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Topic: interracial dating
Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48928	Tue 01/27/15 06:36 PM
The reality of issues is that race isn't the problem.Exposure is key and a lack of knowledge is the weakness.People take time to adjust to new or different things.I don't blame or take issue with someone who isn't comfortable with my skin,behavior much less my accent.If they were more exposed they would have known better and with time they would know we are all human beings having a DNA THAT IS 99% THE SAME. I have no problema with the "race" of a Colombiana.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 01/27/15 08:25 PM Edited by msharmony on Tue 01/27/15 08:26 PM
Why does it seem interracial dating is still so taboo between white males and black women? It is acceptable the other way around but people cringe when seeing a black woman with a white guy. Let's keep the comments to this civilized because in the end we are all just people with different skin tones. I tend to perceive a competition type thing that is, when white women are with black men, they get shade mostly from black women and white men who are in 'competition' and when white men are with black women, they mostly get shade from black men and white women who are in 'competition' with them

Josh1977dad Joined Mon 11/03/14 Posts: 1	Sat 01/31/15 06:09 PM
I never cared if anyone thought it was taboo or not. I'm attracted to who I'm attracted to. Sacred cows are over rated!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Sat 01/31/15 10:58 PM
Sacred cows are over rated!

danglpz73 Joined Sat 01/24/15 Posts: 235	Sun 02/01/15 02:31 AM
It's the 21st century for goodness sakes homosexuality is acceptable and we are still worried about interracial dating omg

tavua Joined Mon 12/31/12 Posts: 10	Sun 02/01/15 02:31 AM
Hi there

JaredWB Joined Wed 02/04/15 Posts: 1	Thu 02/05/15 12:31 AM
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msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Thu 02/05/15 06:54 AM
It's the 21st century for goodness sakes homosexuality is acceptable and we are still worried about interracial dating omg you'd be surprised, I have actually encountered homosexuals who opposed interracial relationships,,,,,,

awaitingyou1 Joined Wed 04/01/15 Posts: 4	Thu 04/02/15 08:56 AM
Its not my choice. I was raised stay with your race. However, I believe it is harmful to the kids- because growing up through school they will always be picked on as being salt n pepper, half n half etc etc these comments are very hurtful to children and in the long run can cause these kids a lot of grief and emotional turmoil they do not deserve but have no choice because they did not have a choice of how they were born.

hung4545 Joined Mon 03/02/15 Posts: 16	Thu 04/02/15 09:21 AM
I happen to think black women are hot. They hAve the best *** around. Their bodies and * cannot be beat.

hung4545 Joined Mon 03/02/15 Posts: 16	Thu 04/02/15 09:22 AM
Are their any beautiful black women interested in a white gentleman. I don't judge, it's all pink in the middle!

hung4545 Joined Mon 03/02/15 Posts: 16	Thu 04/02/15 09:24 AM
Are their any beautiful black women interested in a white gentleman. I don't judge, it's all pink in the middle!

anote Joined Mon 12/09/13 Posts: 1715	Thu 04/02/15 11:15 AM Edited by anote on Thu 04/02/15 11:15 AM
It's the 21st century for goodness sakes homosexuality is acceptable and we are still worried about interracial dating omg Nice words

Ladythelma Joined Sat 03/22/14 Posts: 596	Sat 04/11/15 09:03 AM
I happen to think black women are hot. They hAve the best *** around. Their bodies and * cannot be beat. Amen, respect to that honesty

usmart Joined Sun 10/20/13 Posts: 1	Wed 04/29/15 11:17 PM
GOD mad it possible for human to interact to be able to understand each other but we fail to make it easy for our self. we are all humans, and is normal to fall in love anyone.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 04/29/15 11:21 PM
to play devils advocate, I really don't think opposition is about anyone's feelings,, including 'love' and more so about behaviors,, namely sexual relations but GOD makes clear his acceptance of men and women committing to each other and procreating, and since race doesn't seem to interfere with that process, I find it difficult to understand how anyone could believe it was unpleasing to God

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Wed 04/29/15 11:32 PM
to play devils advocate, I really don't think opposition is about anyone's feelings,, including 'love' and more so about behaviors,, namely sexual relations but GOD makes clear his acceptance of men and women committing to each other and procreating, and since race doesn't seem to interfere with that process, I find it difficult to understand how anyone could believe it was unpleasing to God so you would go out with a white boy like me?,,,,,,,smilen,,,,

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 04/29/15 11:55 PM
to play devils advocate, I really don't think opposition is about anyone's feelings,, including 'love' and more so about behaviors,, namely sexual relations but GOD makes clear his acceptance of men and women committing to each other and procreating, and since race doesn't seem to interfere with that process, I find it difficult to understand how anyone could believe it was unpleasing to God so you would go out with a white boy like me?,,,,,,,smilen,,,, lol, if I were dating,,

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Thu 04/30/15 12:00 AM
to play devils advocate, I really don't think opposition is about anyone's feelings,, including 'love' and more so about behaviors,, namely sexual relations but GOD makes clear his acceptance of men and women committing to each other and procreating, and since race doesn't seem to interfere with that process, I find it difficult to understand how anyone could believe it was unpleasing to God so you would go out with a white boy like me?,,,,,,,smilen,,,, lol, if I were dating,, LOL now iam really smilen,well let me know when your single again,,ill be waiting, lol

ItravelAlberta Joined Sun 04/26/15 Posts: 13	Thu 05/07/15 04:16 AM
Ms harmony, I think a great deal of it is probably cultural and geographically specific. I'm in Canada. We didn't have apartheid here like there was in the states and Africa. Here, it seems primarily religious based separatism, or Christians, Muslims, other faiths, non-religious. Added to that there are also some folks who will only seek those with the same skin tone. Having said that, I've seen all kinds of different races together both as couples and married and with children. I think it has more to do with the culture we were raised in. On a funnier note, how come the straight color by color have mixed color cats and dogs? Now that's just plain weird if you ask me.