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Topic: Question for men on MIngle
OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Sun 11/02/14 07:33 PM Edited by OnNewJourney on Sun 11/02/14 07:34 PM
When you say "friendship" or "good time together" or "fun" what do you mean? Do you expect to get laid on a first, maybe second or third date? If that is a case, why not just you say it and call it "friendship with benefits" to avoid wrong expectations due to not calling things the right name?

falantino Joined Tue 09/02/14 Posts: 323	Sun 11/02/14 07:47 PM
When you say "friendship" or "good time together" or "fun" what do you mean? Do you expect to get laid on a first, maybe second or third date? If that is a case, why not just you say it and call it "friendship with benefits" to avoid wrong expectations due to not calling things the right name? it depends on everyone intentions , but for me i choose friendship for friendship and maybe more , cause friendship make you know and go along with the person who you are talking to more , and for me friendship different from people who say fun or good time ....

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Sun 11/02/14 07:50 PM
When you say "friendship" or "good time together" or "fun" what do you mean? Do you expect to get laid on a first, maybe second or third date? If that is a case, why not just you say it and call it "friendship with benefits" to avoid wrong expectations due to not calling things the right name? I dont know what other guys mean by that but i'm straight forward and to the point, friendship for me is exactly wat the word says and nothing more, and i dont know about any of that friends with benefits bulls**t and im not into any weird awkward relationships

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 11/02/14 08:03 PM
well getting laid by the third date... ..... would be kind of nice... but if you are truly my friend.... you would have sex with me on the second date... and if you're just looking for fun.... definitely having sex on the first date..lol..

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Sun 11/02/14 08:17 PM
Well, there is a reason I asked this question. My profile seemed pretty clear to me, but not to some men who interpreted it differently, so I was confused and didn't understand how and why they got the wrong message. Thanks for your replies!

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Sun 11/02/14 08:29 PM
Friendship is a friendship. Why complicate things? If it is something else, than it is not called friendship. I think Lincoln said:" You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time." He was right!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Sun 11/02/14 11:07 PM Edited by Awatersign on Sun 11/02/14 11:09 PM
When you say "friendship" or "good time together" or "fun" what do you mean? Do you expect to get laid on a first, maybe second or third date? If that is a case, why not just you say it and call it "friendship with benefits" to avoid wrong expectations due to not calling things the right name? Many profiles including women,say friends and possibly more,and some just want to start out as friends,and it make sense to me,cause there may be some connection there as well as it may not,but it could be confusing at times,but I think more people in general need to be more specific!!!

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sun 11/02/14 11:23 PM
For myself it means taking it slow, getting to know each other and not rushing into anything serious.As far as sex if it happens it does, if it don't, it don't, I have no timetable.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Sun 11/02/14 11:24 PM Edited by Awatersign on Sun 11/02/14 11:29 PM
What is an activity partner :-) I think they mean someone that they can actually be with for some intimacy!

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Sun 11/02/14 11:30 PM
Hum... wow... Lots o choices... Hum... If i wrote any and all of those... Hum... Hum....... i'd say i'm pretty much desperate enough to gratefully grab arse whatever i can coerce anyone to give me! Some are just WAY TOO PICKETY!

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Mon 11/03/14 12:14 AM
What is an activity partner :-) What would you want an activity partner to be? I know what I want. Someone who enjoys walking together, having a coffee, going to theater and other ways of spending time together. It is clear what those "other ways of spending time together" mean and what they do not mean. I believe I clearly stated what is excluded, what I am NOT looking for. Or I didn't?

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Mon 11/03/14 12:18 AM
What is an activity partner :-) I think they mean someone that they can actually be with for some intimacy! No comment!

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Mon 11/03/14 12:19 AM
OMG! Just how mundane can one be!

arsijazz Joined Sun 11/02/14 Posts: 1	Mon 11/03/14 12:24 AM
good say

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Mon 11/03/14 12:35 AM
So anything any Mingler writes is going to have all kinds of meanings in minds of various readers of a profile, maybe even an actual meaning of those words? WOW! Welcome to the world of online communication! LOL

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Mon 11/03/14 12:37 AM
OMG! This thread is still alive! Sparky has wings!

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Mon 11/03/14 12:42 AM
To be honest, I didn't expect too many replies to begin with.

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Mon 11/03/14 12:45 AM
Sweet sailing!

OnNewJourney Joined Sun 10/26/14 Posts: 711	Mon 11/03/14 12:45 AM
How about surfing? Does browsing Mingle count as surfing the Net?

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Mon 11/03/14 12:47 AM
NOPE! You are hereby disqualified! truly sorry. the pain subsides gradually... Take 2 Advil. This has been proven to help most recover more quickly thought!