Hey you guys,lol i hope you gat a mirror,cause we're looking in the mirror now,here's the deal,in relationships we normally or sometimes tend to blame the next person when the relationships don't work or bad things happen ect,(I realize I relationship is NOTperfect) when in fact it's US,sometimes we notice a pattern and sometimes we don't,nobody's perfect,it happens,so,"looking in the mirror",what were some of YOUR faults and have you done anything to change it?

so you blame the US when some relationships don't work ? well i understand that many have this conspiracy theory issue , but i don't believe US has to do anything with failure relationships .

I don't have any faults and on top of that...I'm perfect...

Ooookaaayy!

^^^^^^ Iam with ozzy on that!!!!!!

I have spent many a restless night..
tossing and turning.. in my king size lonely, bed ... with the smell of her Chanel perfume.. still lingering. deeply within her pillow..... holding that pillow against my naked chest...
. breathing in deeply... the essence that was her... with the jazz CD.. that we used to listen to... the sizzling sweetness of that CD playing in the background....mmm.... the long extinguished apple pie cinnamon scented candles. remind me of the sweetness of her lips.. remain on the night tables.... as the coldness of the midnight wind.. whistles through the window pane.... I am reminded..... I am reminded of the pain... that still lingers deep in my soul... what could have I done differently... what sweet words could I have pulled from the universe... to whispers softly sweetly into her ear....mmmm........

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It can't be my fault, cause I am always right

I had self respect.

It's not your fault.

Yes it is my fault that shes not in my arms right now

I think she's looking to patch things up.


anyway, when it's my fault on anything I admit it and do my best to move forward from there

Jealousy screwed it up for me alot,and most times it was MY fault!!

I called him a f**** a-hole, lol. But that was not a fault, he WAS a f**** a-hole.
Seriously, I don't believe in not growing (I don't like to call it "change"). Life is about lessons, learning and growing. As soon as you don;t do that, you're not living anymore.

why would men pretend like they dont know a single thing about whats happening around them. when things just collide and every hidden is now visible in the eyes, they just shut there doors and go numb!

i grew up in wv. i am a country boy. i was raised on respect, honesty, and loyalty. when someone stomps on those values i tend to lock up and stay to myself. that is my biggest fault. relationships do not work if you can not talk about the problems. but then again it takes two to destroy or make it work. so can "US" really be the correct thing to say?

wise one's see how them self were to blame and so will not make the same mistake twice.

wise insight awatersign.

Never expect others who don't know yet to hear what self found true to be as wise.

for it doesn't matter...

for the wise win, and the loser's lose.

if no other heeds self's wisdom, it doesn't matter, since self will be the only loser if it doesn't heed it's own wisdom.

make no mistake, none shall heed, that feel them self falsely wise, which made all who lost lose to begin with.

all I have ever heard.. is.. it's all your fault..

and all those who believe it was and be all their own fault, will win ultimately...

and if she doesn't believe each time the man said it was her fault, she will win at first, for a while...

but lose big time over and over again...

just as the guy will lose that doesn't believe her, when she says how he fuccked up...

it is truly an equal equation...

the one whom takes the blame, actually wins, not loses, as so shortsightedly be oft seen so thought.

welcome to earth.

the place of nearly no accurate insight.

Working in a bar atmosphere for 20 years soured my attitude towards people being true to each other and not cheating when out on the town. I have had to work on this. Trust has been a issue with me in the past.Age and self confidence has helped me deal with that.

What if you refuse to take the blame but acknowledge your own part and accept you are not perfect...you cannot change someone. You realise the only way forward is to move on without them? It still hurt like the devil. You have cried a river and it is still over.