If a woman says " I have a switch for my loyalty" which means she has no problem turning it off depending on the mood. Could a woman like this truly want commitment ?
I told her its was her excuse for being lost and misunderstood was I wrong?

wrong...

she turns loyalty on and off...

such is truly only saying, i give my loyalty to whom i wish, where and when, I FEEL, to give loyalty...

if one see it as that, than one would see all humans decide them self when they switch loyalty on or off...

so she is totally smart...

just the same as if/when another mistreats you, your body and brain says, don't give loyalty...

only insecure followers are loyal no matter what...

and indeed, what is wrong or right?

there is no wrong...

there is no right...

to be seen in the mind, if one wishes to create what it self wishes...

if one wishes to create a blissful existence for it's beautiful women, it can't stare at right or wrong at all...

in the end, what one's words and actions CREATE to occur, be all that matters...

did it create a enjoyable thing...

if one wish to create good for two, than it must adjust it's words and actions until they are pleasant and enjoyable for two, one self and the other...

for right and wrong are created from the imaginations of how each individual IMAGINES they them self SHOULD BE treated...

and none can create GOOD REALITY from just imaginations of what SHOULD BE AS SOME SILLY NOTION OF RIGHT OR WRONG.

and these that think as this, forever never get what they want...

one must only think of words and actions as the tool of it self to CREATE a good enjoyable outcome for whom one wishes and cares about...

use all words and actions to create HOW SHE WISHES TO FEEL...

then no right or wrong will ever happen, only good shitz for both.

PEACE

Loyalty does not change it is given and should remain untouched
Loyalty is a very strong feeling and trait once it is given
One has no respect for ones self if one views loyalty as an easily changed feeling!

shall one be loyal to a thief...

shall one be loyal to a child molester...

shall one be loyal to a women beater...

shall one be loyal to a pimp...

shall one be loyal to a rapist...

ect, ect, ect...

it is only one whom deem loyalty should be always given, that has no respect for it self or caring about others, for if it cared about others, it would NEVER be loyal to that which HARMS OTHERS...

but it is truly EACH HUMAN, THAT GETS TO CHOOSE WHOM THEY GIVE LOYALTY TO...

for that which demands loyalty for it self, HAS NO CARING ABOUT OTHERS OR THEIR FREEDOM AND OWN CHOICES, and these only seeks to enslave others for their own personal gains and benefits.

I feel the same way
If ur close enough to gain my loyalty, you'll have it for life no matter what.
Not because I'm insecure It's just an unwritten code

If u knowingly know a person is a thef
Or murderer
It's wasn't smart of you to give your loyalty to them in the first place
Because they aren't loyal to them selves

Welcome to M2 and the forums.

I agree with David.

You can not get respect if you do not give it. Cherishing, honesty, respect...

I owe no loyalties if I am mistreated or have seen evidence of poor character.

Yes, you were wrong to tell her, after she just shared with you her thoughts and feelings on a matter, that she is wrong. You may tell her you disagree with her thoughts and feelings on a matter, but you can't tell her she is wrong with 100% assuredness. Unless, of course, you are God.

If you ARE God, we have much bigger problems than sorting out who's right and who's wrong in your disagreement with another...which, if you ARE God, you wouldn't care what we think, anyway, because You'd already know that You're right.





Welcome to M2, by the way. Best of luck on this site.

The principle of human loyalty is simple: it is spontaneous, and is always extended to those who deserve it. Loyalty dwindles where there is no desert.