Have taken a right battering where my confidence is concerned as been hurt too many times. Ok not best lookin.guy in the world but why do women alwsys look on the outside instead of servin the person from the inside an what's in the heart.

there was a time when i did not understand how a woman could pick a man that could and would abuse

her---friends and relatives would tell her he is bad--get way from him-she would the say the the famous

words BUT I LOVE HIM---we say we want someone who is attractive-emotionaly healthy-etc-etc-etc-the

truth is '' ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE '' because we make unconscious EMOTIONAL CHOICES---the

marriage i had with my kids mom was a train wreck--because of LIMITING BELIEFS we formed as a child

when we were not mature enough to understand THOSE UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS RUN OUR LIVES--

BEFORE WE ARE EVEN IN OUR TEENS WE HAVE DEVELOPED FAVORITE FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS WE THEN

HAVE TO KEEP RECYCLING VIA RELATIONSHIPS-- THE ANSWER IS TO NOT BLAME OURSELVES OR THE

OTHER PERSON ITS SEEING OUR PART WE PLAYED IN THE RELATIONSHIP--

If you work on your confidence, it will show...

...and confidence is VERY attractive....