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Not the men I date. Men are known to be visual. women are known to be possessive and jealous... women are know to be ho's... huh... such hogwashz... how would those fine generalizations go over with you? they wouldn't. and neither do your's. complete and total generalizations. so totally not based upon EACH INDIVIDUAL. it's like saying "all old people are know to be senile"... total crapz untruth. no different than saying all blacks are thugs... or all whites are preps... totally crapz shootz stereotypes, which will simply hide any good person from the lens of those who see through such small minded prejudiced thinking. smiles Nice one David and i agree with you  
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Edited by
m3k4y
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Fri 12/05/14 05:55 PM
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Just did an "advanced search" on this site: where you put in the specs. for everything you want incl. religion/hair/kids: real detailed. 16 men came up in the results, using the 15 mile filter, out of the profiles of 5 that were physically attractive to me there were no interests/lifestyles in common. So, back to blocking scammers. I also don't find any of my gf's husbands/boyfriends attractive at all, does that mean that all of these intelligent, successful women just settled based on personality traits over physical attraction? To hear them talk each of their guys has specific problems they deal with regularly as to behavior etc...so what was the point of settling if you can't say EVERYTHING about him is great except for one thing. Seems like if it's more than one thing then everyday will be a compromise with this person? (& yes I know that my friends may not be telling me the whole story but I'm basing this on what I do know about them). Can it really be that hard to find someone that I will enjoy spending time with both dressed AND naked? Oh, BTW the second man I've met through this site (1st used a decade old photo & he didn't age well) intimated that I might enjoy going to a gun range (one of his hobbies NOT listed in his profile). Sighhhh... 
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the road to hell be paved with good intentions.
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Hmmm. I think physical attraction is important, even if it's definitely not the main focus. The men here are being hypocritical when they talk about soul and looking beyond the skin. Males are fixated on the visual. Unfortunately, either the man is good looking but shallow/lacks character and dull, or intelligent and sweet but physically unappealing. It's difficult to find the right combination. |
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Hmmm. I think physical attraction is important, even if it's definitely not the main focus. The men here are being hypocritical when they talk about soul and looking beyond the skin. Males are fixated on the visual. Unfortunately, either the man is good looking but shallow/lacks character and dull, or intelligent and sweet but physically unappealing. It's difficult to find the right combination.  
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Hi again, thanks for all your insights. What really did surprise me was the low number of selections from my advanced search - 16? OLD really is a numbers game. Now I know how those people feel who say they are from a small town & there is no one available for them to date. I can see how affairs between married people get started LOL!
Yes "settled" may be a harsh term coming from a single woman but...if something about your mate bothers you every day or there is a trait lacking that you notice regularly & there's been no change well...if you stay then that's settling to me. You've weighed the pros & cons & decided it's less trouble to put up w/it than not. There is no denying that it changes how you view & value the other person. It could be anything: sex, personal habits, confidence (you'd be surprised how many of my successful friends wish their men were making more $$ than them or doing something to TRY to make more $$, it's not even about the $, what I hearing is a lack of ambition, drive or this lack of confidence comes out in other areas of the RS). Men think the same things too. For example the 50 y.o. men who divorce after 20 years of marriage & then marry 22 y.o. model/aspiring actress etc., they won't "settle" for a woman closer to their own age, if they can get someone more attractive. Anyway...had another scammer (even they won't settle!) today so I'm back on track LOL! Have a good Friday night... |
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 Hi again, thanks for all your insights. What really did surprise me was the low number of selections from my advanced search - 16? OLD really is a numbers game. Now I know how those people feel who say they are from a small town & there is no one available for them to date. I can see how affairs between married people get started LOL! Yes "settled" may be a harsh term coming from a single woman but...if something about your mate bothers you every day or there is a trait lacking that you notice regularly & there's been no change well...if you stay then that's settling to me. You've weighed the pros & cons & decided it's less trouble to put up w/it than not. There is no denying that it changes how you view & value the other person. It could be anything: sex, personal habits, confidence (you'd be surprised how many of my successful friends wish their men were making more $$ than them or doing something to TRY to make more $$, it's not even about the $, what I hearing is a lack of ambition, drive or this lack of confidence comes out in other areas of the RS). Men think the same things too. For example the 50 y.o. men who divorce after 20 years of marriage & then marry 22 y.o. model/aspiring actress etc., they won't "settle" for a woman closer to their own age, if they can get someone more attractive. Anyway...had another scammer (even they won't settle!) today so I'm back on track LOL! Have a good Friday night... for there are but many ways to skin the cat, the way EACH ONE IT SELF SEA FIT!
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Not the men I date. Men are known to be visual. women are known to be possessive and jealous... women are know to be ho's... huh... such hogwashz... how would those fine generalizations go over with you? they wouldn't. and neither do your's. complete and total generalizations. so totally not based upon EACH INDIVIDUAL. it's like saying "all old people are know to be senile"... total crapz untruth. no different than saying all blacks are thugs... or all whites are preps... totally crapz shootz stereotypes, which will simply hide any good person from the lens of those who see through such small minded prejudiced thinking. smiles I am not surprised that your comeback was the predictable "don't stereotype" response and of course a male agreed with you. Good luck dating the homely women with the "heart of gold" and the "pure of soul". The rest of us will date those we find attractive with good personalities and those we consider real. |
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You can never be too rich, too thin...or too picky.
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You can never be too rich, too thin...or too picky. Really?? 
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You can never be too rich, too thin...or too picky. Really?? AGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!   
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Not the men I date. Men are known to be visual. women are known to be possessive and jealous... women are know to be ho's... huh... such hogwashz... how would those fine generalizations go over with you? they wouldn't. and neither do your's. complete and total generalizations. so totally not based upon EACH INDIVIDUAL. it's like saying "all old people are know to be senile"... total crapz untruth. no different than saying all blacks are thugs... or all whites are preps... totally crapz shootz stereotypes, which will simply hide any good person from the lens of those who see through such small minded prejudiced thinking. smiles I am not surprised that your comeback was the predictable "don't stereotype" response and of course a male agreed with you. Good luck dating the homely women with the "heart of gold" and the "pure of soul". The rest of us will date those we find attractive with good personalities and those we consider real. good luckz dating people like your self... no thanks. |
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Not the men I date. Men are known to be visual. women are known to be possessive and jealous... women are know to be ho's... huh... such hogwashz... how would those fine generalizations go over with you? they wouldn't. and neither do your's. complete and total generalizations. so totally not based upon EACH INDIVIDUAL. it's like saying "all old people are know to be senile"... total crapz untruth. no different than saying all blacks are thugs... or all whites are preps... totally crapz shootz stereotypes, which will simply hide any good person from the lens of those who see through such small minded prejudiced thinking. smiles I am not surprised that your comeback was the predictable "don't stereotype" response and of course a male agreed with you. Good luck dating the homely women with the "heart of gold" and the "pure of soul". The rest of us will date those we find attractive with good personalities and those we consider real. good luckz dating people like your self... no thanks. |
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You can never be too rich, too thin...or too picky. Really?? OMGaloshes!!...lol
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Not the men I date. Men are known to be visual. women are known to be possessive and jealous... women are know to be ho's... huh... such hogwashz... how would those fine generalizations go over with you? they wouldn't. and neither do your's. complete and total generalizations. so totally not based upon EACH INDIVIDUAL. it's like saying "all old people are know to be senile"... total crapz untruth. no different than saying all blacks are thugs... or all whites are preps... totally crapz shootz stereotypes, which will simply hide any good person from the lens of those who see through such small minded prejudiced thinking. smiles I am not surprised that your comeback was the predictable "don't stereotype" response and of course a male agreed with you. Good luck dating the homely women with the "heart of gold" and the "pure of soul". The rest of us will date those we find attractive with good personalities and those we consider real. the "hearts of gold" will always have some Lead in them just to give themselves some strength and the "pure of soul" will always have a sin or 2 that is hidden from the world |
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Edited by
davidben1
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Fri 12/05/14 09:52 PM
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all sins are hidden by the dumb, who live but to absolve them self, and to impress them self, but no sin need be hidden by the wise, who sea the dumb, that deem many things a sin, even their own lives.
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davidben1 were you a church pastor in a past life?
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Edited by
davidben1
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Fri 12/05/14 10:20 PM
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no...
but isn't that special... a stepmother to the many homeless zombies my soul did find comfort in helping.... god bless those god damned souls... those who were kicked off the Jerry Springer show... my heart had compassion on. i mothered like the father they needed... praise be to jesus for lettin me be of assistance to the poor poor zombies... such a sad misfortune... oh how sad sadder saddest the world be. 
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