In my experience pretty boys are fine to look at but pretty uselessat everything else.Give me a nice neat beard and moustache and a deep sexy voice and a cute butt and must be great kisser and I will overlook
the rest.

Aaahhhaaahhaa funny! yes that would be the question pertaining to you Blondey ;~]
I'm stooopid as a bag of hammers but I got one.

I guess if he could make your eyeballs roll in the back of you head for a half hour a night then who cares! Er as long as he's not a needy mimbo...you need the type that balls ya and goes to the garage to work on your car.

hahaha thats nice

for men op ... I am going to say face and a great personality ...

I was going to say face over body, but unless he's really fat. lol

Luckily for me, I've never had to choose between a good-looking man OR a nice body.


Any man I've ever been interested in, dated, and/or related with has been attractive, physically fit, intelligent, with a sense of humor, a great personality, and a job that allows him to take care of himself financially.


I don't anticipate for having to settle for anything less - or make sacrifices in any of the departments - in the future.


How sad for those who feel they MUST compromise and settle for second-best just TO be able to say they're in a relationship.

You're right, gotta be luck cause nobody is THAT special....

"THAT special".


Hmmmmm...interesting phrasing. Better words would have been "THAT smart" or "THAT reciprocating".


Sorry for those who feel finding members of the opposite sex who are the whole package (to them) involves "luck" and/or is so rare. Though, the inability TO do so is no doubt what will keep online *dating* sites thriving.

.. I'm starting to feel pretty good about myself right now..

hmm, in the long term, bodies will change much more than faces

but overall, it has to be character that makes the difference, for me


all things being equal,, and both having GREAT character

the soft(but not obese) guy with the handsome face, is probably gonna have the better chance than the body by jake guy with the unfortunate face,,

I've dated the good face/ bad body and the reverse. The reality to me is that it is all about personality in the end.

For me it's a pretty face, I always check out the face before the body.

now!!! where did i leave! my popcorn bucket...lol

And just look at you, hanging out on a dating site with the rest of us lucky ladies!...

He takes care of himself physically because we are going to live a long and healthy life together enjoying the things we like to do together. He is the most handsome man in the world because he smiles and his eyes light up whenever he sees me. All his physical imperfections become unimportant when he holds me and I feel his love for me wrap around me making me feel safe and secure. In my eyes, he is perfect.

Nope. Some of you ladies make no bones about it that you're here to date; I make no bones about it: I'm here for the forums, only, as it says on my profile.


I don't DO online *dating*, mostly because I'm not sure how it's done...though I imagine it means taking my laptop to a local restaurant while he takes his laptop to one of his local restaurants and we have a date together, while nowhere near each other. I prefer my dates to be up-close-and-personal, in the real world, in real time.


I come here strictly to engage in intelligent conversations...

...from time-to-time.

..someone bring the candy...lOl

How narrow minded are some people, unf--inbelievable,

Well sugar plum, there is no need to get defensive ..I really don't care why you're here, but your profile heading does clearly state in big, bold "gray" letters, "Looking for a man for dating". Soooooo, you might want to rethink that and choose something a little less confusing.....