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Any thoughts?
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Any thoughts? Yes, very bad ones 
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Any thoughts?  
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does color really have to be an issue. a woman is a woman and a man is a man. Some ones ethnic background shouldn't be an issue it really comes down to if you click or not.
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does color really have to be an issue. a woman is a woman and a man is a man. Some ones ethnic background shouldn't be an issue it really comes down to if you click or not. 
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be with who you want to be with, it only matters what you think. no one else's opinion matters
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dips.. his Oreo cookie in his milk..hmm... love Oreo cookies..lol..
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The last woman I dated was African American, and I did not see any difference in her or the other woman I have dated. Its a non issue.
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,,creating works of art since forever,,,lol |
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Edited by
davidben1
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Sat 11/15/14 12:42 AM
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consider all that one self does and what it shall create for ALL...
if a white man marry a black women in time of racial conflict, one might get his wife hurt severely and even him self killed... and if a white man live in the wrong neighborhood and marry a white women, one might get his women hurt, whom he says he wants only good for... and to those who say it don't matter what others think... fuccck that shitz... what others think, decide what they shall do.... what the kkk think, decide what they shall do if they have presence in my town! and it does matter what they do to what one loves... but most are just in love with their own pride... but then, only rednecks say don't worry bout what others think, and at the same time, all they say and do is totally based upon what others think and do... if it don't matter what others think, than why is the biggest complaint of humans what others said about them that was bad... and what others did that was not good... please... all spurred on and created by what other's THOUGHT. meandering ignorant logic, that will be wiped like bugspit of the windshield of those who do care about what others think... and what others think so thought did control how all others treated self, wa lah to the dazzling blind... never underestimate the thoughts of others as not important, or self will find it self at the hands of many bigger and bigger bad surprises, like dumb people on jerry springer experience, who say they didn't care about what others thought. |
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The heart wants what the heart wants.
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It's the chemistry....! Not the color! I have dated other ethnic men, black brown white yellow
 and loved them while it lasted!
If the love is strong, you will overcome whatever it is that the society might frown upon and find ways to make it work! Even to the extent of being disowned by the family....time heals all wounds, and sometimes they are welcomed back into the family fold! We have lots of intermarriages here.....and most of them make it work. |
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When it comes to people,i'm happily colour blind
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I like all women but I only love the green ones,you'll know the green m&m lady that use to come on tv!
 
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Perhaps an opinion from a black woman who has had this experience is needed here.
First, race DOES matter, anyone who thinks it doesn't isn't seeing the world clearly. Second, you might be totally in love with each other and that's great. The problems come in not with each other but with society (and sometimes friends and family) not accepting it. This can put a strain on the relationship. It's possible that the strain can tear you apart in the end. The world can be cold and people can be cruel. The real question is "Can they handle it"? It takes two incredibly emotionally stable people who are totally committed to each other to navigate through the added pressure that racists can put on you. |
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Perhaps an opinion from a black woman who has had this experience is needed here.
First, race DOES matter, anyone who thinks it doesn't isn't seeing the world clearly. Second, you might be totally in love with each other and that's great. The problems come in not with each other but with society (and sometimes friends and family) not accepting it. This can put a strain on the relationship. It's possible that the strain can tear you apart in the end. The world can be cold and people can be cruel. The real question is "Can they handle it"? It takes two incredibly emotionally stable people who are totally committed to each other to navigate through the added pressure that racists can put on you. |
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Perhaps an opinion from a black woman who has had this experience is needed here. First, race DOES matter, anyone who thinks it doesn't isn't seeing the world clearly. Second, you might be totally in love with each other and that's great. The problems come in not with each other but with society (and sometimes friends and family) not accepting it. This can put a strain on the relationship. It's possible that the strain can tear you apart in the end. The world can be cold and people can be cruel. The real question is "Can they handle it"? It takes two incredibly emotionally stable people who are totally committed to each other to navigate through the added pressure that racists can put on you. |
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Perhaps an opinion from a black woman who has had this experience is needed here. First, race DOES matter, anyone who thinks it doesn't isn't seeing the world clearly. Second, you might be totally in love with each other and that's great. The problems come in not with each other but with society (and sometimes friends and family) not accepting it. This can put a strain on the relationship. It's possible that the strain can tear you apart in the end. The world can be cold and people can be cruel. The real question is "Can they handle it"? It takes two incredibly emotionally stable people who are totally committed to each other to navigate through the added pressure that racists can put on you. |
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I agree with xoxo111 to some extant... it is a matter of where you live ... you may get more flack from a smaller town ... and as far as families go she is right there to on how they feel ... sometimes it is not guess who is coming to dinner ... becouse family disapprove of many of these relationships ... and pretty much dis own either or party in them ... but their are some really cool parents out their that accept a lot from their children so long as they are happy and possibly with the right person ... and when she talks of society you both can be walking down a street and lots of name calling from others who do not except those kinds of relationships ... and are called hatters ... just with anyone not in their own culture ...
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Edited by
msharmony
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Sat 11/15/14 04:59 PM
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change is inevitable,, it either helps us grow or leads us to regress, but its always happening
and never without those whose 'thoughts' are against it it does take bravery in any society that is or seems to be against ones values or actions or family or background,, or whatever it is, to stay the course and to resist out of fear of that backlash is not anything to be ashamed of but thank God for those who face it and contribute to possibly silencing the harm it causes others,,,, I and so many others would probably not been here if people only did what was 'accepted' by everyone else,,,,or not met with any type of obstacle or consequence,,,, ,,,so when I say 'it doesn't matter', its not really a statement about how SOCIETY feels,,race has too long a history of mattering (from what value one has in society to what they are expected to do and permitted to attain) but a statement about the chances of it working or being real,,, every relationship does face obstacles,, there is none not at risk,,,and some may be riskier than others,, but as far as risk doesn't stop other relationships,, there is no reason it HAS to stop interracial ones,,, |
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