Topic: What would you do?
Cainam762's photo
Mon 09/01/14 10:43 PM
I split with my ex girlfriend 4 months ago.
Her "best friend" just propositioned me.
I politely and gently turned her down.
Do I tell my ex or just let it go?

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Mon 09/01/14 10:46 PM
Do you want to get back together with your ex?

soufiehere's photo
Mon 09/01/14 10:46 PM

I split with my ex girlfriend 4 months ago.
Her "best friend" just propositioned me.
I politely and gently turned her down.
Do I tell my ex or just let it go?

Be the mature one.
Keep the lips zipped.

Cainam762's photo
Mon 09/01/14 10:48 PM
Probably not.

But I'm not getting together with her friends.

Does my ex need to know her friend is doing this?
and if so, should I be the one to tell her?

panchovanilla's photo
Mon 09/01/14 10:51 PM
What would be the point in telling her?

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Mon 09/01/14 10:52 PM

I split with my ex girlfriend 4 months ago.
Her "best friend" just propositioned me.
I politely and gently turned her down.
Do I tell my ex or just let it go?


Do you like her friend?

no1phD's photo
Mon 09/01/14 10:53 PM
If... anything confront her girlfriend..
.. tell her you think! it's classless.
.. that she would hit on her friends ex. boyfriend... unless the two of you have always had a connection..
. and if that is the case.. well then that universe.! Just cleared a path for the both of you...lol

Cainam762's photo
Mon 09/01/14 10:58 PM
I cant think of liking or disliking this woman...
my moral compass would not allow me to get together with her...

My ex and I still talk and I wouldn't want her to get hurt...
My concern is how else is she betraying their friendship

Rock's photo
Mon 09/01/14 10:59 PM


I split with my ex girlfriend 4 months ago.
Her "best friend" just propositioned me.
I politely and gently turned her down.
Do I tell my ex or just let it go?

Be the mature one.
Keep the lips zipped.



This

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Mon 09/01/14 11:02 PM

I cant think of liking or disliking this woman...
my moral compass would not allow me to get together with her...

My ex and I still talk and I wouldn't want her to get hurt...
My concern is how else is she betraying their friendship


If you do not have a history with her friend then let her friend know what your thoughts are about the situation. Just do what you feel is right.

Cainam762's photo
Mon 09/01/14 11:04 PM
Thanks to all for your advice.

Being mature and keeping quiet is probably the best move.

I should take it as a compliment, I suppose.