I'm not just looking for love. And yeah that older guy thing sucks. Goes all the way back to high school. Those bastards (lol)

All right, I get it now. I'll just go out and get trashed every night until I go to Iraq.

All makes sense now. Thanks. See you in the bar. I'll be the younger gentleman. LOL

I'm in the same boat, almost. I'm 26, independent, great to be around... yet guys don't stick around for very long. I don't understand.

I'm not needy, or give too much space, just the perfect balance.

Maybe I'll be a hermit. That's the way to go!

Yeah I'm not needy either.
Lets go be alcoholic hermits. Lol Awesome

why do you want a girlfriend if you cant even be with her???? sounds rather selfish to me......

What the hell are you talking about? I'm not going overseasfor like six months?

Ah, so you're looking for someone in the meantime then? We didn't know what the time frame was.

Two of my good friends are leaving soon and it sucks so much. One, I was going to move in with her but she got word she's shippin' out sooner than we thought. The other well, he has "feelings" for me still and let's not go there, shall we?

:)

ya just a 6 month fling!!!!

I'm glad somebody got that. Lol. Yeah just meantime and then, well you never know.

Call it whatever you want. It shouldnt matter. So... nyahh

sorry.......I like to piss of you youngins....

I'm looking for something more longterm. I don't think I can handle another one month or less relationship, if you can call it that.

My son is like that.............2 or 3 weeks tops!!! He tells me when he has had enough, he just gets rid of them.......

I ask him what he means by that, and he says........when he has had enough!!! meaning......can't handle her calling all the time, hanging off of him all the time.....blah!!!

he is only 15 though.......I dont think he even has a clue what a relationship is......he is in love with skateboard!!!

u r not alone my friend

Here is your problem...... You are not blaming yourself.

See, no one is making you be with these women/girls, yet it is you who makes the choice to take that chance. I get tired of people blaming others for their problems. Who has the problem? You do, and it lies with what you accept or take in. So here's the deal. You seem like all the great things you say you are. All you need now is someone more suitable for you. Instead of falling for every cute girl that gives you the time of day... Just hold out until you get that special feeling. You will know when the time is right. Unless you aren't ready. And until you are ready, it would be best not to complain about not finding "The One". Just make friends and learn about them as much as possible. Even learn more about yourself. You are still young and there is much that can change.

Hope this helps,
Faustino

faustino.......great words!!!

Hey thanks

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ok my work is done here I brought you two beatufil people together.....my good deed for the day

Quake - oh no... He sounds like a great guy... but no thanks. :)