Hi, well the title says it all im from hickory nc and i love it here so much because i live out in the mountains and it's so beautifull out here well anyway um i love my animals alot but there's just always been this empty feeling i have in my life to long to meet and socialize with women it's not something i do everyday i mean talk with them face to face i see a women i do want to talk with but i get way to nervous cause that thought in the back of my head starts running what if shes got a bf or a husband and he see's me talk to her the last thing i want is for him to kick my butt for talking to her so then i just say forget it in my mind and then walk away but ya

Your failure rate will always be 100% if you do not try.

If she's not available, she will tell you.

Well, it's easier said than done, but with practice you can get better with it, here's some tips to help you overcome your fear of women.

1) Just simply look her in the eyes, smile, and say hello. If saying Hello is too much at this point, just simply look her in the eyes smile. Do this with random women or even other people, such as at the store, or just out in public. You don't have to look like a clown, but look approachable.

2)Remember, you are simply talking to her. It's not a marriage proposal or anything. Try not to think too much about it and just be yourself. If she rejects you, move on.

3) Get used to rejection and overcome your fear of it. Rejection is not failure. More times than not we will be rejected. It's not as bad as we make it out to be in our minds though.

4) Pay attention to body language, both hers and yours. Make sure she is receiving you well, and you are sending her the right message, that you are approachable and interested.

5) Take baby steps.

op ...get over it and just ask ... and don't take it to personal with rejection off dating sites either ... there are a lot of people just waiting for the day they have found the one right for them an to be able to say I am in love... so good luck ...

all I want is a meaningful relationship..
... it doesn't even have to be a woman at this point.... I swear to god my neighbors goats are beginning to look... like they could handle meaningful..lmao... Bahaaaaa.. Lol..whatever sound Goats make..lol

A goat?? hahahaha
What you call that? A sick puppy?? lol

Hey, at least a goat will laugh at all of your stupid jokes. lol

that was Baaa-aaa-aad

hahaha and you ain't kid-ding!!!

@OP - check the ring finger ;)

Just be brave, go out and meet girls...try not to be shy, Is a lot of single girls out there.

Good luck In your search and welcome to M2

If you're to nervous to talk to people for reasons that aren't likely to happen you don't need a girl. you probably need to work on why you are creating these reasons for why you don't talk to women.

Fear of rejection, doesn't everyone have it to some degree? You might find your sweetie somewhere, sometime...

once one decide it wants nothing except what BOTH want, nervous and fear of rejection can and will subside to near zero.

wow, when did you got so smart... are you ...single...?

Poetic...teach me more

Dood, I never would have suspected you to be a Newfie, until I saw your above post.