Topic: dating or friends
suzieq24's photo
Mon 12/01/14 04:38 PM
I think effort should be emphasized on both sides of a relationship between a man and woman. What do you think?

SpicyExcel's photo
Mon 12/01/14 04:48 PM
of course, but depends on what kind of sandwich you preferlaugh

SpicyExcel's photo
Mon 12/01/14 05:40 PM
so you have your jar full of numbers to call? :wink:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 12/01/14 05:40 PM
Right now, neither. Utterly fed up with the whole lot ..
Gonna indulge in self love and maybe start a collection for my night table.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 12/01/14 05:49 PM

I think effort should be emphasized on both sides of a relationship between a man and woman. What do you think?


Overrated! I want a sugar momma.

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 12/01/14 06:31 PM

I think effort should be emphasized on both sides of a relationship between a man and woman. What do you think?


Yep, the male skins the cat for dinner, while the female cooks the cat for dinner ...

That's how it was on planet Melmac.

Awatersign's photo
Mon 12/01/14 06:55 PM
Edited by Awatersign on Mon 12/01/14 06:54 PM

I think effort should be emphasized on both sides of a relationship between a man and woman. What do you think?
Can you be more specific,I don't understand the question as in how it is related to the topic

Awatersign's photo
Mon 12/01/14 06:56 PM
Ok ,sounds like a friend zone type thing,are we friends or are we dating?is that it?

navygirl's photo
Mon 12/01/14 07:20 PM

Right now, neither. Utterly fed up with the whole lot ..
Gonna indulge in self love and maybe start a collection for my night table.


Sorry to hear that Crystal. I sure hope things will look brighter for you soon. flowerforyou

jbfromwinni2's photo
Mon 12/01/14 09:26 PM
Edited by jbfromwinni2 on Mon 12/01/14 09:23 PM
flowerforyou flowerforyou I agree ;-)

Argo's photo
Mon 12/01/14 09:40 PM

I think effort should be emphasized on both sides of a relationship between a man and woman. What do you think?

yes, equal effort, in that if a woman can do 10 sets of 10 deep-knee bends...
the man should, ideally, be able to do those type same numbers in push-ups...

no photo
Tue 12/02/14 02:40 AM
I think it's more complicated because men and women are different. Women are able to lead the relationship to a certain extent in the direction we want it to go in, but we need to make sure we know what direction to go in or the relationship will fall apart. It's sort of the woman's job to maintain a relationship. Men don't specialize in nurturing relationships, women do.

Mhode1's photo
Tue 12/02/14 07:58 AM

I think it's more complicated because men and women are different. Women are able to lead the relationship to a certain extent in the direction we want it to go in, but we need to make sure we know what direction to go in or the relationship will fall apart. It's sort of the woman's job to maintain a relationship. Men don't specialize in nurturing relationships, women do.


Yeah you are right. Women really work hard in that regard but its not to say that there aren't men that put much effort to make the whole relationship thing work out, such men are still out there really.

suzieq24's photo
Tue 12/02/14 06:33 PM
Thanks for agreeing. I'm just tired of texting and e-mailing and men don't respond to it for days, and then make excuses for not following through.

shailjshah's photo
Thu 12/04/14 09:29 PM
YOU ARE RIGHT. BOTH MAN AND WOMAN SHOULD BE FREE IN THE RELATIONSHIP.

jacktrades's photo
Thu 12/04/14 09:33 PM
I agree it takes two.

davidben1's photo
Thu 12/04/14 09:40 PM
Edited by davidben1 on Thu 12/04/14 09:41 PM
when one sea it as a benefit to be allowed to sea where it self does not fit, instead of seaing others that don't fit one self as bad, it immediately find where it self does fit perfectly.

smiles