Topic: How does one know if they are in Lust or Love?
sidpandey1121's photo
Fri 08/15/14 06:21 AM
Lust or Love?

Astrid's photo
Fri 08/15/14 06:33 AM
If you know yourself well...you can see and feel the difference. Love is divine, Lust is one of the seven deadly sins. Your choice!

msharmony's photo
Fri 08/15/14 06:37 AM
love is a giving emotion , it is fulfilled through seeking and wanting the best of happiness and health for another

lust is a taking emotion, it is fulfilled through seeking and wanting our own physical gratification,,,,


if you often can and do picture things like their smile, or growing old together, or light up and feel joy spending platonic times together,,,,its a good chance its love

if you mostly picture nothing but how good a kisser they are or when you can next have sex,,,, its probably a good chance its lust

TBRich's photo
Fri 08/15/14 06:42 AM
Moons and Junes and Ferris wheels,
The dizzy dancing way that you feel
As every fairy tale comes real,
I've looked at love that way.

But now it's just another show,
You leave 'em laughing when you go
And if you care, don't let them know,
Don't give yourself away.

I've looked at love from both sides now
From give and take and still somehow
It's love's illusions I recall
I really don't know love at all

joni mitchell

dreamerana's photo
Fri 08/15/14 07:11 AM
You posted like 7 topics within the last 24 hours.
what im thinking is that you are looking for ideas to help you justify something going on in your life.

many if the answers you are receiving are more related to the western world and don't take into account the accepted norms of your culture and/or belief system.
the answer to this and all of the questions you have posted lies within yourself.

how do you know if it's live or lust. love is about wanting the best for someone else, sometimes to the pointvof being self sacrificing.
if I have love for someone and for whatever reason their best interest is not with me. I will step aside and be happy for their happiness.
lust is about satisfying a sexual need and moving on .

no photo
Fri 08/15/14 07:12 AM

love is a giving emotion , it is fulfilled through seeking and wanting the best of happiness and health for another

lust is a taking emotion, it is fulfilled through seeking and wanting our own physical gratification,,,,


if you often can and do picture things like their smile, or growing old together, or light up and feel joy spending platonic times together,,,,its a good chance its love

if you mostly picture nothing but how good a kisser they are or when you can next have sex,,,, its probably a good chance its lust

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