Topic: Why does it happen to me ?
StopFollowingMe's photo
Sun 11/30/14 10:11 AM
Edited by StopFollowingMe on Sun 11/30/14 10:14 AM
Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ? Im 100% faithful . I always get taken advantage of ? Yes i know I'm a dude and dudes are supposed to be the other way around but that is not the case . Please help! If your going to be a Jack *** don't comment . frown

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Sun 11/30/14 10:17 AM
First, no, dudes are not suppose to be the ones cheating. Old double standard there.

Second, none of us know you and cannot answer why you keep getting hurt. Ask friends and family who know you best. Take a good look at how you've been in relatinships to see where you might need to make some changes.

Welcome to Mingle2! Best of luck!

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Sun 11/30/14 10:28 AM

Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ? Im 100% faithful . I always get taken advantage of ? Yes i know I'm a dude and dudes are supposed to be the other way around but that is not the case . Please help! If your going to be a Jack *** don't comment . frown





Why don't you ask the people that have done that to you?

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Sun 11/30/14 12:42 PM
klc said it best!

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 11/30/14 12:49 PM

Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ?


Uh, could it be because of your age?

Seriously, if you are just 18, then it is unlikely that you were ever in a relationship with someone who if fully mature mentally or emotionally.

Anyway, welcome to the website, and thank you for your National Guard service.


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Sun 11/30/14 01:19 PM

Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ? Im 100% faithful . I always get taken advantage of ? Yes i know I'm a dude and dudes are supposed to be the other way around but that is not the case . Please help! If your going to be a Jack *** don't comment . frown


Your time will come:wink: ...Welcome to Mingle!flowerforyou

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Sun 11/30/14 01:26 PM

Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ? Im 100% faithful . I always get taken advantage of ? Yes i know I'm a dude and dudes are supposed to be the other way around but that is not the case . Please help! If your going to be a Jack *** don't comment . frown


Your getting hurt.. every time?. What are you doing.. falling in love with everyone of them?.. Your only 18.. relax.. have fun.

panchovanilla's photo
Sun 11/30/14 01:26 PM
I also have been taken advantage of.
And it happened because I let it happen.
We know when it's happening, but think it's ok at the time
because it's making the other person happy.
It's not ok.

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Sun 11/30/14 01:28 PM

I also have been taken advantage of.
And it happened because I let it happen.
We know when it's happening, but think it's ok at the time
because it's making the other person happy.
It's not ok.


:thumbsup:

mini1x's photo
Sun 11/30/14 01:39 PM

I also have been taken advantage of.
And it happened because I let it happen.
We know when it's happening, but think it's ok at the time
because it's making the other person happy.
It's not ok.


Well said Pancho, well said.

But OP, we can't give up, there's got to be someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are.

Welcome to the forum.


dreamerana's photo
Sun 11/30/14 04:52 PM

I also have been taken advantage of.
And it happened because I let it happen.
We know when it's happening, but think it's ok at the time
because it's making the other person happy.
It's not ok.


I agree with this. we accept negative treatment in the hopes that what we do will be enough to hold on to the other person.

my advice is love yourself and have respect for your beliefs. there is someone out there who will be right for you. take your time and get to know people. wish you all the best flowerforyou

 Maria195's photo
Sun 11/30/14 05:07 PM

I also have been taken advantage of.
And it happened because I let it happen.
We know when it's happening, but think it's ok at the time
because it's making the other person happy.
It's not ok.


:thumbsup:

But you don't have to let others take advantages of you! Not because you have feelings for them you have to put up with...Welcome to M2 flowerforyou

Astrid's photo
Sun 11/30/14 05:11 PM
Just keep going. Everything will come to you all at the right time sometimes when you least expect it. You're young, experience will teach you what you need to learn.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 11/30/14 06:12 PM

Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ? Im 100% faithful . I always get taken advantage of ? Yes i know I'm a dude and dudes are supposed to be the other way around but that is not the case . Please help! If your going to be a Jack *** don't comment . frown

Hunny, hunny, you are not old enough to have had your quota
for being jerked around. This is the ENTIRE point of the
teens and 20's (30's+ if you're real smart) to gain the
experience of heartbreak.

To gauge it, learn from it, so that when the right one comes
along, you know it, and may be even ready for it.

Welcome to the halls of endless advice :-)

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Sun 11/30/14 06:20 PM
You can't learn unless you live.

Learn boundaries.

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Sun 11/30/14 07:41 PM
Edited by rico_friend on Sun 11/30/14 07:57 PM
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Mon 12/01/14 02:45 AM
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