Why is it every time I put myself with somebody, and when I saw with somebody. I mean I was ride or die I was always there for you. We had amazing connections in and out of the room. We talk about everything. Is this my downfall. Do all girls just want something new because they know the possibilities are endless and they can honestly have anything they want just because of what's between there legs.. Is it really that easy to just cut someone literally but mostly physically because we refuse to communicate further?

That answers nothing.. Let me some it up easier.. I feel like rolls have reversed and today more men want any and most relationships to be good and beneficial.. Therefore, I feel like the girl because I'm turning down gorgeous attractive females away because they just want to be crazy..

females are crazy ? who would have thought that : )~

You need a shrink

This reads like a bad line from a crappy romantic drama.


Yes.

Now what?

Who wouldn't want someone new when everyone is "supposed" to see everyone else as the same?


Your OP reads like you typed it on your phone or something.
I have to assume you mean cut someone out, like out of their life.
If you "really" mean "cut someone literally" then you are talking about assault with a deadly weapon.

If you mean "out" then it always was.
The only reason it wasn't, ever, in the past, was because of smaller, interdependent, communities.

You don't bake her bread, you don't butcher her meat, you don't mill her flour, you don't invent her ipod, you don't offer any greater social relevance than the next guy, you don't go to church with her and share her moral beliefs and help police the dogma.

Based on the current zeitgeist you offer nothing more or less than the next alternative human product. Since people started spouting off "everyone's equal, no one's better than anyone else, no ones perfect."
You add nothing to her communal existence. You add nothing more to her existence emotionally than the next guy.

You whining about it is just being raised on too much media, trying to replace the bonds that make community that actually highlight individuality and uniqueness within the setting of group with some sort of emotional religious ideal of what things "should" mean, and how much feelings and emotions "should" matter, and how special you are in "that" way because you have nothing else to offer.

...But everyone else can offer the same thing.

So yes, it's easy to cut you out of her life.
No different than cutting out the bookshelves from walmart to be replaced with ones from kmart.

If you don't want to be cut out of someone's life so easily, then make and see yourself as worth more than your own emotions.

Maybe your not talking to them in their love language. Read 5 love languages think about the woman and how she perceives you.
Example if you tell her constantly she is attractive and you lovr her... And she is acts of kindness, your wasting your breath.
Hope you read it
Charles

Anyone who doesn't put communication without modern technology as a priority isn't worth your time.

It sounds like you are taking things a little to serious.When people meet there is a initial spark then it either takes off or flames out. It good that you are looking for something real, but take your time, date awhile don't force anything and soon you will find the right fit. Good luck to you sir.

W.a.l.o.c.... women haven't changed that much... they still want to be romanced... they still want someone to hold them tight..
.. they still want to know you are there for them....
.... physically and emotionally...
..op.. go get a hammer a 2x4 and a box of nails... start hammering nails into that 2 by 4... until you feel more manly.. maybe smash your thumb...
... girls like it when your hurt a bit..lol
... at least you won't feel so girly afterwards...lmfao

and fly a balloon for you.