The single life has its share of highs and lows, more lows by far. Some handle it well, others are lost in confusion. I've been there. I read the threads and see massive depression, I see confusion, despair . Then I see humor. Sweet sweet humor, It's the humor that got me by when I was low. To this day, I haven't seen many posts that could ever match my lowest point. I over came it. How? I quit trying so damn hard. I quit searching for profiles in my area. I quit sending out 40 messages based on those searches, to get maybe 2 or 3 responses. It wears you down. That's where all the ; "Why doesn't anyone respond to me comes from" or "What am I doing wrong". I used to post those threads, it got me no where.

No one likes a down puppy!

I've said it many times, I'll say it again. interact in the forums, Read profiles, blogs, get to know someone a little bit before massive E-mails are sent. Have fun, post topics that are thought provoking, so you get feedback.
One more thing, if you want to increase your odds of meeting your match, put in your profile, that you may consider relocating if it's an option for you.. This opens a whole new world of opportunity for all.


Peace friends.

Great post...but ...ummm... I hate to mention it, however, call me picky and roll me in playdough...your profile has zip, nada, umm..other than your 45...

Man of mystery?

Or used up all the wordcount for today?

lol calm down jess...dont release the hounds...yet

I'm too busy laughing...

It is a great post...intelligent, interesting....and then my wheels fell off when I went for a snoop...

Awwwww your like a breath of fresh air

By the way welcome to the site and enjoy the forums lots of great people here indeed.



It is up to us what we do with our life. We can either let things take us down. Or we can chose to look around and see we dont have it as bad as some of the others.



No matter how your life may be, there is always someone else that has it twice as worse.

So pick up your HEART dust it off. put on a smile for it will be worthwhile. You will soon see how others will be. When they come your way. To say HI! to you doday!!!!

Massive e-mails? If someone sent me massive e-mails I'd freak out. Keep in mind that the internet is not real life. People are different in person. There are many people in chat that are married. Be wary and no massive e-mails.

that is funny!!!

Profile has been updated snoopy. Massive E-mails meant the men, Mostly, that just search profiles and send out meesages. Kinda like a phone salesman. Interacting in the forums is the best way to let you personality shine and see what makes others tick.

What can I say?

thinking of "jess taquitos" and extra fancy playdough....

haha I just checked out your profile...you still have "no answer" for a lot of things...yep call me nosey rosey, but I like to view people, what can I say?
I mostly think single life has advantages....not very many disadvantages!! I think its just how you look at things...I find my life very simple and very content. I have great friends, wonderful children, a supportive family, I wake up every single day..what more could I possibly want?
Hey..have a wonderful day

Wheels falling off? Messive a-mails? Married people in chat? Cookie dough? Amazing!

Looks like this site could use a quote feature.

Yes, we adapt, by using profile names, Vocalist, when addressing each other, or cut and paste the portion of the other's post, that one wishes to address.

it took a few of us a while to assimilate the differences also.

And I apologise for my brashness...the moon made me do it.

i do find it hard to just move on and forget but i try to keep a positive outlook. if i keep my mind going on somthing else i dont think about it. laughter does help. but anyways i am new to all this so give more advice where to go to meet people to talk to chat.

Maybe I shoul;d read the rules first. There are some good sites out there, and plenty of ones that suck. Jess, the moon is in full swing isn't it? I learn fast. Time to read the rules.

Rules ya mean we have rules here Shsssssssssshh lmao

Sssssshhh Txsgal, I'm being good....and quiet, and all well behaved...

Txs -- what would be the point in having a penalty box if there were no rules??

Hummmmm don't remind me of the penalty box You do know the room service in there sucks don't ya lmao



Hummmmmmmmmmmm Jess I told ya not to look at the full moon after midnight see what it did to your Ssssssssssshhhhhhss left you stunned and speechless oohh nooo help someone put her back to normaly lmao