 PM
True love at what age? 20? 30? 40? 50? 60...70...? Do you believe you can love again at your age and with your life experience? If you do, than you might get lucky and find it. However, most people on dating sites look for other things, not for love. I believe you can love "again" at any age and regardless of life experience...I also believe what Lars said, "Love just happens" ...Even those who are not actively looking will find it impossible to resist when it "just happens" to them... "Just happens"? Perhaps you are right. I don't know... But, if you are not looking for love how can it just happen? I am not sure anything can just happen if the person is not ready for it and doesn't really want it. You can't make yourself love someone or make someone else love you. I guess both have to look for love and be ready to truly accept other person as is, and than it could "just happen". I could be wrong, of course. Everyone has different life experience. :-) You're right, you can't make someone love you...You can't make yourself love someone...Love "just happens".... If you asked me to choose just one sentence to make a point, it would be this one: "I guess BOTH have to look for love and be ready to truly accept other person as is, and than it could "just happen"." If one is looking for love, but the other isn't, it won't just happen. That's what I meant. I knew what you meant...Do you know what I mean?

SpicyExcel Joined Wed 10/31/12 Posts: 1622	Fri 12/12/14 06:33 PM
People can only show interest through communications. Love that is part of a long term relationship takes time to build in; intensity. Problem with online dating is the sexual expectations (at times), scammers and fraudulent communications that lead to a dead end road. People have to be honest with themselves why they are truely on - a - online dating site. Sometimes making a friend who understands you is a great way to prevent frustrations. Love just happens

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 12/12/14 06:40 PM
How can we do that? I don't think you "find" it ... I think it just happens True, but it helps to stack the deck in your favor. Be a recluse on a desert island and your odds are slim. Be active doing things you and others enjoy and the odds get better. Tom Hanks in Cast Away found Wilson. I say anything is bound to happen.