Ok all Brian65 asked me in my advice to Newbies to write the JSH 10 commandments so here it goes:


1)Don t ask for nude pix or to cyber or who wants to sex me

2) Talk in english and in complete sentences

3)Respect is expected at all times

4)If you disregard the above, 2 things will happen. first the ladies will chew you up and spit you out, and 2nd the gentlemen of the site will defend the honor of these ladies.

5) Do post often and have fun, get to know them and if you find one you like and she s single then email , IM, go and meet her then after a period of time greater then 3 days... more like months later if you want provocative pics ask her privately not in forums as you are seen as a pig and disgrace yourself and make them insecure if they are

6) Once you exchange #'s Call her often

7) Do little things to make her smile(rose petals in tub, note on dashboard, cook dinner)

8) Tell her how much you Love her & Tell her Why You Love Her

9) Kiss her softly and

10) Commit to her

I agree

well said!! why cant all men be like kojack

I know the 1st 5 is duplicate to my advice for newbies but it was easier to write 5 then think of 10 when I am supposed to be working, and it also is a 2nd place for those to find it in case they missed it the 1st time.

yea & how do u get all the "freaks" 2 read this post??? lol

great advice though

Thanks kojack I know some who need to read these

You're a good man Kojak!

good going Kojack you sure know how to tell it

BUT on #7 if I may add ......... don't stop once you have something special going!! Mine dropped it all like a bad habit or something -- no more brushed hair, no more back rubs, no more little surprises .... then he wonders why I'm not happy because I thought i fell inlove wiht some one totally different!! Ok so more to it then just that but it did play a big part!!

You go Kojack!!!
I had to read that several times it was So good.LOL

Kojack Great Job and Country why don't you "EXPLAIN it to him?"

thanks we all need that....life is too short not to do nice things and for no reason no need....

Fine advice Kojack

CHEERS

(((((((kojack)))))))))

Wonderful~! Brilliant~! Perfect~!

I may just have to take that car trip to CT real soon!

John -- I did more then once -- we aren't together any more but that is a tatal nother story
should we add secrets onto it haahaaa

It was just a catcher and once he THOUGHT he cought me he stopped -- at least my kids are seen that first impressions aren't always who they are and it takes a long time to see the REAL person -- some longer then others

I ll be waiting lightvoice

nice. i think that's what separates the men from the boys, so to speak.