Topic: Sometime I Feel Like Stop Searching For Someone Special :)
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Sat 09/13/14 12:04 PM
Sometime I Feel Like Stop Searching For Someone Special :) , Relationship and love hurts i still not able to move on with my ex so people advice me to join some dating site and be with someone for most of my time .

then a thought comes to my mind , just adapting some child a boy and care for him play with him love him just be with him in all my times make him feel like he has the best person with him in world , i earn a lot and would like to spend on him. that relation will be pure and truthful

may be this could make me get over from my loneliness

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Sat 09/13/14 12:40 PM
You want to adopt a child to take away your loneliness..


Tis not the child's responsibility to do that for you.


It is solely yours...

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Sat 09/13/14 12:40 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sat 09/13/14 12:45 PM

Sometime I Feel Like Stop Searching For Someone Special :) , Relationship and love hurts i still not able to move on with my ex so people advice me to join some dating site and be with someone for most of my time .

then a thought comes to my mind , just adapting some child a boy and care for him play with him love him just be with him in all my times make him feel like he has the best person with him in world , i earn a lot and would like to spend on him. that relation will be pure and truthful

may be this could make me get over from my loneliness


this is all about a limiting beliefs from child hood and now you have formed favorite feelings to go with

the beliefs. HAVE YOU NOTICED THAT THERE ARE OTHER SINGLE PEOPLE OUT WITHOUT THE SAME ISSUES

????? I AM SINGLE FOR THE LAST 30 PLUS YEARS AND I AM ALONE BE NOT LONELY BECAUSE MY FEELINGS

ARE CHOICES I MAKE ---YES CHOICE---YOU HAVE CHOICES IN THE FEELINGS YOU CHOOSE TO FEEL---


YOUR NOT ALONE THOUGH MOST ALL OF US WERE WOUNDED AS CHILDREN TO SOME DEGREE---WHAT

YOU NEED IS SOME ONE TO LISTEN TO YOU WHO WILL ''NOT JUDGE'' OR TRY TO ''FIX YOU'' ---YOU WILL

GET PAST THIS AND GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND THINGS WILL GET BETTER FOR YOU--EVERYTHING IN

OUR LIVES IS ABOUT BELIEFS '' CHANGE THE BELIEF-CHANGE THE PERSON ''---GOOD LUCK----P.S.

STORM WAS CORRECT OTHER PEOPLE ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR FEELINGS-WE OWN THEM--

sybariticguy's photo
Sat 09/13/14 01:36 PM
Consider speaking with a counselor to help you sort out your needs and dependency issues as doing this yourself may prove overwhelming and help often facilitates the process tremendously regards Dr Michael

MK2's photo
Sat 09/13/14 02:08 PM
get over it man, what is wrong with you?
spock

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Sat 09/13/14 02:25 PM
Puppy adoption is great!

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Sat 09/13/14 02:44 PM
Plant a tree... Lolzzz
:)
nurture it like ur child..

mirehc's photo
Sat 09/13/14 03:44 PM
Sounds to me u could just use a friend. :)

sidpandey1121's photo
Sat 09/13/14 04:01 PM

Puppy adoption is great!

ya nice advice but i want to live for someone , and please i am not gonna live for a puppy laugh

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Sat 09/13/14 04:11 PM
Edited by fleta_n_mach on Sat 09/13/14 04:28 PM


Puppy adoption is great!

ya nice advice but i want to live for someone , and please i am not gonna live for a puppy laugh


awww, such a pessimist it seems here. Senior citizens live happier lives with dogs. So do children. So does anybody else that is lonely or wants to "care" for someone or pet that is lonely and needs companionship also. :tongue:

I have a dog, and a bird to keep company with. ha....until someone human comes into my life.

and on an after thought....there are plenty of needy people in your country. Pehaps it wouldn't be a bad idea.

An Op-doc about the poverty and slavery in India especially in Uttar Pradesh

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Sat 09/13/14 04:41 PM
Yes dude, it hurts. Hurted first time, hurted second time and no matter who initiates the break-up it will hurt every time.

It is a bit like going to dentist. You may decide not to go cuz it hurts too much. But it will hurt no less when you're not going. And loneliness will not leave you be, even if u decide to drop out of competition.

C'mon dude, weve all been there and still alive, take it as a man. Let it hurt now and think of what lies ahead (if you're not quitting).

It sure feels awesome to fall in love, doesnt it? Feels awesome to be in love doesnt it? And its good to keep on living and loving after the initial high is over too, right?

Thats all ahead of you and will be part of your life man, if youre NOT quitting now.

And heres some friendly advice. Show the hurt in secrecy or with guys only. Girls are not interested of hearing how deeply you loved SOMEONE ELSE. Ever. Once the new date is on horizon, lock up all your past. And Yes they will ask you how many you had before them and how did u feel about them. If it really was what you think of as love of your life, keep your lips as tight as possible.

C'mon, youre handsome man who's rolling in cash, keep your lips about the past shut, your wallet loose and you shall have a girlfriend before this christmas.





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Sat 09/13/14 05:59 PM
Edited by Awatersign on Sat 09/13/14 06:00 PM

Sometime I Feel Like Stop Searching For Someone Special :) , Relationship and love hurts i still not able to move on with my ex so people advice me to join some dating site and be with someone for most of my time .

then a thought comes to my mind , just adapting some child a boy and care for him play with him love him just be with him in all my times make him feel like he has the best person with him in world , i earn a lot and would like to spend on him. that relation will be pure and truthful

may be this could make me get over from my loneliness
Ain't the end of the world dude,sound s like you need to jus go out and love yourself,hangout and meet people you know,surround yourself with good friends and keep your circle kinda small,you should be ight!!drinks drinker

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Sat 09/13/14 06:27 PM
yawn

Rock's photo
Sat 09/13/14 07:07 PM
There are at least 1,000,000,000 people in your country.
Some of them might be local to you.
Have you considered making friends in your neighbourhood?

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Sun 09/14/14 10:50 AM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Sun 09/14/14 11:05 AM


Puppy adoption is great!

ya nice advice but i want to live for someone , and please i am not gonna live for a puppy laugh




wow ...you don't know how attracted girls women get by dogs in the park or just some walking them ... ok so your not living for a dog well you have just pretty told... those you do not like dogs and when the girl of your life see this ...she may say well ...I have a dog
oh well ...lmao oops do not go adopting yet ... but giving up and getting more into yourself ...may be the time you find someone again ...

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Sun 09/14/14 10:56 AM
well apparently I don't have to look..
.... all I need to do is talk to a new . female member.... and then sit back.
with a big bowl of popcorn....
. and enjoy the show.....

..ohhh..yes.. I know how that sounds...
... but believe me..... you know what..!!
.. nevermind...... I will just resign myself... to the fact..... you know what!!.... nevermind.....frustrated


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