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Topic: How long are you willing to stay in an unhappy marriage?
bellamour_1's photo
Wed 09/03/14 08:11 AM

I know what you are going through...
I've been there...

It is hard but sometimes you have to do what right for you...
If you are exhausted by the situation, then maybe its time to stop carrying him and nurture yourself...

I left it too late and it took me a long time to heal...

It is hard but you are just as important as he is...


Thank you.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 09/03/14 08:16 AM



Can't really say when you should give up and walk away.. That is up to each individual and what is going on..

Myself with my ex I stayed two years hoping things would change..Thought they were going to but did not happen so I walked away...

With the last bf I was with I gave it 6 months..... Once you have done it the first time you tend to do it sooner on the ones after that...

A person can only do so much... before they have to throw in the towel and walk away...


I think because we get smarter! We learn that it's not worth being with people who don't treat us with kindness, love, and respect. :wink:


I agree with both of you ladies. It gets easier. I had an 8-year relationship from high school through college, and he cheated on me once and i let him go and never looked back. I guess this time it's different because we are married.

Well with my ex we were married for 11 years to the day that I opened the door and told him I had enough... Took me two years before I could do that.. I tried he was not willing to. He actually told friends he would have never thought I would say enough is enough.... Guess he really did not know me.

It all comes down to how much a person can take I had reached my limit...

Goofball73's photo
Wed 09/03/14 08:28 AM




Can't really say when you should give up and walk away.. That is up to each individual and what is going on..

Myself with my ex I stayed two years hoping things would change..Thought they were going to but did not happen so I walked away...

With the last bf I was with I gave it 6 months..... Once you have done it the first time you tend to do it sooner on the ones after that...

A person can only do so much... before they have to throw in the towel and walk away...


I think because we get smarter! We learn that it's not worth being with people who don't treat us with kindness, love, and respect. :wink:


I agree with both of you ladies. It gets easier. I had an 8-year relationship from high school through college, and he cheated on me once and i let him go and never looked back. I guess this time it's different because we are married.

Well with my ex we were married for 11 years to the day that I opened the door and told him I had enough... Took me two years before I could do that.. I tried he was not willing to. He actually told friends he would have never thought I would say enough is enough.... Guess he really did not know me.

It all comes down to how much a person can take I had reached my limit...



Bottom line.....don't mess with chicks from Texas. :wink: laugh

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