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Topic: Casual sex?
kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Tue 08/12/14 02:54 PM Edited by kc0003 on Tue 08/12/14 02:51 PM
There is nothing wrong with a person choosing to refrain from casual sex if that person wishes to do so. agreed, but conversely, the same is true, if that is what the person wishes to do. it's all about personal choice.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48965	Tue 08/12/14 02:54 PM
There is nothing wrong with a person choosing to refrain from casual sex if that person wishes to do so. agreed, but conversely, the same is true, if that is what the person wishes to do. it's all about personal choice. In a general forum such as this one, I'm not going to badmouth a person for choosing to have casual sex.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Tue 08/12/14 03:02 PM
There is nothing wrong with a person choosing to refrain from casual sex if that person wishes to do so. agreed, but conversely, the same is true, if that is what the person wishes to do. it's all about personal choice. In a general forum such as this one, I'm not going to badmouth a person for choosing to have casual sex. not suggesting you were.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48965	Tue 08/12/14 03:03 PM
For some of you that say wait,lets be real now,how long are you willing to "wait",sopose you're "waiting for that "specail person"for years on years,you mite aswell be F&%#en priest or nun ,for those that want to go head and"wait",am going F¥£¢% the S&%T out of some P£€$¥,nothin wrong with waitng but JESUS,not for F£€¥$%G ever lol wow. you seem pretty upset about what other people choose to do in their sex life. Yeah. If you personally want to have sexual intercourse, and if your personal standard for determining right from wrong will permit it, then go for it. Just don't badmouth others who have chosen not to do so.

fleta_n_mach Joined Tue 06/24/14 Posts: 3509	Tue 08/12/14 03:04 PM Edited by fleta_n_mach on Tue 08/12/14 03:05 PM
A casual relationship can develop into a serious one and I think that's how most relationships start these days. Most people won't say that they're in a relationship without it having been a sexual relationship for some time. Developing feelings for a prostitute is not likely to have a fairy tale ending though and could totally do your head in and make you feel crappy about yourself. At least if it's just a matter of sexual atraction you know that there's something that they like about you and out of all of the people that they could have had sex with they chose you. That's not bad for starters. Some prostitutes may enjoy it and have prefered clients but how can you tell? If they're good they will seem to enjoy it and like you and that's how they get regulars. Also, if I have casual sex with someone it's always more than just sex and unless you're a jerk or agree that it's just a one night stand there's the expectation that they're going to call you and I think that most people that do it don't actually sleep around and they want some sort of exclusive relationship. I was in an on and off casual relationship myself for years and that only ended when she met someone else. We did all of the boyfriend/ girlfriend things apart from living together and it wasn't all about sex and there were some "strings" but she wanted to just call it an FWB thing and I went along with that. I think that we both probably had good intentions at the start but it just didn't work out and that's the way that it goes sometimes. You can have a great sex life and even love each other but just not work as a couple. That's a completely different kettle of fish from going with a prostitute. I agree. how are you to know if you are starting out casual what the future will hold? could go either way Casual one night stands, mean no communication, no relationship. From what I gather. No answer, is an answer. No phone call.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 08/12/14 03:15 PM Edited by Awatersign on Tue 08/12/14 03:19 PM
For some of you that say wait,lets be real now,how long are you willing to "wait",sopose you're "waiting for that "specail person"for years on years,you mite aswell be F&%#en priest or nun ,for those that want to go head and"wait",am going F¥£¢% the S&%T out of some P£€$¥,nothin wrong with waitng but JESUS,not for F£€¥$%G ever lol wow. you seem pretty upset about what other people choose to do in their sex life. Or noooooo,you completely misunderstood me,i was under the impression that people who having casual sex was the one thats wrong,you should haver read all the post leading up to this one,the proof is there,i felt like people who do that was being judged by it,and i dont like being judged by that,if someone want to wait ,thats cool,but dont look down on someone or judge them because they dont want too,so you're sayin just the opposit!!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 08/12/14 03:17 PM
I am curious how many who are supportive of 'casual sex', or sex based merely on an initial chemistry,, are equally supportive of prostitution, or sex based merely on monetary gain? Not a judgement in any way. I don't believe in the whole 'casual sex' thing, but in perspective, I fail to see how prostitution is better or worse than casual sex for free. I fear for the safety of prostitutes of course, but I don't look down upon them. If a person is not in a relationship,then casual sex is the next best thing,besides who wants to play with themselfs all the time,sure its safe sex but come on! And why can't one wait? Is sex a necessity? People choose to wait or don't wait. It's up to them whatever they want to do with their bodies. One would hope they are safe.

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Tue 08/12/14 03:27 PM
Casual sex.......Nah screw dat...

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 08/12/14 03:30 PM
For some of you that say wait,lets be real now,how long are you willing to "wait",sopose you're "waiting for that "specail person"for years on years,you mite aswell be F&%#en priest or nun ,for those that want to go head and"wait",am going F¥£¢% the S&%T out of some P£€$¥,nothin wrong with waitng but JESUS,not for F£€¥$%G ever lol wow. you seem pretty upset about what other people choose to do in their sex life. Yeah. If you personally want to have sexual intercourse, and if your personal standard for determining right from wrong will permit it, then go for it. Just don't badmouth others who have chosen not to do so. Sound to me this whole thread was to bash people THAT want to have it without waiting,if its sopose to pe a personlal thing then why is it even a topic?I people want to wait the wait,but dont try to make .know feel guilty like waiting makes you some kind of saint ect!!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 08/12/14 03:33 PM
Casual sex.......Nah screw dat... What do they call it in AUS? Pulling a buuurd

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48965	Tue 08/12/14 03:35 PM
We have gone way off topic. The OP asks the following: I am curious how many who are supportive of 'casual sex', or sex based merely on an initial chemistry,, are equally supportive of prostitution, or sex based merely on monetary gain? How about we stick to answering that question.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 08/12/14 03:39 PM


mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Tue 08/12/14 03:41 PM
Casual sex.......Nah screw dat... What do they call it in AUS? Pulling a buuurd Morning Mariah.. thats a bit english, they used to say that here...my fav used to be ...scoring...as in sport.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 08/12/14 03:53 PM
All i was TRYING to say,while" waitngt"is good,dont expect EVERYBODY to be able to just do that,nobody's perfect and every situation is difrient,and casual sex does'nt mean sleeping with EVERYONE you meet,so people who have casual sex are the ones being judged or put down here,NOT the ones that wait,stop getting it twistted!................................

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45426	Tue 08/12/14 04:02 PM
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MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 08/12/14 04:35 PM
Casual sex.......Nah screw dat... What do they call it in AUS? Pulling a buuurd Morning Mariah.. thats a bit english, they used to say that here...my fav used to be ...scoring...as in sport. Ahh so it is a game men play with us.

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Tue 08/12/14 05:40 PM
Casual sex.......Nah screw dat... What do they call it in AUS? Pulling a buuurd Morning Mariah.. thats a bit english, they used to say that here...my fav used to be ...scoring...as in sport. Ahh so it is a game men play with us. hehe it's a game I used to play.....before I found self respect.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48965	Tue 08/12/14 06:13 PM
All i was TRYING to say,while" waitngt"is good,dont expect EVERYBODY to be able to just do that,nobody's perfect and every situation is difrient,and casual sex does'nt mean sleeping with EVERYONE you meet,so people who have casual sex are the ones being judged or put down here,NOT the ones that wait,stop getting it twistted!................................ As far as I can tell, nobody is putting anybody down in this thread. Now, can we please go back to the original question of the OP? Here it is again: I am curious how many who are supportive of 'casual sex', or sex based merely on an initial chemistry,, are equally supportive of prostitution, or sex based merely on monetary gain?

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 08/12/14 06:14 PM
Casual sex.......Nah screw dat... What do they call it in AUS? Pulling a buuurd Morning Mariah.. thats a bit english, they used to say that here...my fav used to be ...scoring...as in sport. Ahh so it is a game men play with us. hehe it's a game I used to play.....before I found self respect. self-realization is a powerful thing.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 08/12/14 07:04 PM
I for one do not pay for sex.. . well there was that time at the massage parlor..hmm.. . does that count.?.lmao .ok.. where was I.. oh yeah . being paid for sex... .. yes I always enjoy that part.. . when they had over that cash...