This type of "recycling" is bad.
Mmmmmkay?

Thank you everyone for the kind advice I really appreciate it

First, I'd have to try to stifle the hearty laughter that would overcome me.

Then, as I was gasping for air and choking from laughing uncontrollably, I'd have to muster a "Hell NO", then continue laughing. Which generally has ended such conversations in the past.

No I would not give it a chance If that happend to me. Forget her and move on you deserve a lot better you will find someone better who really appreciates nd loves you and sees the special person you are, someone like *hint* *hunt*

Considering how strangely possible this would actually be for me, my response would be this.

"No, I have a girlfriend. Did you kick dope yet?"

Romeo do you still have feelings for her? If you do just listen to your heart and do what you think is best. Give her a second chance, If you see the love you had for her is not there anymore...tell her and move on... Good luck with where ever you do. JMO

I would tell him the truth, that I have chosen celibacy.

I would hang up!

Absolutely not.

Chances are she/he is only saying they miss you and want you back, is because it didn't work out with the person they broke up with you for.

Tell them to hit the bricks.

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That is exactly my thought

Tell your ex the truth that you met and dated milansoul

^^^^ this!
It may be awkward, maybe even a bit sad, because you did have good and wonderful moments with that person .. But no way, let it go ... Think of all the red flags ..

Absolutely true...lol...I don't know of any exception to the rule here...so unless you have changed there are chances things will just be painful again....for you.

Good luck though...I've been in that situation before too

Seriously dude. Don't hook back up with an EX just because it is convenient or safe for them. Find a girl who is crazy about you and don't look back.

Thank you i really value the advice, and thanks to everyone for the advice here

please on one feel they HAVE to read this...

smiles...

this is not necessarily a response to romeo on his question...

just on the same topic in general in life.

i wouldn't listen to another soul on what my reaction should be or what i should do in any relationships with another person, personally.

why...

not because i don't appreciate their sincere wish to help...

besides those who just like to pretend to be smart, to make them self feel smart, but hey, others should not have to pay with failure and sadness for one self just to feel smart with feel smart answers...

peoples lives are a BIG DEAL...

happiness in situations either makes or breaks them...

so i don't say or take any of these things lightly.

but as to why one SHOULD NOT heed others on specific actions to do, in reality, is due to any data that comes from comparing situations is totally totally flawed.

unaccurate.

and can and will recreate the same failures of the one self got the advice from...

as all data from others is based on them self, totally different than self, in all ways, no matter how much it seems the same...

why...

the "action advice flow" most always be as the "other" party in the situation, be the one in error...

but then the whole world, each one, is a "other party"...

so, all such data will create repeated failures for more and more, and seldom seldom seldom create what self is trying to create.

because it is just totally flawed data.

nobody else is you, so nobody else can know how you will change, expand and determine the outcome for your self, and most don't even know the other individual one is talking about, at all...

people are as individual as their faces, and all have heard no two situations are alike, but they just really don't see how much that is so...

so much so, that if one STOP COMPARING, it self will immediately begin to find new success.

no comparisons at all will and total accuracy on everything self wishes to create will exist.

the more comparison data used, the greater the failure rate.

which contribute to the HUGE RELATIONSHIP FAILURE RATES THESE DAYS...

one just need look at all the dating sites for that proof.

perhaps the "no" call is correct...

or perhaps a "yes" is correct...

i wouldn't say either way...

for a no or yes, must be based upon a self goal?

what be the goal?

no pain for self?

no sad for self?

no lonely

no lack of sex?

to be loved?

to love?

the list goes on and on...

is it another person never leaving down the road sometime?

why?

is one following others who are failing as well...

usually almost always, such is the case.

but all who don't have what they want, will still demand they are successful.

so nothing can change.

so, self has to step out on it's own, not heeding anyone but what it self see as good, and only deal with those who agrees to be the other half of self's spoken decisions and intentions...

then happy happy happy will become.

why...

because after one do this, it will never blame others again, which is the only reason most don't have what they want, RIGHT NOW.

should one take advice from people who don't have what they them self want?

if they don't have what they want, how could they possibly know how to help one self have what it wants.

to thine own self be true.

once one only does what it self see's fit, be the beginning of all happiness.

it is truly the first time one will actually realize it self be creating 1/2 of all that occur, and so then the brain can now easily show one self how to change anything about it's 1/2 of it self, to change anything one doesn't want to exist into anything else it wants.

how...

their are infinity other actions and words to choose from in one's own 1/2 of the equation to create a totally different outcome.

but hey...

i am probably one of the few odd ducks on earth that actually believes most unhappy in life comes from believing others about what self should do...

but as dear ole Einstein did say...

one must think differently than it was thinking when it created what it didn't like, to create a different outcome...

that quote is somewhat paraphrased, same essence.

only one self has to live in one's own brain and body.

the more redily others tell SPECIFIC ACTIONS to do in life, versus a different way to think about things, tells me just how little these actually know.

but hey, the whole world seems to think they know, but we have millions and millions of people who don't want to be single and are unhappy.

damn that was long...

I know emotions run high and she left you for another ... but would try and take it very very slow with her ... see her when you can ... nothing committed and you might see her differently with not a good feeling but i would meet just to see if my head and heart where together on it... now if you have already found someone then forget her and move on ... with Milanese there ... but deep down I know you would like to see her again but just as a closer ...