im constantly being told im nudging to much! so i cant nudge so i try email, now i cant email cause ive reached my limit for the day! Is this website like the govt! everything has to be controlled!! how am i supposed to meet anyone??????? I try to message, and the message box doesnt work.

Why did I encounter an email limit?
'We had to place a limit on first-contact emails because
of spammers. Basically, this cuts down the number of
first-contact emails that one can send within a
two-to-three-day period (we can't divulge anymore
information about this limit). However, a member
affected by this limit will still be able to send an
unlimited number of emails to those with whom he or
she has already had some back-and-forth. It should
be noted that MinglePlus members are exempt.'
http://mingle2.com/welcome/faq_message

There is also another message limitation..if the emails exceed
a certain number and within a timeframe. This ones cures in minutes.

As with most rules, there are reasons :-)

If this site is free, why can't I use the instant message.

Also in the free section does anyone get emails responded to? I'm wondering if they are sent directly to the person or held at Mingle2?
Thanks

Whether you are a paid or unpaid subscriber, it makes no difference
with email, they are sent and received as written in a timely manner.

IM has good days and bad days :-(