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StopFollowingMe
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Sun 11/30/14 10:14 AM
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Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ? Im 100% faithful . I always get taken advantage of ? Yes i know I'm a dude and dudes are supposed to be the other way around but that is not the case . Please help! If your going to be a Jack *** don't comment .
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First, no, dudes are not suppose to be the ones cheating. Old double standard there.
Second, none of us know you and cannot answer why you keep getting hurt. Ask friends and family who know you best. Take a good look at how you've been in relatinships to see where you might need to make some changes. Welcome to Mingle2! Best of luck! |
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Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ? Im 100% faithful . I always get taken advantage of ? Yes i know I'm a dude and dudes are supposed to be the other way around but that is not the case . Please help! If your going to be a Jack *** don't comment . Why don't you ask the people that have done that to you? |
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klc said it best!
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Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ? Uh, could it be because of your age? Seriously, if you are just 18, then it is unlikely that you were ever in a relationship with someone who if fully mature mentally or emotionally. Anyway, welcome to the website, and thank you for your National Guard service. |
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Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ? Im 100% faithful . I always get taken advantage of ? Yes i know I'm a dude and dudes are supposed to be the other way around but that is not the case . Please help! If your going to be a Jack *** don't comment . Your time will come ...Welcome to Mingle! |
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Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ? Im 100% faithful . I always get taken advantage of ? Yes i know I'm a dude and dudes are supposed to be the other way around but that is not the case . Please help! If your going to be a Jack *** don't comment . Your getting hurt.. every time?. What are you doing.. falling in love with everyone of them?.. Your only 18.. relax.. have fun. |
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I also have been taken advantage of.
And it happened because I let it happen. We know when it's happening, but think it's ok at the time because it's making the other person happy. It's not ok. |
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I also have been taken advantage of. And it happened because I let it happen. We know when it's happening, but think it's ok at the time because it's making the other person happy. It's not ok. |
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I also have been taken advantage of. And it happened because I let it happen. We know when it's happening, but think it's ok at the time because it's making the other person happy. It's not ok. Well said Pancho, well said. But OP, we can't give up, there's got to be someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are. Welcome to the forum. |
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I also have been taken advantage of. And it happened because I let it happen. We know when it's happening, but think it's ok at the time because it's making the other person happy. It's not ok. I agree with this. we accept negative treatment in the hopes that what we do will be enough to hold on to the other person. my advice is love yourself and have respect for your beliefs. there is someone out there who will be right for you. take your time and get to know people. wish you all the best |
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I also have been taken advantage of. And it happened because I let it happen. We know when it's happening, but think it's ok at the time because it's making the other person happy. It's not ok. But you don't have to let others take advantages of you! Not because you have feelings for them you have to put up with...Welcome to M2 |
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Just keep going. Everything will come to you all at the right time sometimes when you least expect it. You're young, experience will teach you what you need to learn.
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Everytime Im in a relationship I always get hurt Why ? Im 100% faithful . I always get taken advantage of ? Yes i know I'm a dude and dudes are supposed to be the other way around but that is not the case . Please help! If your going to be a Jack *** don't comment . Hunny, hunny, you are not old enough to have had your quota for being jerked around. This is the ENTIRE point of the teens and 20's (30's+ if you're real smart) to gain the experience of heartbreak. To gauge it, learn from it, so that when the right one comes along, you know it, and may be even ready for it. Welcome to the halls of endless advice :-) |
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You can't learn unless you live.
Learn boundaries. |
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Edited by
rico_friend
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Sun 11/30/14 07:57 PM
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